Hi all,
I am the "pathetic" guy.
Not as pathetic as the guy of Jamaican origin that had been fing my now Ex wife for 2 and a half years. The Jamaican origin guy that hid in his house when I went to confront him. The guy that then hid in a supermarket when I met him with one of the children of one of his many women 18 months later, stared him down and then waited outside. The guy that folded the second I threatened to slap him with a legal bill.
My now ex wife still lives with me and does anything and everything I want, whenever I want it.
This "pathetic" guy got everything he could have from what happened.
If someone searches for the other guy's name, his reputation is trashed and he spent his own $$ trying to get it back - he failed in that as miserably as he has failed in everything in his life except for managing to fk slut white women.
Hope none of you ever go through what I did. If you do, that forum will be of help.