I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/

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thegreatwb said:
Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.
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Sometimes I'd be at work during lunch and just read the threads on the main page

It's like everyday a new story of wives cheating on their husband

Married for such and such years
Suspects that she's cheating
Find out that she's getting smashed by coworker
Confronts her... She begs him to stay
Gives her one more chance
She cheats again

Cycle repeats



It's like every story is the same :wtf: :snoop:
 
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Ben De Toy said:
As it stands, I don't really trust her and I do check on her. She takes pictures with her phone etc but I also know she can't be trusted.

I don't really care. I'm a different man than the one that found out 2 years ago. I've learned that getting another women is easy; I respect my ex both more and less than when I found out.
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I hope you get custody of your kids through court. Get everything on paper. Putting them first is very important. After a long while knowing each of you is in the same place is going to make you sick. If you are going to take the high road make sure you go all the way and not get jealous for all she has done to you. Remember, jealousy is like drinking poison and waiting for the other person to die.
 
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thegreatwb said:
Betrayed by the two most important men in my life...What should I do?

I will try to keep this as short as possible if I can. I have been lurking on this forum for a few months now because I suspected my husband was being unfaithful to me. We have been married for a few years now and we have 2 beautiful daughters together. He started acting strange a couple months ago by not wanting to have sex with me and wanting to be alone a lot more. I thought he was cheating on me so I have been monitoring his email and phone and he has not called anyone out of the ordinary. I have never been that close to my parents but my husband has always been closer to them and they seemed to like him.

On Valentine's day, I got the news. When I came home from work, my husband was sitting on the couch with my father. I thought it was awkward because I wanted to be alone with my husband on Valentine's. They told me to sit down because they had something to tell me. I sat down and nothing could prepare me for what I was about to hear. MY husband told me that he has been sleeping with my father for the past 4 months and that he was in love with him. At first I thought it was a joke but they were both dead serious. Once I realized they were serious, I freaked out and started going crazy. My father calmed me down but I spit in his face. He tried to make it seem like everything was going to be ok and I should accept their relationship if I really love them. Words cannot describe how much this has hurt me. I had no idea my husband was gay and even then, I would never expect for him to sleep with my father. My father is separated right now because of the situation but my mom had no idea this was going on either.

After fighting and screaming, I finally left the house and I am staying with my girlfriend. My little girls are with that monster now but when I talked to them, they were safe and didn't know about the situation. I talked to my husband on the phone today and he says that he wants to move out and get a apartment with my father to start a new life. I swear they are both like 2 brand new people to me and I am devastated. He also said that he wants to give him custody of the girls so they can stay with him. I said hell no and he threatened to make things much harder for me if I don't comply.

What should I do? I am totally lost and the past 2 days have been a nightmare. I could have never saw this coming and I would have much prefered my husband to cheat with another woman than to violate me like this. I totally hate my father now and I have not spoken to him since that day. MY mother doesn't seem to surprised since she said that my father had a similar episode before in their marriage. I have no idea what that means because she didn't give me the whole story. Please somebody help me with some advice.
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This takes the cake , has got to be the WOAT infidelity story gawd damn:damn:
 
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Here's one from the chick who's husband is with her dad. I had to laugh at the bolded as bad as it sounds.

So I've had the chance to speak to a few lawyers and I had to repeat my story to each one twice because they couldn't believe it. According to what I've been told, no judge in the country will allow my daughters to stay in that house and I was told that their best shot at keeping them would be for my husband to prove that I'm emotionally unstable. I called him earlier and told him how hurt I was and he did say he was sorry he messed up my life. When I told him that I'm keeping the girls and the law is on my side, he got angry. I hung up the phone and he text me many hurtful things. He said that he's glad he met me so he could meet my father and he also sent me many explicit things about their ongoing relationship. He also said that he was blowing my dad's back out while me and the girls were in the house playing on the wii.

:pachaha:Which of you coli dudes made that troll account?
 
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