This is what I didnt understand. I mean damn you been with her 26 years and staying with her for the kidsHe been with her since 1988
Im good with pics now
How young can them "kids" actually be?
I just found the goat site..http://talkaboutmarriage.com/coping-infidelity/
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How young can them "kids" actually be?
His original post in the other website he said 10 and 15 maybe 2 years ago.This is what I didnt understand. I mean damn you been with her 26 years and staying with her for the kids
How young can them "kids" actually be?
CJ
Your objective semi-troll
From Talkaboutmarriage .
"This is the 3rd month that I have been browsing these forums and now it's time to get some help. We have tried and tried to fix this marriage and it is to the point that I am the only one trying. The camel's back was broken when I agreed to a 3 way with my wife and I was humiliated. Also, I wasn't sure if this was best to post this here or in the sex forum. If this is not the correct place, please move for me.
Sex has been pretty horrible for me and my wife. We have only been married 5 years and for the first 3, sex was great. My wife's sex drive all of a sudden decreased and she had little to no interest in sex. My sex drive soon followed and I never really recovered. She also stopped giving me oral sex about 2 years ago. For the past two years, our sex life has consisted of me giving her oral and me receiving a hand job in return. It wasn't my ideal arrangement but we both were able to climax with this arrangement.
My wife suggested that we try to do some new things to try to rekindle our sex life. She made it seem that I would have some say in what we should do but she had her heart set on having 3 way sex. On top of that, she wanted the 3rd person to be a man from her job. I really didn't feel right doing this but at the same time, I wanted her to be happy. I never suspected her of cheating but I asked her what she knew about the guy. She said that he was a sex guru and he could help to spice up our sex life. I agreed out of desperation.
We had the 3 way last week and it was the most awkward and uncomfortable thing that I ever did in my life. Throughout the entire session, my wife paid more attention to him than me. The only thing good about it was that I saw that she was happy. After about 30 minutes in, she began to give him oral sex. I stopped her and asked how she could do that to him when she didn't do that to me anymore. She said that she wanted to do new things and this is what she wanted. It was very awkward and he just looked at me with a smirk. I was pissed and didn't want to participate anymore.
Some part of me wanted to leave but I couldn't. I also woke up and wondered why the hell I ever agreed with this in the first place. I just laid down on the bed while they continued to have sex. They were then standing on the side of the bed having sex while I was laying there. I watched some more and then turned my head the other way. Without warning, I felt something warm across my back. I had no idea what it was but I knew it wasn't right. By the time I turned around, my wife was laughing hysterically and her co-worker was trying not to laugh. It only took a few seconds to realize that he shot his load all over my back. (CJ's note:
This is the most humiliating thing that has ever happened to me. My wife enjoyed herself and said I shouldn't worry about it. I feel that they somehow set me up and the way that they looked at each other, I think they may have been together before. Now she is living happy and wants to do it again. I wanted to work on our sex life/marriage but now I'm not too sure. Is this some sort of phase she is going through? She is 46 and I just turned 43. I can accept that maybe I can't satisfy her sexually anymore but I can't help but to think that she told him to do that to me. Does this sound like a marriage worth fighting for or should I listen to my gut and believe that she is sleeping with him behind my back and I should pursue a divorce?"
I'm speechless!
@ this thread still going.I had to re-up this story just cause it's been my favourite.
I don't know breh. I think this is some rhyme king level trolling. He was probably trolling the fukk out of everyone on that site and then we found out about it and he saw a chance to double up.
TheArchitect
All Star
EXACTLY.
This dude talking about staying for his kids and setting an example for them, not realizing he is showcasing the wrong ones. The fact is kids observe, absorb, and follow what grown ups do, and if they see you staying in toxic situations like this, they take that in as the correct way of doing things. Just think about it for a second. Through his actions he is telling them that disrespect and mistreatment from women is the norm and a "real man" should just stay and put up with it. That placing a greater value on material possessions than your own self respect and health is the way to go. He is teaching them that a "slut" "whore" and "servant" are not only excellent traits for a wife, but the core part of a mother 
If this man really wanted to help his children, then the very first thing he should have done after he got that divorce was, throw his ex in the :bushes: get custody of his kids, and show them with his actions how a healthy person should live.
I should clarify that all of what I posted is pending on if the kids are actually his
If this man really wanted to help his children, then the very first thing he should have done after he got that divorce was, throw his ex in the :bushes: get custody of his kids, and show them with his actions how a healthy person should live.
I should clarify that all of what I posted is pending on if the kids are actually his
FeloniousMonk
Dont mind me..Im a azzhole
Thats not my point.that DONT MEAN SHYT and doesnt justify HER FUKKING ANOTHER GUY for 2 and a half years
HE IS A BYATCH A$$ for using the kids as LEVERAGE to keep her around
SHE only FELT SORRY cause she got CAUGHT!!
TRUST ME you CAN NEVER REHABILITATE A CHEATER....
I BEEN THERE done THAT.....my baby mother was cheating on me and decided to act "right" only to save face for the fact she aint had shyt and didnt wanna go back to struggling on her own
THAT DUDE fails to realize she is only thier cause it is CONVIENIENT
she feels no remorse she is only UPSET that she couldnt br MORE discreet before getting caught
and its obvious SHE GAVE ZERO FUKKS about the children
just like those single mothers say when they choose to no longer be with their CHEATING BABY DADDIES
"JUST BECAUSE WE GOT KIDS TOGETHER..DONT MEAN WE HAVE TO BE TOGETHER"
Yeah shyts embarrassing when you catch or find ya s/o been cheating.
Dude said FUKK IT…and why kick his wife out…file for divorce..go thru all the b.s.
WHo said the kids knew anything bout the infidelity..hopefully they where left out..
Yeah she fukked up…far as HE is concerned, he still got his kids and a live in babysitter..
Shyt could have been a lot worse…
I guess most of y'all would raise y'all kids alone or along with your family and kick your cheating wife out and restructure your life…
Then when your kids asks wheres mommy, you'll tellem she was a cheating whore who didn't love you and I kicked her out..
Thats for people who follow the bible…
The thing about an indoctrinated simp is these guys think their actions are in their own best interest but really they're just simpin and doing what the chick wants them to do. dude think he's doing it for the kids. all the while he's really just playing the role she wants him to play right now. when she finds his replacement she'll drop him and of course the government will side with the mother. really the only choices are walk away or live at her mercy.This dude talking about staying for his kids and setting an example for them, not realizing he is showcasing the wrong ones. The fact is kids observe, absorb, and follow what grown ups do, and if they see you staying in toxic situations like this, they take that in as the correct way of doing things. Just think about it for a second. Through his actions he is telling them that disrespect and mistreatment from women is the norm and a "real man" should just stay and put up with it. That placing a greater value on material possessions than your own self respect and health is the way to go. He is teaching them that a "slut" "whore" and "servant" are not only excellent traits for a wife, but the core part of a mother
If this man really wanted to help his children, then the very first thing he should have done after he got that divorce was, throw his ex in the :bushes: get custody of his kids, and show them with his actions how a healthy person should live.
I should clarify that all of what I posted is pending on if the kids are actually his
if you've convinced yourself your own exploitation is justifiable you can't take your power back.
Carolina Slim
Superstar
There's this cougar at work that used to be coming at a n1gga, saying all sorts of flirtatious stuff. Her husband works here too, although in a different building on campus. She'd always want to hug on a n1gga when I would walk by her desk on my way in from the parking lot. A lot of people who knew her and her husband would be looking at us like
, and even the old head in the mailroom stepped to me about it. But at the time I never knew anything about the husband working there. So one day in the course of conversation she told me how he was her first, he's all she's ever known. And that was where I got it; she never got the ho out her system. I had been trying to figure out why she was coming at me so hard and always talking real greasy about her husband. She even told me how son was weeping when they renewed their vows.
