She won't cheat again and get away with it. She has attempted suicide to get me to stay. I don't care if she does. Do you get that?
To me bringing my kids up is more important than pride over something that happened in the past and the woman is unbelievable sorry for.
She is more or less my servant now. Does anything for me. I have always been very close to my kids. They see what my ex has been through to "keep" me. They see that she treats me with 100% real respect.
What you guys don't seem to get is that I've taken the tough choice. Broken a cycle so my children won't make the same choices.
Being a man isn't about talking crap and telling folk they are betas. It's about delivering on stuff. Keeping a family together. Making hard choices.
I have a good life. Do you get that? I earn a lot of money. My ex wife adores me. My kids love me. I have a great house.
I can look any man in the eye and tell him that. I didn't cut and run. I won't have kids by different women and my children won't think that's normal.
My family have done everything from visiting Disneyland 5 times to stroking whales, to swimming with dolphins and giant turtles, seeing Israel; Egypt; the African Jungle; Paris; sailing, kayaking; owning a pony. We keep chickens and ducks. Sometimes get snowed in. Build snowmen. Watch movies together.
They have material stuff, great lives, a mother that loves them. No neighbours. A lifestyle that is the envy of many people - whatever their colour.
Finally, they have a father that is always there for them. That doesn't live somewhere else and visits for the weekend or whenever their skank mother can fit things in because the court system hates men.
You may all think your lives are great, but maybe your priorities are different from mine.
I've never been in your situation and I can't judge you but from what I've learned from both my parents and in my short life experience is that I can't do it. Divorce isn't a bad thing, in fact divorce is a civil right and used in special cases. I know you don't want to lose your kids and that is quite admirable but I'm not sure if what you are doing is the best thing. For your own well-being and the well-being of your family.
I've never been married so I can't really speak on it too much. I just think you need to leave her and fight for the kids. She adores you because she's doing it out of survival and for the fact she doesn't want to lose any leverage. Leave her, it isn't easy but freakin' leave her now![DOUBLEPOST=1397414730][/DOUBLEPOST]
She tried to drive a car into the wall when I was in it. She couldn't because I stopped her.
She won't do it with the kids in because she used it as a method of trying to control me so I cited it in the divorce.
LEAVE HER AND DIVORCE HER. LEAVE HER IN RUINS YOU PENDEJO!
I was trying not to judge but you need to leave her now......I can't believe you are like 50. Even at 15 I wasn't as stupid as you were.
I will be as adult and logical as I can. She HATES YOU. SHE KNOWS YOU ARE A SIMP AND SHE PROBABLY DOESN'T GIVE 2 FLYING S***TS ABOUT YOU. YOU CAN'T GE THAT THAT THRU YOU THICK, STUPID LITTLE HEAD.
You should leave her, this isn't about kids, this is your ability to control and know what she does. I hope I am wrong but that is what you are portraying yourself doing. I agree with one of the posters, she's a danger to your kids and to you. That is nice that she's getting help but she's sucking you dry. Your kids should be the only ones enjoying your money and your house in the countryside, not her. She doesn't deserve a dime of your money. You are cuckold, pendejo and you need to leave her for the the sake of yours.
I hope you I am wrong, I really do! At least I hope your house, your assets, and all investments are under the name of your and your kids. Your puta of wife should rot and not enjoy any of your hard work.
I needed this laugh 
i missed another gem. Where is the thread
