I just got a vasectomy. AMA.

[Coli Bot]

I will never do this. It's like a lion cutting his MANE and plucking his teeth out

#GYALFIBREED

Yeah well I hope your taking care of all these kids your bringing into the world

 

[humminbird]

Did you freeze your sperm just in case?
I kinda want one but I hear doctors refuse to do it if you’re too young
I just want to avoid child support doc

 

[desjardins]

Can you talk about the consultation?
I talked to my primary doctor and he gave me a bunch of cards of urologists and said to just call them and tell them what I want and I can go there the 1st day and get it done in 30 minutes and be out . Is it really that simple or is it like a multiple trip type of consultation needed?

Also how long is your recovery going to be? It seem like something I can take Friday off to get it done, chill over the weekend and be back working (sitting in a chair) on Monday

 

[Dont@Me]

I’m super shocked that a doctor agreed to conducting this procedure when you’re only 31. Like really shocked.

But some people are that sure about not wanting kids. Hope that you don’t have a change of heart.

And you should be more "super shocked" that teenagers Who aren't anywhere close to ready for parenthood are having babies every single day

 

[Dont@Me]

I'll respond to the other questions in a bit brehs

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Congrats! It’s a good way to take your reproductive risk into your own hands instead of playing Russian dikk roulette with the p*ssy.

 

[Pseudonym]

I might get my tubes tied after these twins

 

[Solomon Lurke]

Actively working on making this happen next month or so. The wife and I don’t want any kids and also tired of being overly cautious all the time in order to ensure no slip ups.

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[newworldafro]

gonna be awkward when your wife tells you she pregnant next month

 

[southern.girl]

And you should be more "super shocked" that teenagers Who aren't anywhere close to ready for parenthood are having babies every single day

That is shocking as well. I’m not sure why you took offense to my comment. I was more so addressing the doctor that performed tho procedure & not you.

 

[Fletch]

I’m super shocked that a doctor agreed to conducting this procedure when you’re only 31. Like really shocked.

But some people are that sure about not wanting kids. Hope that you don’t have a change of heart.

Are you super shocked about there not being an age limit on abortion? Are they going to tell a 17 year old, don’t abort you might change your mind later. He’s a 31 year old man, he knows what he wants.

The breh for making sure he has the life he wants

 

[southern.girl]

Are you super shocked about there not being an age limit on abortion? Are they going to tell a 17 year old, don’t abort you might change your mind later. He’s a 31 year old man, he knows what he wants.

The breh for making sure he has the life he wants

Okay. I’ll spell it out for y’all. Is OP black? Because I can’t see a doctor okaying a 30 something white woman’s request to get her tubes tied.

 

[So-Chi]

I did this too after my boy and girl. Nothing to prove here‍ OP you might get a little twinge reminder in the balls every once and a while the first year or so.. Not really pain just a "I felt something" moment. Other then that... SPLASH

 

[EarlyEarly]

can one reverse it?
just asking in case one day i decide to get one as well.

Don't know about the reversal thing but in high school I had a teacher that had 3 kids and got a vasectomy and ended up having another kid years later. He doesn't know if it was a shoddy job or it came undone.

 

[Dont@Me]

Looking into this because me and the wife done with kids. How much was it after insurance?

idk yet, but my insurance pays for 85%

So when your gf or a future gf wants children biologically, watcha gonna do brother?

then i'll get rid of the bytch

What’s recovery like?

How long till you can have sex?

We might need you to report back afterwards.

Im supposed to be going to get mine done, had an appointment set before the rona hit, it got canceled and now I’m procrastinating cause I’m scared

finding out about recovery right now. the first day was the worst, now i'm kinda waddling sometimes
people online say no sex in two weeks, but my surgeon said i can have it immediately but just not rough.....although i dont feel like it.

How long were you out of work? I’m gonna get one soon.

i'm actually scheduled to work tomorrow

Did you freeze your sperm just in case?
I kinda want one but I hear doctors refuse to do it if you’re too young
I just want to avoid child support doc

didn't freeze sperm, not interested in that. i've heard of doctors refusing as well, but mine was actually smooth. if you're doing this JUST to avoid child support, it is probably not the best option for you. You have to genuinely not want kids for life, not just to not give a check to a woman because of a kid

Can you talk about the consultation?
I talked to my primary doctor and he gave me a bunch of cards of urologists and said to just call them and tell them what I want and I can go there the 1st day and get it done in 30 minutes and be out . Is it really that simple or is it like a multiple trip type of consultation needed?

Also how long is your recovery going to be? It seem like something I can take Friday off to get it done, chill over the weekend and be back working (sitting in a chair) on Monday

consultation my surgeon mostly bullshytted with me and chatted up. He made me feel comfortable about the situation. They showed me some rinky dink video about vasectomies from the 90's or something to inform me. Then we scheduled it.