I literally get no play from my girl

[Express]

@BIG MCHZE SOSA COLI GOD
Yo describe yall both black, white, u black she mixed? yall hispanic?
paint a clearer picture imma tell you what to do

 

[Action Mike]

All these "what if..." theories don't help and only prolong OPs unhappiness.

It's always the go to argument when calling out the fairer sex on their bs.

I get being invested in a relationship but I'm also not silly enough to stay unhappy.

A brehette would be out in a second with cheerleaders.

This is an open shut case.

PTSD?

So all the other times she was giving it up, where was that?

The things you mofos come up with.

 

[International Playa]

If you been in any longtime relationship, your girl gonna go off sex at some point, the reasons may vary from her being broke, depressed,hormonal birth control fukking up her sex drive, predictable boring sex, etc

However the disrespect shouldnt be tolerated, it should be checked ASAP.

 

[#1 pick]

You said you both are invested in living together which usually means one can’t make it without the other financially….1st MISTAKE. Don’t ever, ever, ever ever ever move in with a female, ever. What I mean by move in with a female is you either moving into her house where she pays the bills or moving into an apt together where you both share the responsibility on coming half with rent/mortgage. The first step in being a man is being able to hold down the fort with your own income, none of her’s. Her income is meant to assist your’s (helping paying bills) but you are the one who pays the bills that count (rent/mortgage)….When a woman knows you need her, she’ll play these games.

There is no way in hell my wife would dare deny me sex for any reason, because she knows I will shut shyt down asap, cut my sex off, cable getting cut…But that doesn’t even happen in my home so it won’t ever get to that point. A man must be the head and sole provider or women will lose respect and get ignorant.

Your woman is cheating, that much is obvious by her being repulsed by you…trust me, she is seeing someone else. If you are not married and have no kids, you would be an idiot to stay in this situation. Leave you idiot.

This man got two women living with him giving him sex like Peter Gunz, op on the other hand

 

[benjamin]

This man got two women living with him giving him sex like Peter Gunz, op on the other hand

not fuking my ex anymore tho...

 

[#1 pick]

Couple observations, we ain't establish if OP is overweight or not....totally diff rules and dynamics for big nikkas

Is the gf white? Totally diff shyt dealing with white bytches....

Op has to leave because once a woman has lost respect for you, it isn't coming back. The complaints about the weed just let me know she has a long and deep list of shyt she doesn't like about you. The weed is just the one where she thought the therapist would support.

You're both insecure and codependent as exemplified by your fake family life with the animal and the unwillingness to break up, she's cutting you off, you're making threads.

Free yourself, trust the greatness in your future, release the attachment and move the fukk out and move the fukk on. This is stupid.

While respect can be regained if the friendship is there, if it isn't than you might have to bow out of this relationship and just be roomies till your lease is up.

 

[Yo Mama]

Sounds like you cheated or something else really big and she hasn't gotten over it.
You say you are loyal to a fault so... It might not be cheating or emotional nomsexual cheating... Whatever it is it seems you are guilty of something and now you feel enough "punishment time" has passed and you want her to get over it and have sex with you???

No back rubs
No hand jobs
No sexy pics during day
No neck
No buns

I talk about it and the answer I get is "you cant go a day without flipping on me i dont feel that way about you. Maybe you can be nice we can be on that level again"

bytch really using this shyt as a tool of punishment.. I even tell her... "Been months nothing should I find another girl to fulfill that aspect?" And there are other girls I could take the leap and get sucked or be fukking but I don't i'm loyal to a fault but whats the point of
Beating my meat constantly when I live with a bytch and boy does she earn every bit of that name.

 

[Arithmetic]

Wow man the OP lost. He should have dropped her the minute the sex stopped. Find a new place to live, take the animal and run... your not married you owe her nothing plus she's probably cheating to boot.

 

[.༼-◕_◕-༽.]

This man got two women living with him giving him sex like Peter Gunz, op on the other hand

 

[BooksnCookies]

Going thru this as we speak...not a cheater I work and make good money....bought a Damn house in San Diego cook clean .. Not flabby.. good dad to our child...8+ inches but got that "I'm not happy" speech couple months ago. Its such bullshyt I work around fine ass women who want the D ....but still staying strong but let three months pass and it's on...fukk them vows

No shade to you or anything, honest. I'm just curious as to the whole "fukk them vows" thing. Why even get married? I've resigned myself to never getting married but it seems like everyone that does and has marital problems gives up so easily.

Material possessions and dikk just might be enough for her. You mentioned you are a good provider, etc but why is she depressed? What if she needs counseling and just wants you to be there or something? If you are married, her mood and expressing her issues to you shouldn't be bullshyt, imo.

Idk, I just find it odd that if a woman (or man) begins acting "off", the spouse wants to cheat and talk about how much their spouse never really mattered in the first place (i.e, look at all these women and/or men I could fukk if I wanted).

Also, why cheat? Why not just get a divorce if nothing changes in those 3 months? I guess with a child involved it complicates things; however, wouldn't it be better for parents to be happy and a part?

 

[Arithmetic]

you wanna know how you dead the whole thing once and for all?.....

the next time she sittin on the couch with her phone, grab it and say let me see right quick....if she yanks it and gets mad, you already know..the real question is, how does she act around that phone?

This. /thread

 

[Arithmetic]

There's someone out there waiting to worship you and vice versa. Go find her. TRUST.

 

[#1 pick]

Look up Benjamin's post history, moved his BM in, his wife wasn't happy about it but she accepted it, then had went into the BM room and had sex with her with no rubber. Living that love and hip hop life.

 

[Arithmetic]

women...once they get complacent it's over...probably one of the reasons I ain't jumped the broom..

Fool me one time, shame on you
Fool me twice, can't put the blame on you
Fool me three times, fukk the peace signs
Load the chopper, let it rain on you

 

[MF budz]

Don't settle for that shyt op. There's bytches out there that will love ya .