I never understand why people who get dumped remain friends

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A lot of people are getting confused I said when you are dumped.

If you get fired from work, are you still going to come in and work hard but not get the benefits that you used to get , instead of finding a new job?

Nah if I'm downgraded I'm gone
 

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I dont call ex's but they can stay on my fb i don't give a shyt.
 

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i told my ex "fukk you and your family, die slow"


she text me the other day wanting to be friends


women aint got it all together
 

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Only one guy I used to talk to that I still fukk w/ and honestly he's just good peeps so after a year or so of not being romantic towards each other it's almost like it never happened, and IMO I'm glad we could still be friends
 

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Thankfully I've never done it before. Not even once. Its the main reason you gotta have a team. When one acts funky, bring in the reserves. Once I bust a nut, I'm not even gonna remember what the old chick looked like.
 

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Thankfully I've never done it before. Not even once. Its the main reason you gotta have a team. When one acts funky, bring in the reserves. Once I bust a nut, I'm not even gonna remember what the old chick looked like.

My homie told me to always have a team. I used to think it was immoral.

But it ended up being the best advice I've ever got. It changes damn near every interaction you have with women. The bigger the bullpen, the more starters can be pulled out of it.:jawalrus:
 

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My homie told me to always have a team. I used to think it was immoral.

But it ended up being the best advice I've ever got. It changes damn near every interaction you have with women. The bigger the bullpen, the more starters can be pulled out of it.:jawalrus:

It really does wonders. Just this week, I lost two of my players (salary cap issues :sadcam:) and I ain't even sweating it. I got 3 more on my bench on some "Put me in coach, I'm ready :krs:"


























































Plus I'm always scouting for new talent :scheme:
 

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My homie told me to always have a team. I used to think it was immoral.

But it ended up being the best advice I've ever got. It changes damn near every interaction you have with women. The bigger the bullpen, the more starters can be pulled out of it.:jawalrus:

Unless you get the rare cy young chick whose pitching every damn day

You need a bullpen
 

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It really does wonders. Just this week, I lost two of my players (salary cap issues :sadcam:) and I ain't even sweating it. I got 3 more on my bench on some "Put me in coach, I'm ready :krs:"

Plus I'm always scouting for new talent :scheme:

:to:
 

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Long story, and it will make me look bad, but I'm in a sharing mood. This chick broke things off with me last year but said she still wanted to be friends. She was moving to a different part of the state and I wanted her in my life so bad that I agreed, hoping that if we stay in contact then we would get back together. That was a mistake on my part.

After she moved I was looking desperate as fukk, calling and/or texting everyday, etc, but she would just brush me off. Then one day I found out she was having sex with another dude, and I should have seen it coming. That hurt deep and we didn't talk for a while, but I didn't learn. I knew she was dating other dudes but she hit me up a few months later and actually blamed me for us not keeping in touch. Even though she was the one who shytted on me, I apologized and tried to explain (but even though it was her fault, I didn't blame her because I was afraid of losing her). Soon after that, I was in her city visiting another friend so me and her met up.

We had what I thought was a meaningful conversation and we agreed to keep in touch more often. I still wasn't over her and I was hoping we would get back together if I moved to her state for a job. Well, I tried to text/call her regularly after the visit but, of course, she started brushing me off again and it hurt just as much as before.

We went another few months without talking but she would randomly text me sometimes. Then a few weeks ago she hit me up and again blamed me for us not keeping in contact. :hmm: I should have used this as a chance to express myself and get a lot of things off my chest, but I bytched up again and tried to avoid blaming her.

I'm kinda disappointed in myself after reading what I just wrote, but she was my first long-term relationship and I learned from it. She wasn't a bad person or anything, and I can admit that I made a lot of mistakes. Trying to remain friends with her was one that I'll never make again.
 

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It's like being in your prime throwing for 5,000 yards 50 Tds a few mistakes we will call interceptions and fumbles :obama: and them being asked to come off the bench because the team thinks it can do better.

Are you ok being healthy in your prime, with great attributes holding th clipboard hoping that some scrub in front of you messes up enough that you get another chance at a team that disrespects you and only kept you around as a backup?

Not me :win:

Stop settling brehs

only time we got along is when we was fukkin...keep that p*ssy on stand by..:leon:
 
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