I never understood why some women would rather do bad all by themselves instead of going 50% on bills.

[Turbulent]

I guess their argument would be that it's not exactly 50% since they still end up doing most of the chores/grocery shopping/cooking. They also get less space and control over their environment which can bring a certain stress/mental load. Plus no time to be alone at home, no complete control over who can or can't come over, always having to check if it's ok to entertain guests, etc...For some, the money they save in a 50/50 deal is not worth it where as if the deal was more like 80/20 they might consider it more.

I SORTA, kinda get it.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

These women dont exist for real. Its online pretend. Just like all the super alpha no tricking, no simping talk. Too many chicks out here going 100/0 with a nikka playing video games and emptying her gas tank for this to be real. They ain't tryna go 50/50 with a dude they arent attracted to.

Yeah I think women are actually more territorial/possessive of the men they're actually attracted to.If you have that "something" they like, women will become the biggest, most tireless tricks.Women, for the most part, are way more picky.When they find something they actually like, they hold on to it like a precious commodity.Indirectly turning their man into a hot commodity with other women.Even if he's not the most physically/financially attractive man.The fact that she's holding on to him so tough, validates him in the eyes of other women.Where there's smoke, there's fire.The ladies are a lot more hive minded in that regard.This is how they get caught up in fighting/competing for the ownership of bum azz dudes.They don't really love the guy.They just become ultra territorial.They don't want to lose the Ken doll they've been taking care of & "cultivating" to the next bytch.And boy do they hate to lose a patched up project to the next bytch :WOW

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

I guess their argument would be that it's not exactly 50% since they still end up doing most of the chores/grocery shopping/cooking. They also get less space and control over their environment which can bring a certain stress/mental load. Plus no time to be alone at home, no complete control over who can or can't come over, always having to check if it's ok to entertain guests, etc...For some, the money they save in a 50/50 deal is not worth it where as if the deal was more like 80/20 they might consider it more.

I SORTA, kinda get it.

Dog when I was married I had to literally stop buying new clothes because my ex wife took up all the closet space with her shyt. All the extra space in the house was taken up by her stupid shyt she barely thinks about. This post is hilarious to me. Women are always wanting new shyt that you don't really need. Women have really mind fukked a whole generation of men out here into thinking we do the shyt they do. Projecting is definitely a female trait. I been with my new girl for two years, folks asking me when we gonna move in together and I tell them all the time I'm good with separate households. It is STRESSFUL living with a woman.

 

[maxamusa]

Dog when I was married I had to literally stop buying new clothes because my ex wife took up all the closet space with her shyt. All the extra space in the house was taken up by her stupid shyt she barely thinks about. This post is hilarious to me. Women are always wanting new shyt that you don't really need. Women have really mind fukked a whole generation of men out here into thinking we do the shyt they do. Projecting is definitely a female trait. I been with my new girl for two years, folks asking me when we gonna move in together and I tell them all the time I'm good with separate households. It is STRESSFUL living with a woman.

Currently fighting about this RN



my bytch might be a hoarder.....cause of this shyt she hanging on2 she will NEVER wear.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Currently fighting about this RN



my bytch might be a hoarder.....cause of this shyt she hanging on2 she will NEVER wear.

Talking about can't have over company, NAH she will invite any of her friends over whenever, let you invite one of yo potnas over to watch the game and she gone throw a fukking fit saying 'she can't be comfortable in her own house.', but when she invite over her homegirls you gotta go in the room and play the game or something to have any peace. Bruh I am in NO RUSH to co habitate with a woman again, I like to be able to fukk them maybe let them stay the night then they can leave and leave me at peace.

 

[maxamusa]

Talking about can't have over company, NAH she will invite any of her friends over whenever, let you invite one of yo potnas over to watch the game and she gone throw a fukking fit saying 'she can't be comfortable in her own house.', but when she invite over her homegirls you gotta go in the room and play the game or something to have any peace. Bruh I am in NO RUSH to co habitate with a woman again, I like to be able to fukk them maybe let them stay the night then they can leave and leave me at peace.

I do a guys night a couple times a year and send my bytch and the kids packing

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I dont know, with my children's father I didnt pay for anything when we were dating unless I bought him a gift. So I never really experienced 50/50 tbh



The price to pay was almost my sanity so I could maybe try it

 

[PartyHeart]

do bad all by yourself… is not just about saving money. It is about mental wellbeing. Its about keeping your home a haven. Avoiding emotional abuse and for some women physical abuse. I know several chicks that ended up in a far worse situation due to the (dysfunctional) relationship. Although most want to find a partner…. Some know they make bad selections in partners and will have a train wreck.

Beyond that it’s the laundry , cooking, cleaning up after someone.

Not sure if this thread is even a genuine attempt at seeing the female side of things. But the above is the answer. Women are basically saying the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. Whether you or I or anyone thinks that’s correct or not or even a smart assessment really makes no difference because they get to choose how to live their life. Choosing better is usually all the rave, so idk what the problem is.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

@MoonGoddess I do great all by myself. I have more money in my pocket, I have peace in my home, AND my son lives with me full time. Getting away from my ex wife and not living with a woman is the best decision I ever made for me and my lil man.

 

[7th Letter Specialist]

Tbh. I’d rather them do this than get w/ a niigga they don’t like just to utilize him

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

I do a guys night a couple times a year and send my bytch and the kids packing

Nah my son stays, lil man hangs with the boys. His mama had to go though. I aint raising no soft ass mamas boy over here, especially considering my son isn't even 5 yet and is already over 4 feet tall. His ass gonna be like 6'8 or 6'9 at the rate he growing, gonna get his ass on the basketball court or that baseball diamond and see what he got. He also gonna box and learn how to fight just like his daddy too.

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Don't even get me started on how much toilet paper women run through. Me and my son can make 4 rolls of toilet paper last nearly 2 months. My girl and my step daughters came through and stayed the weekend, they ran through 4 rolls of toilet paper in 2 days. The shyt is MIND BLOWING how much they use. Roll off like 15 sheets of toilet paper just to wipe after they pee and shyt, no regard at all for how wasteful they are. You don't need to use that much fukking toilet paper. I get they gotta wipe after everytime they use it that's fine, but 10 gto 15 sheets everytime they use the bathroom is insane, I told my girl they gotta buy toilet paper before they come over now because of how much they use.

 

[Savvir]

The women who choose to do bad by themselves don't have the relationship skills or ability to attract a decent mate in the first place...

so the relationships they step into are gonna be a shytload of stress and drama...

they really have no choice but to be alone.....



any woman who has the skillset and mentality to attract a good mate...

and maintain a healthy relationship, isn't arguing about this stuff in the first place

they too busy enjoying life with their partner...

 

[Peruvian Connect]

Because they are doing it by themselves. They contributing the same shiit the dude is and the dude expects way more out of her than he's willing to give her,

 

[Peruvian Connect]

shyt never made sense to me. Like if all yo bills add up to $3400, you'd save $1700/month if you just split it with a man. Just think with what you could do with $1700. If you asked me, anybody under $150k should be splitting the bills.

That's fine if yall are roomates. But a couple , nah