I really don't get how some of you guys complain about getting women when all you have to...

[Unknown Poster]

Is be nice and funny. And respectable and make her the center of attention.

When I'm on a date with a chick I want to see here smiling without having to do some lame simp garbage like "telling her to smiile". I want her to smile just because my witty unpredicated talent and natural game make her smile.

I want a woman who accentuates my flyness...who's proud to have me as her man. Who's proud to introduce me to her friends cause she thinks I'[m cool enough to be in their company.

Like where does all the women bashing come from? Yesterday, I was skating around brooklyn and just giving women a smile wink, and nod and getting mad results (ofcourse I got a haircut...but)

I'll just say it....not to even sound like a dikk. The majority of the men of the coli need to learn how to deal with women. And stop complaining on here.

We have women offereing you advice and you ain't taking it/
You think you impressing people with your "women in the kitchen" jokes and it just makes you loook like a pathetic loser.
You create all of these self-pitying woe is me "why don't women like me" type threads and that just turns mor4 women away.
You create all of these weird conspiracies about how women are against you cause of your height and it reads 100%

YOU try ty control and maniiupate women./..but can't come to the terms that if she ain't feeling you...she ain't feeling you/.

Stop having crushes unless you want to get your feelings crushed,
IF you get rejected...onto the next one.

IT's okay to be in the friend zone for a little bit to even establish if a woman is worth a damn in your life.


And this goes back to what @InDePickWest was talking about about men being in competition with instagram thots. Why are you complaining about beautiful wome? Why are you complaining about sluts? Women will do what they want and there's NOTHING you can do about it. Tough story.

Why are you focusing on what other dudes are doing....focus on what YOU are doing! And that's that.

Women are not automatically entitled to like you cause you are a man.
And just cause you got money doesn't exactly meanl you are a chick magnet.

Some of the most beautiful women I have been involved with was because I was broke. But rich in spirirt and they found me interestinhg.

IF you are a good, tall, in shape black man...you should NOT be complaiing about trying to bag women. Seriously. I know I really don't have to try anymore. But seriously, I'm focusing on music and women can wait even though my sex life has been great...that's not what I want. I want fame and fortune!

 

[Unknown Poster]

I'm not gonna brag, but I could get the number of any woman I want....but sometimes I get too nervous of my own abilitties. I need to stop doing this.

Alot of y'all coli men treat women like subhumans. You don't honor their dreams and goals. YOU think they are only here to entertain you and satisfy you. You seem to neglect how disrespecvtful certain behaviors to womern come off.

I'm trying to model myself as some black james bond type/. There...I said it. A classy gentleman that could wine and dine anywoman from Brownsvillle to the Upper East Side.

I model myself after fashion designers like Alexander McQiueen....I'd see pictures of this nikka surrounded by women.

I want to/...and you should strive to be that cool guy women want to be around. A suave, devonair, intelligent, and absolutely dynamic man of action.

I walk around with that confidence that I truly am a one out of one. Some women want me...but can't handle me...so they get themselves a great value version of myself.


Also...men...just become content with this fact that you will NEVER know what women want and women may never know what we want. Stop trying to cater to others. Cater to yourself.

Don't get a job because women like it...don't take a class cause women like it...don't do anything because women like it...do it cause YOU like it.

 

[onlylno]

Wokeup feeling some type of way hunh?



Most these dudes struggles with women is pretty much frustration with having to go through some arbitrary ritual just to get laid.

It's the absurdity of having to humanize with what they unconsciously only see as a sexual object.

 

[BocaRear]

Misogyny movement we in dis bih

-BocaRear

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

So what about who aren't tall huh?

Us manlets?

 

[BezO]

The woman bashin' comes from keepin' bad company. Some folks, men & women, don't know how to attract what they want. Some don't know what they want.

But I'd never take advice from a woman on how to get women. A woman's perspective is too narrow in that regard. Men have to learn from other men, but men that know what they're doin'. Or learn from experience.

I don't think there's anything wrong with gender roles if both parties are cool with it. I just doubt that today's people are up to it.

Women have preferences. Nothin' wrong with that IMO. But almost all will pass on one area in exchange for another. She likes tall men but falls for a short or average height man because he's funny, smart, etc.

Folks don't realize the more they play, the more the "opponent" plays. Too many folks lookin' outward and not inward.

The friend zone, as most women would describe it is not escapable. You're in that zone because they're not attracted to you. But I'm all for gettin' to know someone. Too many men are pickin' women off looks alone and talk bad about someone that ends up not bein' what they want.

It might be an age thing, but folks spend too much time online. The majority of their experience with women are on social media, so it dominates their thoughts and that's what they talk about. IG, Twitter, FB, snap chat. shyt is not real, but folks put a lot of stock into it.

Money is a magnet for women, but a certain type. You can't use your money to get women and complain about gold diggers.

The effort is in the initiation. A woman will either be into you or not. If a man is constantly failin', he has to look at the common denominator. Himself.

 

[50CentStan]

Its too early for this

 

[InDePickWest]

Wokeup feeling some type of way hunh?



Most these dudes struggles with women is pretty much frustration with having to go through some arbitrary ritual just to get laid.

It's the absurdity of having to humanize with what they unconsciously only see as a sexual object.

That's some true shyt. They already see us as just objects so when we have opinions they lash out at us being human.

p*ssy really do run these nikkas raggedy.

 

[Unknown Poster]

Wokeup feeling some type of way hunh?


Most these dudes struggles with women is pretty much frustration with having to go through some arbitrary ritual just to get laid.

It's the absurdity of having to humanize with what they unconsciously only see as a sexual object

.

And there is the problem in a nutshell.

My main goal is:women wanting to hang out with me...period. all of these arbitrary rituals are meaningless when the women they want to get at can see through it.

I grew up in a family of women....other than my dad. I'd say from grade schoool up until my early years of college I mostly hung out with women. We'd all smoke weed/ We were the only ones in our dorm doing it.

There's nothing wrong with finding wome attractive, there is a problem when you thoroughly dehumanize them as sex objects. I can't do this anymore. Thanks to social media, I realize at any moment a conversatioon between and a woman can go south.

Oh yeah, I think secretely alot fo these guys/hate are intimidated by women that are doing better than themso they try to downplay their accomplishments/.

 

[Unknown Poster]

So what about who aren't tall huh?

Us manlets?

I live in NYC, I see short dudes with tall women damn near all the time. It's like a staus symbol of sorts.

I see short dudes with short women too.
I see ugly and awkaward dudes with women too.

IF you can't eat as a man in NYC, then get the fukk out!

 

[Address_Unknown]

That's just it. Alot of these dudes don't want to be nice and friendly since they see the 6 foot from the zone 6 6certs having 6 series driving, 6 pawg pumping 6head dude with the size 6 Jordans and pine for that archetype they either don't have the economic power to fit or the genetics to attain. Alot of brehs online and off pining like little white girls in the 90's looking at barbie dolls to fit a trope that while nice from a vanity perspective, ain't realistic to all shyt for most dudes, myself included.

I'm never gonna be over 6 feet.
I'm more than likely not going to ever have enough money to splurge when I spend outside of my budgeted moments on Holiday.
Ain't no chick going to look at me and go "I want this dude to just come over, beat it up and leave me leaking and alone" based off my looks.

Does that mean I ain't out here eating? Does that mean alot of other normal cats ain't done found lanes and out here sopping up quality chunks, not dregs of prime trim out here? Nope. But too many of these dudes out here straining to touch shyt they ain't in league with or done had too many bad interactions with bytches and feel better just curling up, throwing all women in the bushes like that and joining that sad Youtube group that that Kent dude and that stutter stupid Calvin cat 'cause they feel a perverted Kinship with other dudes that they can see in themselves who out here missing the bigger picture as well. Strength in numbers, I guess.

If everyone was calling me a fakkit I'd prolly crawl under the first rainbow flag I found too. *Industrial sized pause* These dudes need to get out of that Pity party and start trying to make productive strides towards not only getting cheeks but working on a meaningful relationship 'cause it's actually a bit sad seeing them dudes online...freestyling about not being shyt and talking about "Women create their own killers." Only dudes with their dikks parked in dry dock got the balls to think that sort of shyt and admit it freely. I just hope they don't decide to wrap anyone else up in their own self inflicted misery, though. That Kent been spouting "Lone Wolf" type shyt for a while, prolly tooling up his subliminal on some Elliot Rodgers shyt.

 

[Straw Hat Luffy]

Dudes make a simple situation a complexed one. Most of the girls I smashed just happened.

Dudes be so obsessed with girls and sex. They dictate every move they make, how they act, and talk to get in a girls pants. Then by trying so hard they start growing hatred for women when women never owed duded anything in the first place. This why girls never even want to conversate with those type of guys cause they can feel the creepiness and horniess off a dude.

 

[Unknown Poster]

That's some true shyt. They already see us as just objects so when we have opinions they lash out at us being human.

p*ssy really do run these nikkas raggedy.

It's sad and disgusting how some men are angry at women for doing them. Like why breh? Like I consider myself a manly man but I don't fall under the category of that machismo meathead bullshyt.

It's like they don't want women to think. They want to control them. They want to observe them. They want to follow their footsteps.

REal talk why nikkas gettting mad at women on instagram? why? I swear some of these dudes had no real father figures in their lives to teach them how to respect women.

 

[big bun]

Y'all don't get no bytches...no man that really get bytches writing all that bullshyt y'all writing

 

[Unknown Poster]

Dudes make a simple situation a complexed one. Most of the girls I smashed just happened.

Dudes be so obsessed with girls and sex. They dictate every move they make, how they act, and talk to get in a girls pants. Then by trying so hard they start growing hatred for women when women never owed duded anything in the first place. This why girls never even want to conversate with those type of guys cause they can feel the creepiness and horniess off a dude.

Alot of dudes are perverts and creeps. And your right, women do not want to be around that at all! they want a dude that offers interestimg comversation, would defend them and their honor when/if the time came for it and has something going on for themeselves. They don't want to be around those omega male losers that wacth porn all day and play video games all night.

That's why I don't fukk with that PUA loser garbage. THose cats think that they are entitled to a woman...just cause. Nah. YOU got top work for it

People wonder about me...and the bones of houdini. I post mad pictures of supermodels...cause I think I am a fly ass nikka that could have himself a Joan Smalls, Jourdan Dunn...etc. That inspired me to go back to the gym, get my shyt together, and focus on my wants and desires. Cause there seems to be a nothing more a woman enjoys than a goal oriented and driven man. Especially if they are a goal oriented career woman.

And yea, dudes make simple situations into hard ones by trying to remember what so and so said in the seminar they bought for 50 bucks on how to meet women...if they need that, they need to get a life.