I really don't get how some of you guys complain about getting women when all you have to...

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I skimmed your post but if you substitute women for income/job/career, that's how I wonder at you nikkaz. Like, what are y'all really doing out in the world?:jbhmm:
 

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There is no Friend Zone. I don't know how many times I have to repeat this shyt.

If you're her friend, you're her friend, you will not EVER fukk.

Have some god damn self respect.

That ain't true

But you know what type of nikka you are
And whether u fukk or not
 

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Dudes be so obsessed with girls and sex. They dictate every move they make, how they act, and talk to get in a girls pants
This was my problem. I was trying to calculate instead of letting shyt happen. shyt was unnecesary. Id be thinking, say this. Oh she said this. Say something like this. Do exactly this. But I changed myself completely. No success yet, but I'm optimistic. :yeshrug:
 

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Wokeup feeling some type of way hunh?

:russ:

Most these dudes struggles with women is pretty much frustration with having to go through some arbitrary ritual just to get laid.

It's the absurdity of having to humanize with what they unconsciously only see as a sexual object.
I've never read truer words. When the object reveals there is more to it than what they want it for...BAM! Frustration, resentment, irritation.
 

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This is thecoli breh.. most of us ain't out here bashing women in real life. Half the time this shyt is just for jokes and funny, like if some dude's wife got 5 male best friends and he finds out she been fukking them/fukked them in the past we roast that dude.

Plus relationships, dating and marriage ain't looking right in western society. Dudes losing their families, cars, homes, money, etc after divorce. That shyt ain't something I'm happily anticipating. And a lot of women out here be doing shyt to give us stuff to complain about. Yeah, move on to the next one but it's still a waste of time and energy filtering through mad chicks to find one that's about her shyt, ain't playing games, juggling multiple dudes, got an ex or someone lingering in the background etc.

And a lot of dudes on thecoli ain't top tier dudes most women are chasing after. Most women are chasing after top tier dudes and don't even mind sharing them. Dudes that don't have the looks, swag, money, status, wealth ain't really eating out here.

A lot of the complaining and going in on women is the fact that what we've been taught from a young age about women was a total lie. And everyday we gotta break down that programing and reconstruct.
 

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That's some true shyt. They already see us as just objects so when we have opinions they lash out at us being human.

p*ssy really do run these nikkas raggedy.
When do men going around saying ":jbhmm: hmm she has an opinion, fukk dat bytch! :damn::damn::damn:"
 

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Not everyone is an alpha man. Most nikkas are versions of other nikkas. They're not even their own man yet. Telling them to "do you" is profound because they don't even know they are. I'm a weird ass black kid who likes weird shyt.

I'm not tall. Talented. Or successful. I'm confident as fukk and I stay choosing. All the girls I get are fine and well educated. I always attract the cool kids too. A decade of alienation gave me supreme confidence. Only thing that phases me in dating is heart break and I just gotta keep my heart out of it and I'm good.

I'm currently talking to the three of the finest and coolest girls in my part of town. My shoes have holes in them as do all my pants. I bike everywhere now. How'd I do it? I've always had a scenester style. Tumblr girls love that shyt. I am who I am no matter what.

I mob my yellow bike through the hood singing the beach boys terrorizing pedestrians and pulling beezies. Life is good right now. Lol. I can't lie.
 

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Not everyone is an alpha man. Most nikkas are versions of other nikkas. They're not even their own man yet. Telling them to "do you" is profound because they don't even know they are. I'm a weird ass black kid who likes weird shyt.

I'm not tall. Talented. Or successful. I'm confident as fukk and I stay choosing. All the girls I get are fine and well educated. I always attract the cool kids too. A decade of alienation gave me supreme confidence. Only thing that phases me in dating is heart break and I just gotta keep my heart out of it and I'm good.

I'm currently talking to the three of the finest and coolest girls in my part of town. My shoes have holes in them as do all my pants. I bike everywhere now. How'd I do it? I've always had a scenester style. Tumblr girls love that shyt. I am who I am no matter what.

I mob my yellow bike through the hood singing the beach boys terrorizing pedestrians and pulling beezies. Life is good right now. Lol. I can't lie.

Do you think you fare as well if you were more "normal"? Like if you just dressed conservatively, worked a regular job, and just did typical stuff like play basketball (not well) and video games, and went to bars and clubs with your boys.

I'm asking that because many of us are just "regular" and we don't have anything that sticks out that would make an attractive chick with stuff going for her interested. I think the reason I did well with hoodrats in small towns is because I was "different" and they had little exposure to professional type dudes, so it was basically a green light for them get down. But at this phase in my life, I'm just extra regular to a lot of the chicks I'm pursuing. I'm happy with my life and don't feel any need to change for women, but I think chicks do overlook me unless I'm far superior to them in either looks or money.
 
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