I stumbled onto Black Pill YouTube and...

[Mr Hate Coffee]

I think what's causing this issue is that society lied to them.

Imagine everyone is telling you, "You just need to be funny and confident and you can get the girl of your dreams!"

Then here comes some guy who neither of those qualities and your dream girl throws herself at him just because of his looks.

And then you get told to lower your standards which implies that looks matter even though society told you they DON'T.

Combine that with a little mental illness sprinkled in and this is what you get.

If you want to fix the "incel" problem, we need to start being HONEST about dating and what women actually want.

None of this is new tho. The whole nice guys finish last trope been going on since television was created.

Honestly the first lesson a man should learn is that the world owes you nothing. You better get your bread up and stop whining

 

[chosenaledge13]

All this pill shyt is so pitiful

What happened to just being a fukkin man and taking your L's, not joining a quazi-cult of other weak minded men to make you feel better?

I've taken my share of L's but the worst thing to me had always been to follow another man's ideology for my own life.

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

All this pill shyt is so pitiful

What happened to just being a fukkin man and taking your L's, not joining a quazi-cult of other weak minded men to make you feel better?

I've taken my share of L's but the worst thing to me had always been to follow another man's ideology for my own life.

The breakdown of communities is causing this. Black pill and mgtow is no different than anime weebs, gangbangers, alt-right militia dudes, hell even junkies are looking for a sense of communities.

a man needs to take their L's and follow their own lead but men also need to feel like they are a part of something. The lack of communities, the fact that most jobs are shytty with no prospects for advancement, and the old family unit (wife, 2 kids and a house wit a dog) is out of reach for more and more men.

 

[PL368Z]

Got no sympathy for them, most of them are little fascist c*nts.

Anyway imagine not getting you dikk wet in this day and age, like the effort alone should've gotten you a few sympathy fukks.

 

[semicko82]

The breakdown of communities is causing this. Black pill and mgtow is no different than anime weebs, gangbangers, alt-right militia dudes, hell even junkies are looking for a sense of communities.

a man needs to take their L's and follow their own lead but men also need to feel like they are a part of something. The lack of communities, the fact that most jobs are shytty with no prospects for advancement, and the old family unit (wife, 2 kids and a house wit a dog) is out of reach for more and more men.

Good point

 

[semicko82]

Got no sympathy for them, most of them are little fascist c*nts.

Anyway imagine not getting you dikk wet in this and age, like the effort alone should've gotten you a few sympathy fukks.

I would argue it might be harder in this day and age

 

[EndDomination]

A lot of people on here like to virtue signal or gaslight when it comes to these things.

Not at all. These are extreme examples. The average “black-pill” incel guy isn’t a 5’2” man-midget. He’s probably a slightly below average height socially awkward weirdo, who thinks he’s found his community.

And a lot of the rejection is in his head.

I can give broad anecdotal examples to show how common these ideas are in relatively average men, but to claim there’s some kind of absolute truth to the incel nonsense is going off the deep end. I realized that during a very short period of time when I was having trouble with women, that it was mostly in my head and I had to move past it.

 

[YouMadd?]

Black Pill is more of a political thing than gender wars based.

Black pill is basically what a nazi cac is.

 

[50CentStan]

I think what's causing this issue is that society lied to them.

Imagine everyone is telling you, "You just need to be funny and confident and you can get the girl of your dreams!"

Then here comes some guy who neither of those qualities and your dream girl throws herself at him just because of his looks.

And then you get told to lower your standards which implies that looks matter even though society told you they DON'T.

Combine that with a little mental illness sprinkled in and this is what you get.

If you want to fix the "incel" problem, we need to start being HONEST about dating and what women actually want.

I think the issue is more about guys (ugly loser types, usually white) wanting girls that are way out of their league (physically and socially). They have some weird complex thinking they deserve those women. When if they just looked in the mirror would realize no you dont. I know a few clowns like that. Like creh u 34 years old. Weirdo, goofy looking. Making ok money. Have zero personality. And you want a 18-21 year old dime

 

[semicko82]

I think the issue is more about guys (ugly loser types, usually white) wanting girls that are way out of their league (physically and socially). They have some weird complex thinking they deserve those women. When if they just looked in the mirror would realize no you dont. I know a few clowns like that. Like creh u 34 years old. Weirdo, goofy looking. Making ok money. Have zero personality. And you want a 18-21 year old dime

So going by your scenario, what if the women in his lane are also out of his lane?

 

[50CentStan]

So going by your scenario, what if the women in his lane are also out of his lane?

What u mean? If they're in his lane then how can they be out of his lane? Or you saying those women choosing up instead of him? If its that, then he gotta keep looking for whoever in his lane and will choose him. There's shytty people in all categories/lanes. And women are guilty of the same thing. But i think blame falls more on the individual thats miserable than society as a whole.

 

[semicko82]

What u mean? If they're in his lane then how can they be out of his lane? Or you saying those women choosing up instead of him? If its that, then he gotta keep looking for whoever in his lane and will choose him. There's shytty people in all categories/lanes. And women are guilty of the same thing. But i think blame falls more on the individual thats miserable than society as a whole.

My bad I worded it wrong.
I meant what if the women in his lane are rejecting him also

 

[50CentStan]

My bad I worded it wrong.
I meant what if the women in his lane are rejecting him also

Just theorizing here. But i would assume hes probably still not looking for ladies in his lane. And if he indeed is and still getting rejected i think the lesson is not everyone is compatible with 1 another even if you match physically and socially. You gotta keep looking until you find whos right for you. Being rejected shouldnt be the end or life changing

 

[semicko82]

Just theorizing here. But i would assume hes probably still not looking for ladies in his lane. And if he indeed is and still getting rejected i think the lesson is not everyone is compatible with 1 another even if you match physically and socially. You gotta keep looking until you find whos right for you. Being rejected shouldnt be the end or life changing

Real shyt
I hear that a lot on the Coli. That dudes are chasing above their league, but offline I see average looking men get rejected by average looking women

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I think the issue is more about guys (ugly loser types, usually white) wanting girls that are way out of their league (physically and socially). They have some weird complex thinking they deserve those women. When if they just looked in the mirror would realize no you dont. I know a few clowns like that. Like creh u 34 years old. Weirdo, goofy looking. Making ok money. Have zero personality. And you want a 18-21 year old dime

Half of them look like this

But they want a supermodel