Like I asked the other poster, what if they are going after women in their lane, but are still getting rejected?Half of them look like this
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Like I asked the other poster, what if they are going after women in their lane, but are still getting rejected?Half of them look like this
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But they want a supermodel![]()
That's because they don't know what they're talking about.Real shyt
I hear that a lot on the Coli. That dudes are chasing above their league, but offline I see average looking men get rejected by average looking women
I think what's causing this issue is that society lied to them.
Imagine everyone is telling you, "You just need to be funny and confident and you can get the girl of your dreams!"
Then here comes some guy who neither of those qualities and your dream girl throws herself at him just because of his looks.
And then you get told to lower your standards which implies that looks matter even though society told you they DON'T.
Combine that with a little mental illness sprinkled in and this is what you get.
If you want to fix the "incel" problem, we need to start being HONEST about dating and what women actually want.
I swear I'm not seeing an average/ below average dude chasing after dimes. The average man barely has enough backbone to go after women in his lane let alone an IG modelThat's because they don't know what they're talking about.
I mean I do think a lot of incels need to deal with their problems in a healthy way.
BUT how is a sub five male not gonna be depressed about his situation when things are getting worse dating wise?
I remember the religious white girl on here saying her fat sister got male hoes. Think about that a fat girl got hoes and you got nothing.
Like I asked the other poster, what if they are going after women in their lane, but are still getting rejected?
I swear I'm not seeing an average/ below average dude chasing after dimes. The average man barely has enough backbone to go after women in his lane let alone an IG model
I was addressing why does everyone say you are approaching women out of your lane. That seems like the go to response.This type of mentality reeks of entitlement. No one has to accept your offer. Even if you guys are in the same league or your even above her league. You may not vibe, or maybe she has some kind of situation going on. Regardless people aren't obligated to say yes. If she says no, move on to the next one. This used to be the game, where did all of this resentment and entitlement come from? Also, do y'all really want women to say yes to everyone who asks? Because y'all talk a lot about catching bodies on here, but then turn around and complain when women practice discretion.
You know and I know average men aren't.I swear I'm not seeing an average/ below average dude chasing after dimes. The average man barely has enough backbone to go after women in his lane let alone an IG model
Thanks you summed it up eloquentlyYou know and I know average men aren't.
Average men know they aren't.
But the most extreme stereotypical versions of men who struggle with women somehow became a representation for all.
As the gape between regular guys who struggle with women widen, they are stuck in between a group of men who get women and can't relate to their experiences, and a group of men that have an extremely negative view about women and society as a whole.
Except at least the group of men from the latter have something in common with those average guys.
They struggle with women.
So it starts there. The commonality. Then it slowly manifest itself into that average guy who probably isn't even that bad looking taking on too many of those red pill ideologies all because he felt like they were the only ones who listened.
Again you guys are generalizing based on ideas you already have about so called incels.This type of mentality reeks of entitlement. No one has to accept your offer. Even if you guys are in the same league or your even above her league. You may not vibe, or maybe she has some kind of situation going on. Regardless people aren't obligated to say yes. If she says no, move on to the next one. This used to be the game, where did all of this resentment and entitlement come from? Also, do y'all really want women to say yes to everyone who asks? Because y'all talk a lot about catching bodies on here, but then turn around and complain when women practice discretion.
This type of mentality reeks of entitlement. No one has to accept your offer. Even if you guys are in the same league or your even above her league. You may not vibe, or maybe she has some kind of situation going on. Regardless people aren't obligated to say yes. If she says no, move on to the next one. This used to be the game, where did all of this resentment and entitlement come from? Also, do y'all really want women to say yes to everyone who asks? Because y'all talk a lot about catching bodies on here, but then turn around and complain when women practice discretion.
Is there some subforum u go to where people post their rejection examples?I swear I'm not seeing an average/ below average dude chasing after dimes. The average man barely has enough backbone to go after women in his lane let alone an IG model