I swear this is why I barely have friends

[KravenMorehead™]

Text is tone deaf, so although i'm betting your intuition is legit, coli readers are getting it misconstrued, cause contextual nuances are being left out.

 

[Lakers Offseason]

This is like one of those situations -

Girl 1: Hey I haven't seen you in a while. You look great!

Girl 2: So what you trying to say I was fat back in the day?

 

[flea]

lol broads are so petty

 

[flea]

some of you soft ass TLR simps fukked around and let this section turn into fukking lipstick alley.

I was gonna make a thread about this but I fell back

 

[LimitedEdition]

You've lived with her for 2 years. You think you know her pretty well. You think she doesn't know how to push your buttons? You're acting as if she stole your boyfriend. You seem overly sensitive. Making a mountain out of a mole hill.

You seem to be into biblical shyt. How about KJV Proverbs 19:11? Or Psalms 119:165? Stop getting ur panties in a bunch over nothing.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Text is tone deaf, so although i'm betting your intuition is legit, coli readers are getting it misconstrued, cause contextual nuances are being left out.

Thank you. I really feel insulted with people calling me crazy and jealous, I'm not nowhere near that.
After she said it more than once I moved on from it and started talking about him again. she still had my phone in her hand b/c she was browsing through his pictures on facebook. Then she goes "I don't really think he likes black girls like that, I just get that vibe from him" But those same pictures are the ones on Tinder

 

[PrnzHakeem]

HOW CAN SHE SWIPE!?!?!

 

[KravenMorehead™]

Thank you. I really feel insulted with people calling me crazy and jealous, I'm not nowhere near that.
After she said it more than once I moved on from it and started talking about him again. she still had my phone in her hand b/c she was browsing through his pictures on facebook. Then she goes "I don't really think he likes black girls like that, I just get that vibe from him" But those same pictures are the ones on Tinder

GiGi called it, ol girl is toxic. Get away from her as soon as you're able to.

 

[Aceofspades404]

I don't think that's a good reason to get irritated. "We matched on tinder". OK, so.. I don't understand why someone would be angry because of that.

And if you know this about her. I really don't understand why you're angry. You just said that she's one of those people who tells you everything about her life. So, when she told you that she matched with him on tinder, she was doing it to make you angry, but when she tells you everything else, she does it because she usually tells every little thing about her life.

I think you're only irritated because you like him, and you might even be a little bit jealous. But I don't understand why you would be bothered because all she did was match with him on an app and then told you about it. I think that's ridiculous.

This isn't an isolated incident. It's the way she is. I know what I know.

Why are female virgins going to online dating sites like tinder

What is the ratio of finding a good man there??

Why not attend church and see if your compatible partner resides there?

If you think a non virgin is waiting for you to open up those guts, I got a bridge to sell you

I'm not on Tinder, she is.

but if she didn't say nothing, and these 2 actually hooked up, what happens when homeboy remembers the roommate?

now she gotta thread talking about how shady the roommate is for not saying anything

Yes she would be shady is she hooked up with him and didn't tell me but telling me that you matched my crush on tinder over a year ago and he never messaged you is stupid and pointless.

Nah it aint me lol.

Shes talking about different things...first she starts off by giving us the impression her roommate did something to betray her trust then she completely flies off the rails to talk about this dude her roommate matched on tinder with.

The thread is really about her bruised ego/jealously than betrayed trust...she doesn't like how they potentially would have been together so she mentions how her roommate's ex boyfriend liked her first.

It is possible that her roommate told her that shyt to throw shade on some "I coulda had him but I'll let you hold that" shyt, but idgafidk

Nothing to see here...

It really isn't. This is the same girl who literally goes through girls instagram pics asking if their pretty or not and calling them ugly. I remember one time, we were doing our makeup in the bathroom and she comes directly in my face and says "your eye lashes are longer than mine" and does an emotionless face. She has insecurity issues and I peeped what I peeped.

 

[PrnzHakeem]

Why are you upset though? He's just a crush, not someone you actively dating or attempting to date. You just like this nikka from afar. If you aint trying to get at him, he's fair game.

 

[iBrowse]

It really isn't. This is the same girl who literally goes through girls instagram pics asking if their pretty or not and calling them ugly. I remember one time, we were doing our makeup in the bathroom and she comes directly in my face and says "your eye lashes are longer than mine" and does an emotionless face. She has insecurity issues and I peeped what I peeped.

Those things you described are common for girls/women to do. It's nothing outlandish to air her out on. I'm sure if someone asked her about you she could pick up on a couple insecurities/character faults you have as well. Everyone has quirks and traits about themselves that can bother us to varying degrees, all you have to do is determine whether or not those things bother you to the extent that you can't look past them.

shyt, the fact that you made this thread throwing shade on your friend instead of talking to her about this issue you have with her is a character fault that I see in you. Dudes on the coli get clowned on it all the time...(e.g. "Come on the coli to bytch about getting robbed instead of confronting the thief brehs")

The way I see it is you can either stop over-analyzing things and take them at face value or you need to communicate your issues with your friend because there will continue to be things like this that come up moving forward.

 

[Music Fiend]

I'm not one of those individuals that opens up to people even if the simplest things so when I do, I think it's because I trust you. So I decide to tell my roommate for the past 2 years about a guy I have a crush on. I show her pictures of him and she goes "wow he looks very familiar, I'm pretty sure we matched on tinder" so I ask her, did anything come from it and she says no he never messaged her or anything. So in my head, I'm like what was really the point of telling that?
Mind you, her ex boyfriend used to like me way before I even knew her. When she told me about him, it was clear that she still had feelings for him but I never said anything b/c me and her ex never talked whatsoever. I wasn't interested at all and the most we ever shared was eye contact. I really feel like in a grand scheme of thinks stuff like that isn't a big issue and I doubt he even remembers me like that cuz this was over 3 years ago.
I'm really irritated right now.

You gotta get out more. Get off thecoli and get your life going. Sounds like your overly senstive. Not saying it's not messed up im just saying this is how we are as people. This is why you keep one eye open and don't trust fully. But don't make a big deal outta something like that.

People have their own issues, part of being overly sensitive is not knowing where your insecuirty stops and where theres begins. Thats how you not give a damn. Once you know ur insecutiries, you know what's you and what's another person Can you hate on her if shes insecure? Are you gonna tell me you don't have the same thoughts as her but not say em? She's human bruh.

 

[Aceofspades404]

Those things you described are common for girls/women to do. It's nothing outlandish to air her out on. I'm sure if someone asked her about you she could pick up on a couple insecurities/character faults you have as well. Everyone has quirks and traits about themselves that can bother us to varying degrees, all you have to do is determine whether or not those things bother you to the extent that you can't look past them.

shyt, the fact that you made this thread throwing shade on your friend instead of talking to her about this issue you have with her is a character fault that I see in you. Dudes on the coli get clowned on it all the time...(e.g. "Come on the coli to bytch about getting robbed instead of confronting the thief brehs")

The way I see it is you can either stop over-analyzing things and take them at face value or you need to communicate your issues with your friend because there will continue to be things like this that come up moving forward.

She's the first girl I've come across to do those things so I guess I've been living under a rock. I read about it and see movies about it but I never actually experienced it myself until I crossed paths with her. I never had an actual group of girlfriends and it's not because of insecurities or character flaws, I just really enjoyed being by myself and being my own company. It wasn't until recently that I would hang out with my roommates and noticed how they treated their girl friends. Yes, I do let people walk all over me and punk me and that is one of my biggest faults that's why I made this thread. But I do know for sure that I treat people how they want to be treated even if I don't get the same thing back.

 

[MoeDollaZ$]

She's the first girl I've come across to do those things so I guess I've been living under a rock. I read about it and see movies about it but I never actually experienced it myself until I crossed paths with her. I never had an actual group of girlfriends and it's not because of insecurities or character flaws, I just really enjoyed being by myself and being my own company. It wasn't until recently that I would hang out with my roommates and noticed how they treated their girl friends. Yes, I do let people walk all over me and punk me and that is one of my biggest faults that's why I made this thread. But I do know for sure that I treat people how they want to be treated even if I don't get the same thing back.

U got to realize that most people dont have ur best interest in heart. Even the people youve known for years can turn their back on u. Thats y u gotta watch out for sneak dissers

 

[iBrowse]

She's the first girl I've come across to do those things so I guess I've been living under a rock. I read about it and see movies about it but I never actually experienced it myself until I crossed paths with her. I never had an actual group of girlfriends and it's not because of insecurities or character flaws, I just really enjoyed being by myself and being my own company. It wasn't until recently that I would hang out with my roommates and noticed how they treated their girl friends. Yes, I do let people walk all over me and punk me and that is one of my biggest faults that's why I made this thread. But I do know for sure that I treat people how they want to be treated even if I don't get the same thing back.

Understandable...

Men and women have traits about themselves that are shallow, I'm introverted and perceptive as well which allows me to notice the dumb shyt that people do so I typically roll dolo anyway. You shouldn't be afraid of enjoying your own company...people who fukk with that will notice and you'll end up surrounding yourself with good company You just need to grow a spine and if they have a problem with it then there's you answer.