I swear this is why I barely have friends

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@Shugg Ross I'm perfectly fine. God bless you.
Nah, you not, cuz if a chick was getting fukked right, she wouldn't be crying over stupid ass shyt like this...I do it to my main all the time
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Her: :usure:omg guess who I seen today, that bytch you fukked, then she had the nerve to look at me, so i looked at her, and the bytch rolled her eyes at me and.......
Me: :webbieorly:oh word *fukks the shyt out of her*:web1:..Now what you was saying about ole girl:web2:
Her: Man, fukk that bytch i don't care I just got some dikk, this my dikk she aint nothin but a hoe:ahh:
 

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TS keeps saying she's not insecure and petty like others but she needs to take a step back and realize she's just that exactlly.

Almost all of us has told you that you are getting mad about nothing yet you don't want to accept that. You say you don't have many friends but you blame it on other people's actions. How bout instead think about what it is that you do to hold you back from having more friends. If you see a pattern with multiple people that problem is not them, it's you. Lastly when you felt she did you wrong the first thing you wanted to do was one up her by letting her know about how her ex hit on you. What kind of friend/person does that make you? Just as shallow as the roommate you hating on.

Truth hurts but learn to take advice and be better for it. Also Go Hawks!
 

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I feel like she only said it to rain on my parade, kinda like rubbing it in my face. "Ooh the guy you liked matched me on tinder" it's like she's boasting cuz he noticed her.


you could take it two ways.
one, you are self equating your issues with her to everything.
as, you have not opened a forum to discuss possible heat with one another.
plus, you are taking offense to her.
just disclosing you the truth.
which, could be beneficial to you, in the long run.
if, you do close the deal with the crush.
plus thirdly, you sound mad immature.
as, you have a crush and people who are actualized in their sexuality.
don't have crushes any longer.
they move on their attraction male or female.

you, need to grow a bit.
confront any heat/issues with your friend.
or, grow thicker skin and invest in retaining information without an emotional response.
as, real talk.....
you can not take anyone telling you anything without feeling some type of way.
as, your friend just was real about the guy you showed her.
you have not even talked to, or encountered.
nor, maturely prospected and approached on your own attraction like a grown female.
she told you sumfin, and all you took away was hate.

Grow up, she may have been trying to put you on game and you were to soft shelled to fully disclose she smashed your prospective.


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Lastly when you felt she did you wrong the first thing you wanted to do was one up her by letting her know about how her ex hit on you. What kind of friend/person does that make you? Just as shallow as the roommate you hating on.
No sweetheart, I was speaking of the past saying when she told me, I didn't disclose something pointless knowing it would make her feel some type of way about it because I'm not that friend and I care about her feelings. So my go around, I expect her to do the same. And where did I say I didn't have many friends b/c of other ppl's actions? I specifically said, I prefer my own company that is why I don't have many friends.
But anyways, this happened yesterday night. I was never mad and I'm over it.
 

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First of all, don't come in here insulting me like you know me. I don't believe in premarital sex and I'm still a virgin. I was just trying to point out, that if I consider you my friend, I will always have your best interest. I was never interested in the guy whatsoever so what would be the point of me telling her if its gonna make her feel some type of way?


okay, this explains it...

nuffin to see here after that.
this is a reason why being a virgin is a death sentence socially after fifteen.
you, need to figure out who you gon lose your v card to, and grow up.
when you are a Virgin for to long.
it affects your ability to rationalize in the adult world.
as, you have no frame of reference as an adult.


Art Barr
 

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@SuperCoolP_Cal :hug:nh

What happened brehtheren :dwillhuh:


We exchanged numbers. We texted a couple of times. She didn't want to save my number (not that I really cared or pressed for it). I stopped texting her. :manny:



@trilldealbaby is being typical in letting her emotions overriding the fact that her original post consisted of incoherent rambling.
 

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I'm not one of those individuals that opens up to people even if the simplest things so when I do, I think it's because I trust you. So I decide to tell my roommate for the past 2 years about a guy I have a crush on. I show her pictures of him and she goes "wow he looks very familiar, I'm pretty sure we matched on tinder" so I ask her, did anything come from it and she says no he never messaged her or anything. So in my head, I'm like what was really the point of telling that?
Mind you, her ex boyfriend used to like me way before I even knew her. When she told me about him, it was clear that she still had feelings for him but I never said anything b/c me and her ex never talked whatsoever. I wasn't interested at all and the most we ever shared was eye contact. I really feel like in a grand scheme of thinks stuff like that isn't a big issue and I doubt he even remembers me like that cuz this was over 3 years ago.
I'm really irritated right now.
you must be young.
 

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@Art Barr Thank you for your deposition.


preciate it, handshake.
don't become Luann and make your roommate into the cheerleader.
who gets Aaron's affections while you to scared to make a move.
I am not saying you need to make a to do list, but you need to be trying to approach who you like.
if you get this riled up over someone saying they were approached by someone you fancy.
at least then, you know you were rejected.
or, you could see what's to it, without being vested in the crush zone.
you would be vested and know if the person liked you and if they were gaming you.
it s better than, your friend hooking you up with some leftovers like a committal and never telling you they were a non-committal because they used to fukk.


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