I feel like she only said it to rain on my parade, kinda like rubbing it in my face. "Ooh the guy you liked matched me on tinder" it's like she's boasting cuz he noticed her.
you could take it two ways.
one, you are self equating your issues with her to everything.
as, you have not opened a forum to discuss possible heat with one another.
plus, you are taking offense to her.
just disclosing you the truth.
which, could be beneficial to you, in the long run.
if, you do close the deal with the crush.
plus thirdly, you sound mad immature.
as, you have a crush and people who are actualized in their sexuality.
don't have crushes any longer.
they move on their attraction male or female.
you, need to grow a bit.
confront any heat/issues with your friend.
or, grow thicker skin and invest in retaining information without an emotional response.
as, real talk.....
you can not take anyone telling you anything without feeling some type of way.
as, your friend just was real about the guy you showed her.
you have not even talked to, or encountered.
nor, maturely prospected and approached on your own attraction like a grown female.
she told you sumfin, and all you took away was hate.
Grow up, she may have been trying to put you on game and you were to soft shelled to fully disclose she smashed your prospective.
Art Barr