I texted my dad’s wife and he sent me this

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The stepmum and pops fucced up by using the verbage "you are not her equal"...what they actually meant was that he wasn't one of her peers and should act accordingly, as well as her punk ass not addressing it directly and getting his dad to tell him to fix up. You want to be treated like an adult, deal with the problems you have like an adult then :heh:

The son shouldn't be refering to famial elders by their first name unless instructed to by them

But having said all of this, if i was him i wouldn't ever call her ms. _____ and i would ignore my pops too...his puccy can eat a dicc too :umad:
 

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i agree he should call her ms, but i disagree with her saying they aren't equal. there was a better way to communicate what she meant.
Peer was the word she was looking for. He's legit not her peer. But not her equal? Foh :mjlol:
 

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As adults, it's not a big deal unless one of them make it a big deal

She made it a big deal and his father sounds like a pushover

He offered condolences for a loved one and she's concerned about putting someone in their place over a title

His dad is right. Why are you calling a woman old enough to be your mom, and who is your actual stepmom by her first name?

A person isn't your step-parent unless they actually raised you

That's his father's wife
 

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Exactly because they're not his fuccin family and its a formal term :mindblown: why is this so hard for some of you to get?
nikkas out here purposely disrespecting they family now? I could see if it’s a cousin you grew up with. This is your parents spouse. You’ve never called an older woman Ms outside of work? Hell my moms friend I’ve known since I was a kid (basically family) gets called Ms. she’s in her 70’s but because it’s not work I should disrespect her & go off first name basis? Who raised y’all?

What’s so hard about calling her Ms.? Grown men rather engage in pettiness than keep it moving :mjlol:
 

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As adults, it's not a big deal unless one of them make it a big deal

She made it a big deal and his father sounds like a pushover

He offered condolences for a loved one and she's concerned about putting someone in their place over a title



A person isn't your step-parent unless they actually raised you

That's his father's wife
Even more pathetic to put all this on social media. You know she is going through all sort of emotions right now & might have approached you different otherwise.
 

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It annoys me that there are not words to cover these relationships.

Society has moved on from the 1900s.

It'd be nice if there were words to refer to your girlfriend's parents and parents' partners.

Would keep things nice and simple.

Moda (mother through dad) and Fama (Father through mum).

Mogi (mother through girlfriend) and fagi :dame: (father through girlfriend).

Just off the top of my head :hubie:
or like Japan has all those honorifics that denote your relationship to that person:heh:
 

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moms bf or dads gf shall forever be ms/mr so n so. some of u niccas lack home training.

I ain't ever heard of this, but then again my parents were married
and they didn't barre that shackin' up bullchit and they didn't train us to respect that at our house...
 

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I ain't ever heard of this, but then again my parents were married
and they didn't barre that shackin' up bullchit and they didn't train us to respect that at our house...
u might be country then
its stated in the code book
 

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nikkas out here purposely disrespecting they family now? I could see if it’s a cousin you grew up with. This is your parents spouse. You’ve never called an older woman Ms outside of work? Hell my moms friend I’ve known since I was a kid (basically family) gets called Ms. she’s in her 70’s but because it’s not work I should disrespect her & go off first name basis? Who raised y’all?

What’s so hard about calling her Ms.? Grown men rather engage in pettiness than keep it moving :mjlol:
And he just met the bytch a couple years ago as a grown ass 30 something year old man. What part of this arent you getting breh?

Everyone understands who to give that prefix to. It’s been gone over several times already. She isn’t even part of the family, she hasn’t been around long enough to be considered family to anyone. She just his dad wife. That’s why she just Tanya. She hasn’t earned the respect or affiliation of respect to demand that shyt. She not your grandfathers wife, this your dad wife.

She is so new to the family that up until a couple years ago she was referred to as “Ole girl” or “that lady” when he asked his dad about her.
:mjlol:
 

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Dude just because a women is married to your father does not make her your step mom. This looks to be a grown man yall.

That’s literally the definition of a stepmom. Just cause he’s grown doesn’t mean that’s not his stepmom.

Maybe it’s cause I’m from the south, but older people always get the Ms./ma’am treatment unless they ask me not to do it. She’s an a$$hole for that “equals” comment but a lot of older people in general are. Talk to your pops about it but just keep it pushing and use Ms. for now on.
 
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