I think I resent women for having it so easy when it comes to relationships

[Larry Lambo]

Women do have an inherent advantage when it comes to leverage in dating. A female is going to have more men at or above her level that want to "date" her, than her male counterpart. Fundamentally, that should force the man to step up his game, and pursue harder, because she has other options. It doesn't matter whether those dudes might play her down the line, leverage is about "viable options"

However, in today's world, where a man going all out is considered simping or "doing too much", that advantage is diminished. There used to be a time where women rewarded effort. But now they just choose the highest value dude that is willing to do the dating formalities. This leads to them getting played at a much higher rate and not being in a position of control.

So there's nothing to resent. The advantage they have is something today's women are socialized not to even utilize. Even if they did utilize the advantage, it would only mean that we would have to put in more effort than they do. That's not the end of the world, man.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

People have been working since the beginning of time. They spent hours in the field just to have a bowl of potatoes for one meal, spent all day hunting for a small bird. Worked 16 hours a day for milk then had to come home and work more just to get by. Women worked 5 hours just to make butter, 4 hours just to make dinner, raised kids with no diapers no formula no meds.

It wasn't until this generation that people think life is about playing Xbox and flirting all day. Entitled fukks.

While I agree with your post social Dynamics were being different back then

 

[International Playa]

OP clearly is a beta male lol

 

[the bossman]

grown ass men wishing they had vaginas

Had to be one of the saddest things I ever seen on a Friday night

 

[mortuus est]

i have come to the conclusion that a lot of people on the coli will never find love

 

[chosenaledge13]

i have come to the conclusion that a lot of people on the coli will never find love

Cause they don't know that you can't find love in another person, just a reflection of the amount of love that you truly have for yourself. Shyt is sad breh

 

[Carlton Banks]

There is no denying that females have an advantage when they are younger. Obviously that changes as they get older, as many squander prime opportunities, and then turn into the thirsty simps they used to deride. For all those saying that guys are just coming at these females for sex, not a relationship...so? People go to Walmart or Target for one or two items and a quick stop and end up staying for hours and buying an entire cart's worth of shyt. If you got more to offer than sex and you are actually taking the time to vet people you will have no problem finding one guy to settle down with out of the multitude that are coming after that box. Either way you slice it, there is no denying that being the one that others are coming for is certainly a more enviable position than being one of the many going after someone. Not to mention, relationship and sex, used to be synonymous. It's only recently that they were separated. There was a time that if a guy wanted sex, he had to really put in effort and time and commit...or buy are whore . If you take the time to understand the game and acknowledge it for what it is, you won't be mad or resentful. You will just play accordingly .

Excellent analogy and post.

 

[Mr. McDowell]

It's gotta be hard to be a man who doesn't have any cache in any capacity. Unfortunately, the only equalizer is to get money. If it doesn't motivate you to achieve more, so you can have more of a chance to land the women of your "dreams," resign yourself to your existence and keep it moving.

It's not fair... but we live in a system of oppression yet somehow more people are selling their bodies than ever before, and dudes still can't get laid. Time to turn that mirror inward and see what you're doing wrong. Ask those tough questions.

 

[Abstract83]

Thats just the way it is breh. U have options too. Its best to play the field and hold yourself to a higher standard. Dont worry about how many other nikkas are hitting her up. Matter a fact dont worry about other women and what they are doing. When u focus on ur self and be the best U. You'll be the one weighing the options. The one thing a woman dont like is a man with options. Someone they want but can't obtain. They'll work harder for u when they know ur dating or don't have time for them etc. Charisma, confidence, intelligence, and options can make a woman weak. Plus not being afraid to turn down p*ssy or being alone helps also. Putting yourself first is the most important thing.

 

[mortuus est]

Cause they don't know that you can't find love in another person, just a reflection of the amount of love that you truly have for yourself. Shyt is sad breh

for real man

i dont want the young behs of the coli to take in these type of threads as gospel

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

It's gotta be hard to be a man who doesn't have any cache in any capacity. Unfortunately, the only equalizer is to get money. If it doesn't motivate you to achieve more, so you can have more of a chance to land the women of your "dreams," resign yourself to your existence and keep it moving.

It's not fair... but we live in a world of system of oppression yet somehow more people are selling their bodies than ever before, and dudes still can't get laid. Time to that mirror inward and see what you're doing wrong. Ask those tough questions.

Yeah but if u do too good then you should only want a person whos near to your level

Imagine hustling your ass off to wife a stripper or a dime who works at wal mart

 

[Larry Lambo]

It's gotta be hard to be a man who doesn't have any cache in any capacity. Unfortunately, the only equalizer is to get money. If it doesn't motivate you to achieve more, so you can have more of a chance to land the women of your "dreams," resign yourself to your existence and keep it moving.

It's not fair... but we live in a world of system of oppression yet somehow more people are selling their bodies than ever before, and dudes still can't get laid. Time to that mirror inward and see what you're doing wrong. Ask those tough questions.

It's not just money. For a lot of guys it's the social life that does them in. It's tough to step out of you normal surroundings and meet new people.

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Something is seriously wrong with u if u think women have it easier finding a meaningful relationship than women do.

U lettin ur dyck take over ur rational mind. Ur dikk is resentful that a woman can get fukked easier. U literally mad that women can get sexually objectified easier than men can.

Meanwhile women are resentful that men can dip their dikks in anything and still have romantic options vying for them well past their prime years.

I don't know what to do with some of you. We gotta grow up.

 

[Mr. McDowell]

Yeah but if u do too good then you should only want a person whos near to your level

Imagine hustling your ass off to wife a stripper or a dime who works at wal mart

You will find no disagreement from me. Hell, I have no idea what the OP is even looking for. A cut buddy, a wife, someone to tell him he's "special", shyt was pretty damn vague.

 

[1thouwow]

How you supposed to find the one when anyone will come with you.

And we all know woman are indecisive and make horrible decisions