I think I resent women for having it so easy when it comes to relationships

[Lifejennings]

You are mistaking men for women. MEN are the ones who don't want the women on their level they attract. Men don't like their options. They are constantly encouraged in society to shoot above their means. Thats the entire premise of courtship and wooing. Ur trying to convince a woman considered desirable by most to be with you.

Women traditionally don't play an active role in this process. That reality makes women's options limited to what approaches them.
And women can't control who approaches them. Furthermore, they can't control whether the dudes approaching them only want them for sex or something more meaningful.

The sole advantage women have is being sexually attractive to the opposite sex b/c many males aren't all that sexually discriminatory. But they ARE discriminatory in romantic relationships which is what women are ultimately concerned with.

Even the men on her level primarily only want her for sex. That's just biology.
So some chicks roll the dice b/c her options and pseudo options all have the same things on their mind, so she might as well waste her time on an option that she is ultimately attracted to.

There are few men on her age range who a.) want a meaningful relationship b.) and is willing to forgo games and cheating to commit. And that's b/c men are doing their thing in their youth which is reasonable. (And that's understandable b/c there are women who act disposable while making very little demands.)

They are reluctant to want something real these days in their youth regardless of their level unless a woman is extremely upper tier in attractiveness. Most women aren't. And men don't think about them until they are damn near in their 40s. Lmao!

If a man is normal, has a regular job and wants a regular chick, and a meaningful relationship, he could SWIM in mediocre p*ssy. She doesn't have children, works in a leasing office, likes goin to the movies and watches Insecure on Sundays. She would LOVE a regular dude. But u acting like regular dudes ain't feeling themselves these days. They think they worth more than these types.

If he is trying to snatch 8s or above in any race, he gotta compete with the dikkheads those 7 chicks deal with: The rich guys, the 12inch dikks, the playas, etc.

Or he dates IR b/c whiteness assigns false value to partners of the opposite sex for blacks b/c we are the oppressed group. So a real white 3 magically gets touted as a 7 to a blk dude or chick. Which is why people say blacks settle when they date out. I call it the white tax.

Literal facts.

 

[klientel]

I think you’re letting social media fool you. A lot of these chicks single as fukk and their options are limited as fukk. My girl has some friends that are bad as hell and they haven’t had a serious relationship in YEARS. Dudes just play them left and right....and it’s probably their fault.

When it comes to sex they are mostly in control but when it comes to relationships usually the dude is in the drivers seat.

 

[AAKing23]

I agree with OP to an extent

 

[TheGreatMTB]

dude at least you can chase what you want.


Sure women have super specific standards and all that...but at the end of the day they rarely go chasing it. SO they have to just wait for it to approach them...and if they're not the caliber chick they think they are...they're gonna be waiting for a while. I'd rather play a numbers game than wait for a chick I think I "deserve" to approach me.

If it makes you feel any better most of the women who looked you over will choose wrong and end up getting fukked over anyway

Sidenote: That's why I find the "I can't find a good man" complaints annoying af. Cuz you not looking...you waiting for the super specific man you want to find you....and in a room full of IG models he...isn't.

 

[ViShawn]

Yea well.whaf can you? Improve yourself or don't..

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

dude at least you can chase what you want.


Sure women have super specific standards and all that...but at the end of the day they rarely go chasing it. SO they have to just wait for it to approach them...and if they're not the caliber chick they think they are...they're gonna be waiting for a while. I'd rather play a numbers game than wait for a chick I think I "deserve" to approach me.

If it makes you feel any better most of the women who looked you over will choose wrong and end up getting fukked over anyway

Sidenote: That's why I find the "I can't find a good man" complaints annoying af. Cuz you not looking...you waiting for the super specific man you want to find you....and in a room full of IG models he...isn't.

Lol...chix aint just silently waiting to be chose

They hollering subtly or overtly

 

[At30wecashout]

that weather change and the approaching cuddle season got nikkas in their feelings today.

Bruh I was thinking the same damn thing. I understand getting your ass kicked on the dating scene sucks, but it must be the fact that the frost is around the corner
and folks don't wanna be alone thats got sentiments like this coming out the woodwork

My dude, GETTING ASS is the easiest thing in the world. Thats all the OPs post seemed to sum up. Whats hard? Meeting chicks you want to have sex AND conversation with

every day. The only nut I ever miss having is the very first one, and that was to watching a fukking Mancow TV segment on "Top 100 Puppies of the week."

censored titties on my VHSNut ain't that serious. But having a chick that makes you smile and check your appearance, makes you think about her when you aren't
around and even when she is....thats what I miss.

But this dude bitter over p*ssyAND he paying for it?????????????? I didn't have a father in my life and I don't understand his gripe. That kinda lameness is probably

whats keeping the p*ssy out of his reach.

 

[Larry Lambo]

You are mistaking men for women. MEN are the ones who don't want the women on their level they attract. Men don't like their options. They are constantly encouraged in society to shoot above their means. Thats the entire premise of courtship and wooing. Ur trying to convince a woman considered desirable by most to be with you.

Women traditionally don't play an active role in this process. That reality makes women's options limited to what approaches them.
And women can't control who approaches them. Furthermore, they can't control whether the dudes approaching them only want them for sex or something more meaningful.

The sole advantage women have is being sexually attractive to the opposite sex b/c many males aren't all that sexually discriminatory. But they ARE discriminatory in romantic relationships which is what women are ultimately concerned with.

Even the men on her level primarily only want her for sex. That's just biology.
So some chicks roll the dice b/c her options and pseudo options all have the same things on their mind, so she might as well waste her time on an option that she is ultimately attracted to.

There are few men on her age range who a.) want a meaningful relationship b.) and is willing to forgo games and cheating to commit. And that's b/c men are doing their thing in their youth which is reasonable. (And that's understandable b/c there are women who act disposable while making very little demands.)

They are reluctant to want something real these days in their youth regardless of their level unless a woman is extremely upper tier in attractiveness. Most women aren't. And men don't think about them until they are damn near in their 40s. Lmao!

If a man is normal, has a regular job and wants a regular chick, and a meaningful relationship, he could SWIM in mediocre p*ssy. She doesn't have children, works in a leasing office, likes goin to the movies and watches Insecure on Sundays. She would LOVE a regular dude. But u acting like regular dudes ain't feeling themselves these days. They think they worth more than these types.

If he is trying to snatch 8s or above in any race, he gotta compete with the dikkheads those 7 chicks deal with: The rich guys, the 12inch dikks, the playas, etc.

Or he dates IR b/c whiteness assigns false value to partners of the opposite sex for blacks b/c we are the oppressed group. So a real white 3 magically gets touted as a 7 to a blk dude or chick. Which is why people say blacks settle when they date out. I call it the white tax.

1. Just because men don't want the options that typically present themselves doesn't mean they don't want women on their level. The women that present themselves as the easiest targets are women looking for a come up on some Hail Mary ish. They don't define your level. My whole adult life I've dated women that were medium sized to "thick" and most people would set me up with women of that ilk, but when it came to who was obviously choosing me from Day 1, it was only the big girls. I either had to search far and wide, or be in the right place at the right time to get the girls on my level. Most guys are fine with the cute girl that their cousin sets them up with or the slim girl from work that they've known for months. But they aren't fine with the 225 pounder that slides her digits over at the barbeque, unless it's for a quick nut.

2. Most attractive women have an active social life and have networked through school, work, church, and social orgs. so they don't have to wait on a man to approach them. They can be social and have a plethora of options to choose from because and attractive single woman is going to get hit on by men in her social circle fairly regularly. On basic brauds need to rely on approaches. I know women at work that are far from dimes, that get date offers left and right from decent brehs.

3. If we are talking about young folks, then yes I don't expect 23 year old dudes to be marriage minded or even relationship minded considering that many women aren't interested in a short-medium term relationship that's not headed to marriage, the moment they receive their college diploma. Why would a dude at 23 want to look for a wife, when potentially in 10 years he'll be clocking six figs, have a nice house, designer clothing, and 10 years of muscle added to his physique. A young man has substantial opportunity to level up and improve his draw, so there's no reason for him to be on that tip unless he meets the perfect woman. Women who are about that relationship life at 22-27, probably should look to older men. May not seem fair, but expecting a man to be pursuing a serious relationship before he levels up, is like a broke chubby dude trying to wife a chick right before she gets lipo and a BBL.

4. You do have regular men walking around like they are top dogs and having sky high expectations. But a lot of that is talk, because a lot of those types are quick to lock down the first cutie willing to spread their legs for them.

 

[T'Kuvma Da Unforgettable]

Hold up.. this nikka be fukking hookers?

 

[the bossman]

Something is seriously wrong with u if u think women have it easier finding a meaningful relationship than women do.

U lettin ur dyck take over ur rational mind. Ur dikk is resentful that a woman can get fukked easier. U literally mad that women can get sexually objectified easier than men can.

Meanwhile women are resentful that men can dip their dikks in anything and still have romantic options vying for them well past their prime years.

I don't know what to do with some of you. We gotta grow up.

 Books always comin with the heat

 

[Cynic]

We live in a gynocentric society ... so women have to have power socially breh

It's literally all they have.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

OP wish he was a woman

Spoiler

 

[CodeBlaMeVi]

breh.... embrace your manhood.

and honestly,I rather pick and approach what I want instead of waiting around and sending hints and shyt, lol

men aren't supposed to envy women breh.... they dont have it better than us in any way

Especially the white people of black people.

Dude actually wrote that shyt.

 

[Ms.CuriousCat]

that weather change and the approaching cuddle season got nikkas in their feelings today.

if it makes you feel any better. women have had so many men trying to fukk them since 13 yrs old, they have no clue who actually likes/loves them. that has to suck to a degree.

 

[Still Benefited]

A woman can’t just snap her fingers and be in a relationship. At least not with a man she actually wants anyway. Sex is something else but I don’t think that’s hard for either men or women to get to be honest. You sound defeated breh. Men hold the power when it comes to relationships/marriage. Why do you think there are women who marry themselves when no man wants them?

Not that i agree with this OP's attitude

But women CAN fukk the men they want pretty easily,and that is basically as good as a relationship for many of them.

Then they can settle down with some simp,maybe even a cac, later on once they start to fall off if they choose to.....key word will be settling.

Basically threadstarter resents the fact that women can fukk the men of they dreams,but he cant fukk the women of his dreams....well,hes chosen to pay for it,sounds like he got it all figured out

theres really no other advice yall can give this man for what his problem is,no men cant fukk the woman of they dreams if they not underqualified. And if you aint fukkin the women of your dreams,that means you underqualified.