I think I resent women for having it so easy when it comes to relationships

[FTBS]

If that was the case there would be less single mothers.

If you have easier access to people wanting to fukk, you have easier access to a relationship (if you do shyt right that is).

If you got 20 nikkas coming at you trying to fukk and you pick poorly that's on you, not your options. It's easier to pick from those 20 nikkas, that you know all at the very least want to fukk than it is to pursue women whose desires and intentions are not known until you put yourself out there first. They may not want anything at all to do with you.

The amount of single mothers is actually yet another thing that flies in the face of your point regarding women and attachment free sex. If what you are saying was true then there would be no friendzone as women would be gravitating towards the long term guys and rejecting all the pump and dumps and we know that just isn't true.

 

[Carlton Banks]

A lot of great posts and discussion going on in here. Y'all try to hate on the gawd but look at the high quality i bring to the locker room

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

You are mistaking men for women. MEN are the ones who don't want the women on their level they attract. Men don't like their options. They are constantly encouraged in society to shoot above their means. Thats the entire premise of courtship and wooing. Ur trying to convince a woman considered desirable by most to be with you.

Women traditionally don't play an active role in this process. That reality makes women's options limited to what approaches them.
And women can't control who approaches them. Furthermore, they can't control whether the dudes approaching them only want them for sex or something more meaningful.

The sole advantage women have is being sexually attractive to the opposite sex b/c many males aren't all that sexually discriminatory. But they ARE discriminatory in romantic relationships which is what women are ultimately concerned with.

Even the men on her level primarily only want her for sex. That's just biology.
So some chicks roll the dice b/c her options and pseudo options all have the same things on their mind, so she might as well waste her time on an option that she is ultimately attracted to.

There are few men on her age range who a.) want a meaningful relationship b.) and is willing to forgo games and cheating to commit. And that's b/c men are doing their thing in their youth which is reasonable. (And that's understandable b/c there are women who act disposable while making very little demands.)

They are reluctant to want something real these days in their youth regardless of their level unless a woman is extremely upper tier in attractiveness. Most women aren't. And men don't think about them until they are damn near in their 40s. Lmao!

If a man is normal, has a regular job and wants a regular chick, and a meaningful relationship, he could SWIM in mediocre p*ssy. She doesn't have children, works in a leasing office, likes goin to the movies and watches Insecure on Sundays. She would LOVE a regular dude. But u acting like regular dudes ain't feeling themselves these days. They think they worth more than these types.

If he is trying to snatch 8s or above in any race, he gotta compete with the dikkheads those 7 chicks deal with: The rich guys, the 12inch dikks, the playas, etc.

Or he dates IR b/c whiteness assigns false value to partners of the opposite sex for blacks b/c we are the oppressed group. So a real white 3 magically gets touted as a 7 to a blk dude or chick. Which is why people say blacks settle when they date out. I call it the white tax.

Honestly, I don't think men are playing an active role in the process. Maybe before, but dudes these days have no say. The game is set in a woman's hand. In 2017, women have way more options than most average dudes. Any average woman can download tinder and have 20 dudes within 10 miles trying to smash, couple it with IG, FB and real life. They have options that most men could ever dream to have. Are a lot of these options trying to fukk yes but who will the woman go for? The tall, good looking dude who's trying to fukk or the average dude who is trying his hardest to commit to her. There is a high chance she will go for the former.

The average male doesn't have it like that. A regular dude could feel himself all he wants, He will never have the leverage that comes with being a regular woman with (p*ssy) which many dudes out of her league are very much willing to settle for and sell dreams to get their dikk wet. The only thing that comes close is an average man with money. That's why dudes like Drake, Kevin Hart etc. etc. when they have access to fame and money. They no longer have to chase.

 

[Youhadasparkwhenustarted]

Nm

 

[Larry Lambo]

Honestly, I don't think men are playing an active role in the process. Maybe before, but dudes these days have no say. The game is set in a woman's hand. In 2017, women have way more options than most average dudes. Any average woman can download tinder and have 20 dudes within 10 miles trying to smash, couple it with IG, FB and real life. They have options that most men could ever dream to have. Are a lot of these options trying to fukk yes but who will the woman go for? The tall, good looking dude who's trying to fukk or the average dude who is trying his hardest to commit to her. There is a high chance she will go for the former.

The average male doesn't have it like that. A regular dude could feel himself all he wants, He will never have the leverage that comes with being a regular woman with (p*ssy) which many dudes out of her league are very much willing to settle for and sell dreams to get their dikk wet. The only thing that comes close is an average man with money. That's why dudes like Drake, Kevin Hart etc. etc. when they have access to fame and money. They no longer have to chase.

These women have the leverage but don't use it. If they were to "play the game" correctly, they'd sleep with the top dogs from age 16-21, and then when they were ready to settle down, use the opportunity to continue to sleep with those dudes as a way to push the guys on their level to step their game up.

Instead they fall for "situationships" and brothers "selling the dream". You got fat women in their 30's still throwing it at slim or medium built dudes, and ignoring the similarly built men. I'm not saying that a man is entitled to a woman by going all out, but by not rewarding men for doing that in general, women are setting themselves up for the okey doke. Today a woman only requires what is easily "fakeable" especially if the guy is a couple notches above her, lookswise. Even with all the internet rhetoric of women clamoring for a return to chivalry, in the real world, a few dates, and the appearance of being interested in her as a person is all you need to do if you have the status/looks/swag that she's looking for.

 

[Poitier]

American dating culture is toxic and both men and women are taking Ls. No one should be resentful of anyone when we all in a fukked up situation.

Are a lot of these options trying to fukk yes but who will the woman go for? The tall, good looking dude who's trying to fukk or the average dude who is trying his hardest to commit to her. There is a high chance she will go for the former.

Women saying dumb shyt like

No such thing as a nice guy or all guys want sex, so might as well choose guy with characteristics xyz (even if xyz are shallow traits and correlates with a higher chance of being dogged out)

And not to excuse men, we have a bunch of dumb logic for dating/courting strategies to encourage picking bad partners if/when we have the physical desirability or resources to have our choice.

America just brainwashed us all. It was either Disney movies selling us an egocentric fairytale or reality tv selling us dysfunctional relationships as normative.

 

[MaxPain]

American dating culture is toxic and both men and women are taking Ls. No one should be resentful of anyone when we all in a fukked up situation.





Women saying dumb shyt like

No such thing as a nice guy or all guys want sex, so might as well choose guy with characteristics xyz (even if xyz are shallow traits and correlates with a higher chance of being dogged out)

And not to excuse men, we have a bunch of dumb logic for dating/courting strategies to encourage picking bad partners if/when we have the physical desirability or resources to have our choice.

America just brainwashed us all. It was either Disney movies selling us an egocentric fairytale or reality tv selling us dysfunctional relationships as normative.

Cant take any woman seriously who says nice guys dont exist. That just shows how damaged they are and how they feel like they dont deserve honest good treatment, they think he has ulterior motives. Its an excuse in their mind to treat alot of good men like shyt or friendzone em. Just admit u like getting dogged out already.

 

[Carlton Banks]

American dating culture is toxic and both men and women are taking Ls. No one should be resentful of anyone when we all in a fukked up situation

So what would your solution be? Date/meet people who aren't American?

 

[Larry Lambo]

Cant take any woman seriously who says nice guys dont exist. That just shows how damaged they are and how they feel like they dont deserve honest good treatment, they think he has ulterior motives. Its an excuse in their mind to treat alot of good men like shyt or friendzone em. Just admit u like getting dogged out already.

The logic they use on that is absurd and is very victim-like. They claim that the fact that a "nice guy" does ultimately want to have sex with her (because he's looking for a relationship and that's what people in relationships do), makes him no different that the guy that wants to hit it a few times and bounce. It hurts my brain to try to understand that type of thinking.

 

[Poitier]

So what would your solution be? Date/meet people who aren't American?

shyt.......I wish I knew the answer to this my damn self

 

[FTBS]

The logic they use on that is absurd and is very victim-like. They claim that the fact that a "nice guy" does ultimately want to have sex with her (because he's looking for a relationship and that's what people in relationships do), makes him no different that the guy that wants to hit it a few times and bounce. It hurts my brain to try to understand that type of thinking.

Unfortunately, for a lot of chicks, this is a more viable option then being responsible and disciplined and thorough and in turn accountable for one's on happiness and well-being. If you cast all guys as dogs, then you can't be blamed for getting smutted out by the actual dogs and held accountable for your piss poor selection.

 

[StickStickly]

If you got 20 nikkas coming at you trying to fukk and you pick poorly that's on you, not your options. It's easier to pick from those 20 nikkas, that you know all at the very least want to fukk than it is to pursue women whose desires and intentions are not known until you put yourself out there first. They may not want anything at all to do with you.

The amount of single mothers is actually yet another thing that flies in the face of your point regarding women and attachment free sex. If what you are saying was true then there would be no friendzone as women would be gravitating towards the long term guys and rejecting all the pump and dumps and we know that just isn't true.

How can you choose wisely if all the men want to do is sleep with you? They're not trying to date the woman at all lol. How do you know who has good intentions? I swear some men think that them wanting to fukk you is some type of virtue.

 

[Neil Tyson]

Goddamn I still have scars from the last time I got played in March. Game thrown off (i got nervous) due to her telling me she had a BF (which is when I was like cool, and backed off), but still she gave me the eyes, and the touching etc. Then she blew me off when I made a move, then went after my friend. I ignored her at work then she and her friend was like "How come you're not talking to us? Are you mad at us." Which came off to me as

Ether burned so slow that I had to send an anonymous tip to her BF. Got a little bit of satisfaction when I saw her face the next morning like .

I facepalm everytime I think about it. She smiles when she sees me, but I get pissed off when I see her and start mean mugging.

Hands down the biggest L I had ever taken. I don't think I'll ever be able to fully recover. All I think about is her bragging to her friends at how much "attention" she got. fukking animal ass shyt and they wonder why I'm an a$$hole, as soon as I detect some attention-whoring behaviour I proceed to verbally put my foot on their neck immediately.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Cause they don't know that you can't find love in another person, just a reflection of the amount of love that you truly have for yourself. Shyt is sad breh

Wtf!

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

Goddamn I still have scars from the last time I got played in March. Game thrown off (i got nervous) due to her telling me she had a BF (which is when I was like cool, and backed off), but still she gave me the eyes, and the touching etc. Then she blew me off when I made a move, then went after my friend. I ignored her at work then she and her friend was like "How come you're not talking to us? Are you mad at us." Which came off to me as

Ether burned so slow that I had to send an anonymous tip to her BF. Got a little bit of satisfaction when I saw her face the next morning like .

I facepalm everytime I think about it. She smiles when she sees me, but I get pissed off when I see her and start mean mugging.

Hands down the biggest L I had ever taken. I don't think I'll ever be able to fully recover. All I think about is her bragging to her friends at how much "attention" she got. fukking animal ass shyt and they wonder why I'm an a$$hole, as soon as I detect some attention-whoring behaviour I proceed to verbally put my foot on their neck immediately.

You snitched on the bytch? That's horrible...do better