I think I resent women for having it so easy when it comes to relationships

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Booksnrain said:
You are mistaking men for women. MEN are the ones who don't want the women on their level they attract. Men don't like their options. They are constantly encouraged in society to shoot above their means. Thats the entire premise of courtship and wooing. Ur trying to convince a woman considered desirable by most to be with you.

Women traditionally don't play an active role in this process. That reality makes women's options limited to what approaches them.
And women can't control who approaches them. Furthermore, they can't control whether the dudes approaching them only want them for sex or something more meaningful.

The sole advantage women have is being sexually attractive to the opposite sex b/c many males aren't all that sexually discriminatory. But they ARE discriminatory in romantic relationships which is what women are ultimately concerned with.

Even the men on her level primarily only want her for sex. That's just biology.
So some chicks roll the dice b/c her options and pseudo options all have the same things on their mind, so she might as well waste her time on an option that she is ultimately attracted to.

There are few men on her age range who a.) want a meaningful relationship b.) and is willing to forgo games and cheating to commit. And that's b/c men are doing their thing in their youth which is reasonable. (And that's understandable b/c there are women who act disposable while making very little demands.)

They are reluctant to want something real these days in their youth regardless of their level unless a woman is extremely upper tier in attractiveness. Most women aren't. And men don't think about them until they are damn near in their 40s. Lmao!

If a man is normal, has a regular job and wants a regular chick, and a meaningful relationship, he could SWIM in mediocre p*ssy. She doesn't have children, works in a leasing office, likes goin to the movies and watches Insecure on Sundays. She would LOVE a regular dude. But u acting like regular dudes ain't feeling themselves these days. They think they worth more than these types.

If he is trying to snatch 8s or above in any race, he gotta compete with the dikkheads those 7 chicks deal with: The rich guys, the 12inch dikks, the playas, etc.

Or he dates IR b/c whiteness assigns false value to partners of the opposite sex for blacks b/c we are the oppressed group. So a real white 3 magically gets touted as a 7 to a blk dude or chick. Which is why people say blacks settle when they date out. I call it the white tax.
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Very well thought out in depth post sir :salute:
 
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Poitier said:
Who cares what the average woman in America can and cannot get?

Most of them make bad decision through young adulthood, get dogged out repeatedly because they keep failing the same test, and have a high likelihood of raising a child in a single parent household because they had their ego coddled by dream sellers playing the yes man role. Some of them even catch the sickness they can't give back. This is statistical truth. You resent that? :mjlol::mjlol::mjlol:
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You right. I'm buggin.
 
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mrtdb said:
dude at least you can chase what you want.


Sure women have super specific standards and all that...but at the end of the day they rarely go chasing it. SO they have to just wait for it to approach them...and if they're not the caliber chick they think they are...they're gonna be waiting for a while. I'd rather play a numbers game than wait for a chick I think I "deserve" to approach me.

If it makes you feel any better most of the women who looked you over will choose wrong and end up getting fukked over anyway

Sidenote: That's why I find the "I can't find a good man" complaints annoying af. Cuz you not looking...you waiting for the super specific man you want to find you....and in a room full of IG models he...isn't.
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Booksnrain said:
You are mistaking men for women. MEN are the ones who don't want the women on their level they attract. Men don't like their options. They are constantly encouraged in society to shoot above their means. Thats the entire premise of courtship and wooing. Ur trying to convince a woman considered desirable by most to be with you.

Women traditionally don't play an active role in this process. That reality makes women's options limited to what approaches them.
And women can't control who approaches them. Furthermore, they can't control whether the dudes approaching them only want them for sex or something more meaningful.

The sole advantage women have is being sexually attractive to the opposite sex b/c many males aren't all that sexually discriminatory. But they ARE discriminatory in romantic relationships which is what women are ultimately concerned with.

Even the men on her level primarily only want her for sex. That's just biology.
So some chicks roll the dice b/c her options and pseudo options all have the same things on their mind, so she might as well waste her time on an option that she is ultimately attracted to.

There are few men on her age range who a.) want a meaningful relationship b.) and is willing to forgo games and cheating to commit. And that's b/c men are doing their thing in their youth which is reasonable. (And that's understandable b/c there are women who act disposable while making very little demands.)

They are reluctant to want something real these days in their youth regardless of their level unless a woman is extremely upper tier in attractiveness. Most women aren't. And men don't think about them until they are damn near in their 40s. Lmao!

If a man is normal, has a regular job and wants a regular chick, and a meaningful relationship, he could SWIM in mediocre p*ssy. She doesn't have children, works in a leasing office, likes goin to the movies and watches Insecure on Sundays. She would LOVE a regular dude. But u acting like regular dudes ain't feeling themselves these days. They think they worth more than these types.

If he is trying to snatch 8s or above in any race, he gotta compete with the dikkheads those 7 chicks deal with: The rich guys, the 12inch dikks, the playas, etc.

Or he dates IR b/c whiteness assigns false value to partners of the opposite sex for blacks b/c we are the oppressed group. So a real white 3 magically gets touted as a 7 to a blk dude or chick. Which is why people say blacks settle when they date out. I call it the white tax.
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This is all absolute bullshyt. You're either a simp or a bytch.
 
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TheBlackSun said:
but women have always gotten a bit of the easier lot in relationships, and mostly in life.
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:mjlol:no they haven't

The fact that they were property until a few decades ago and are still in developing countries proves that point.
They also endure more violence during conflicts.
 
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shadowking said:
:mjlol:no they haven't

The fact that they were property until a few decades ago and are still in developing countries proves that point.
They also endure more violence during conflicts.
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In the context of "rights", here in the west; yes they have. The very fact that they were able to gain rights, autonomy, and have the feminist movements they have is testament to that.

The subject here is in the context of RELATIONSHIPS. As in men approaching women. Women just have to be pretty, and nothing more to attract a man. Men are the one's who have to really put in the work, and after it all of it; she still may not choose you.
 
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If you end goal is sex then yes, women have easier access to people who want to have mindless sex with them for a single night.

If your end goal is a relationship that leads to marriage, men have the upper hand in that department.

Men desire sex with no attachment, women desire a relationship.

Men will easily give sex with no attachment but to stay committed to one woman is something men do not give into easily.

Women will easily get into a committed relationship, but to have sex with no attachment is something they don't give into easily.

Do you get it? Men and women have something that each other wants, but they do not easily want to give it away to just anyone. Thats why dating is important, but broke/feminized nikkas with no goals only think about sex because they dont have anything to give to make a relationship work. And whore women only want relationships because they are tired of having no walls and being seen as a whore. These types will never be good in a relationship but unfortunately I am starting to see more and more of these types in relationships and getting married.
 
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Londilon said:
If you end goal is sex then yes, women have easier access to people who want to have mindless sex with them for a single night.

If your end goal is a relationship that leads to marriage, men have the upper hand in that department.

Men desire sex with no attachment, women desire a relationship.

Men will easily give sex with no attachment but to stay committed to one woman is something men do not give into easily.

Women will easily get into a committed relationship, but to have sex with no attachment is something they don't give into easily.

Do you get it? Men and women have something that each other wants, but they do not easily want to give it away to just anyone. Thats why dating is important, but broke/feminized nikkas with no goals only think about sex because they dont have anything to give to make a relationship work. And whore women only want relationships because they are tired of having no walls and being seen as a whore. These types will never be good in a relationship but unfortunately I am starting to see more and more of these types in relationships and getting married.
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:mjlol: This is 100% not true in 2017. That said, sex remains the 2nd greatest indicator of a relationship (behind only monogamy). You do pretty much everything else (spend time, share intimate secrets, hang out) with friends and family as well. This attempt to minimize sexual desirability is downright silly. If you have easier access to people wanting to fukk, you have easier access to a relationship (if you do shyt right that is).

Plenty of men want sex with attachment, many of them end up in the friendzone however (a nikka that just wants to fukk ain't putting up with that shyt). Plenty of guys that go into a situation just wanting some box come out married. Conversely, very few guys go from friendzone to relationship. Men only have an advantage if they are on a certain level of looks, money, influence etc. The average looking woman can sit back and count the dikks coming her way and pick which one is attached the most suitable mate. The problem is women often fail to recognize this power or fail take it seriously or fail use caution and discipline. And then when the tide turns in the late 20s/early 30s it's "whoa is me where are all the good men".
 
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