I think I'm done trying to be social.

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

Off topic... Baffles me how many people don't know how to use woman/women, your/you're, etc correctly

 

[the cac mamba]

Yall overreacting and overreaching. Thus ain't no damn Kent TV 3.0

overreacting? this dude is too anxious to drive a fukkin car

im not hating on dude. i just dont see any better suggestions being presented

 

[Reginald Noble]

overreacting? this dude is too anxious to drive a fukkin car

im not hating on dude. i just dont see any better suggestions being presented

I don't even wanna leave the house sometimes. But I put on my headphones and do what I gotta do and get shyt done.

You acting like homie is a complete invalid collecting SSI/SSD or some shyt.

 

[the cac mamba]

I don't even wanna leave the house sometimes. But I put on my headphones and do what I gotta do and get shyt done.

You acting like homie is a complete invalid collecting SSI/SSD or some shyt.

hes very clearly on that path

senior in HS. no license because driving a car makes him anxious. his parents had to 'make him' go to college

breh is a first ballot candidate for the xanny family

 

[King Poetic]

i notice everyone are introverts in public today

walk down every street and motherfukkers got their nose in their phones.....

 

[Audemar]

Just a note, there's a vast difference between an introvert and someone who longs to be social but isn't adept enough to do so (OP). For some reason, people often associate introversion with not being social adept.

 

[The Burger King]

OP, you sound a lot like me in some ways.

When I was younger (elementary school) I was very social and outgoing. Other kids loved me, girls my age were all crushing on me, and my grades were on point.

Then my parents had to take me out of school and homeschool me for a number of reasons. I remember I cried a whole lot when it happened.

Then I went deep into a shell. It didn't help that I lost three of my cousins who I grew up with.

I went to an early college high school as a junior and tried to readjust, but I couldn't and only made two close friends.

After I graduated I moved out (with help from family members) and decided to make a checklist of everything I wanted to change about myself.

Over the next year I got a job, a car, decorated my place, got fast braces, got a new haircut, got new clothes, and a number of other things. Then I started hitting up a teen club and I lost my virginity, which I had previously thought would never happen.

I'm only 19, 2 years older than you, and as soon as I took major steps to become the person I want to be, a lot of things just started happening.

I don't have social anxiety but I do have problems. I'm not completely healed, but I've changed my life a LOT.

You're still young. You will graduate soon. Right now make a list of things you want to accomplish before you go off to college. Then DM me and I'll help you out.

In spite of what you may think, a lot of young black men in America are L-O-S-T, no matter how extroverted or popular they may seem. Only way we can fix it is to start helping each other.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My most serious advice to u is:

Get some p*ssy

Even if it's just 3s and 4s

Even if u gotta buy some p*ssy

Just get some to get your mood right


Take
Maca root
Niacin
Spirulina
Apple cider vinegar
Do a colon cleanse

Work out

Go to church

And u will feel like a new man

 

[DarkHorse23]

Loneliness is a killer: It's as bad for your health as alcoholism, smoking and over-eating, say scientists | Daily Mail Online

daily mail is a trash source usually but i looked up the study and its legit

good luck breh

I'm starting to believe that. I've spent so much time alone I think it's really having an affect on me.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

Alright man, but right now I just don't wanna be bothered with socialization anymore, I'm just tired of it,

Don't force yourself to socialize.

Relaxing helps. It's a process that involves recognition of your feelings, acceptance, and resolution. It sounds like bullshyt, but it works for me.

Sometimes I hide underneath the bottom shelf in the fridge at work because I can't handle being around people. I feel like screaming too.

When I follow the steps I suggested to you I feel fine. You have every right to feel however you feel at anytime.

Allowing those feelings to control you can be changed is all I'm saying. Being aware of and not in your feelings is a handy skill my friend.

 

[Saiyajin]

I'm starting to believe that. I've spent so much time alone I think it's really having an affect on me.

get a job just for the social aspect

 

[horizon]

Yall have to stop conflating introverts with socially awkward fukks

 

[GoldCoastSaint]

I get it. Went to a meetup for introverts who want social interactions and of course none of them were really introverts. Liars. I felt very awkward but still tried to engage. Failed. Im crossing this off my resolution list and accepting I am what I am. Never again.


You'll find love tho. Probably with an extreme extrovert who loves talking to you cause you mostly just listen.

 

[K.Dot]

I came to a conclusion today that I really don't care if my social skills don't improve down the road. What's the point? When all it brings me is misery, anxiety and regret.

And honestly I rather not take meds even if it does help

I don't even think I care about getting a women down the road y'all.

As Kent would say, "I'm become a lone wolf now"

I have SPD I'm all over the autism spectrum and assimilated with society just fine. Girl's, parties, I even had to do customer service when I got into IT. Just seek medical help breh damn.

 

[Dwolf]

I get it. Went to a meetup for introverts who want social interactions and of course none of them were really introverts. Liars. I felt very awkward but still tried to engage. Failed. Im crossing this off my resolution list and accepting I am what I am. Never again.


You'll find love tho. Probably with an extreme extrovert who loves talking to you cause you mostly just listen.

Being an introvert is whats cool these days