I think I'm done trying to be social.

[Dwolf]

I came to a conclusion today that I really don't care if my social skills don't improve down the road. What's the point? When all it brings me is misery, anxiety and regret.

And honestly I rather not take meds even if it does help

I don't even think I care about getting a women down the road y'all.

As Kent would say, "I'm become a lone wolf now"

This will not end well for you

 

[CarbonBraddock]

nikka you like 17

Talking like you in your 40's and shyt

Stop acting so sheltered and sympathy searching bruh. Sorry, not gonna pamper you my nikka. If you want shyt to change you got to relax and let go of this scary shyt.

If not then

OTIS stays dropping knowledge on these lil young-ass mufukkas.

 

[Stone]

Meant to say this in that MgTOW thread but I think that what OP and others have to realize is exactly is that building social skills isn't too much different from any other type of skill.

Only difference is your ego is tied to your social value which is determined in large part by your ability to communicate i.e Social skills. We as humans want to protect our ego at any cost, but we also want validation which cannot exist without the risk of rejection which hurts our ego. So admitting deficiency in this area can seem like admitting that you are somehow a defective human because it is believed that social skills are natural and not learned and you don't want to risk your ego trying to learn because you believe you're supposed to know already, it's a similar concept with sex.


Peep this video and substitute the word sauce with "social skills" or "swag" and see what I mean.

 

[99 Hunter]

what kinda elliot rodger shyt is this

breh, can you get a fukkin xanax prescription already surely it cant be worse than living your life like this

Woah woah, Elliot Rodger?

Don't compare me to that fukk, I ain't nowhere hateful as that motherfukker and I ain't desperate for no damn p*ssy to be honest, I respect women even if they don't respect me.

Imdontnhave any hate in my heart and sure medications could help but that's a temporary help and they make money off that and some of the symptoms that may occur are just not worth it in my opinion.

Jesus Christ, don't compare to that b*stard

 

[99 Hunter]

Thanks for all the advice guys

 

[Mr.bocario]

Be 17 yrs old, and think your life will always be this way brehs

 

[NotaPAWG]

Thanks for all the advice guys

When it comes to women, be yourself. To the right women. So many men who struggle with what you do and aren't exactly good at talking to women aren't themselves. Be anxious, be awkward, etc. that's a part of who you are and your struggles.

My boyfriend has horrible anxiety. It's super noticeable, too. When we first started talking he told me right away about it and his issues. Considering I also deal with anxiety as well as depression, I understood.

Don't worry about the women, thing though. For a long time I thought I was doomed in the relationship department because of my mental health issues. But I met someone who gets me, uplifts me and we work together and try to uplift one another when we're feeling bad. You'll meet the right person for you someday.

Maybe also seeing a therapist might help. I know it helps both my boyfriend and i. Sometimes just having someone to unload all your thoughts onto and hearing yourself speak can be relieving and also help you organize your feelings and thoughts. Good luck man

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

With how nervous I get I come off as a creep or some future psycho to people.

I don't see no significant other coming haha

I'll work on myself but socially nah

Thoughts become actions. If you decide you cannot have a significant other, even if you want one, you will never have one. Change your attitude and seek help. The fact that you even made this thread = you clearly WANT these things; if you didn't care you wouldn't think about it.

 

[the cac mamba]

Woah woah, Elliot Rodger?

Don't compare me to that fukk, I ain't nowhere hateful as that motherfukker and I ain't desperate for no damn p*ssy to be honest, I respect women even if they don't respect me.

Imdontnhave any hate in my heart and sure medications could help but that's a temporary help and they make money off that and some of the symptoms that may occur are just not worth it in my opinion.

Jesus Christ, don't compare to that b*stard

breh im just fukkin around

you know why thats my advice? because i got one myself. and every month, i end with more pills than they gave me. im not addicted, its not a problem. i feel no sense of obligation to them. i just throw one back when i want to

it rearranges your chemicals in a good way. i really think you oughta try it

 

[99 Hunter]

breh im just fukkin around

you know why thats my advice? because i got one myself. and every month, i end with more pills than they gave me. im not addicted, its not a problem. i feel no sense of obligation to them. i just throw one back when i want to

it rearranges your chemicals in a good way. i really think you oughta try it

I don't know man maybe down the road

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

@ShyJ
Please listen to this song.

 

[Pegasus Jackson]

@ShyJ
Please listen to this song.

You obviously want this man to slash his wrists if you're putting him onto Morrissey.

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

You obviously want this man to slash his wrists if you're putting him onto Morrissey.

Lol, stop it. Listen to the song.