I think relationships are more successful when the man doesn't love the woman.

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Ur absolutely right @ItsGhost

My father said love makes a man weak. U need to be logical and pragmatic. Never marry the woman u love the most.

Uncle taught me a woman falls deeper in love with a selfish man than one who caters to her.

A woman’s conscious mind can hate it while her subconconscious loves it. I’ve had women say there done with me only to let me back into their lives.

So far so true.
 

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Don't be obtuse lil nikka, you haven't learned from a mistake until you have successfully applied the lesson you learned. Which is exactly what I was asking in my initial post.

I prefer acute...and I bet im older than you.
:usure:
And how you think Im able to say I learned from my mistakes...by not making them again...by applying what I learned?
You go in circles....
:why:

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I prefer acute...and I bet im older than you.
:usure:
And how you think Im able to say I learned from my mistakes...by not making them again...by applying what I learned?
You go in circles....
:why:

pWOAVL.gif


A lot of dudes posture like they know what there talking about to make other guys look bad and make themselves look better. The “yall must hate women” cats really aint scoring like they allude to.

The average male out here aint really a male. And theres no such thing as brotherhood anymore cuz these dudes will backstab for u some p*ssy in a heartbeat (or the chance of it).

I cant even refute what OP is saying cuz I’ve had men twice my age with long lasting marriages and far more women than I have tell me the same truths. Who am I to fukk tradition up?
 
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Any theory that is based solely on your own failure is faulty as fukk. How many of you nikkas are currently in relationships? :jbhmm:





I'm married and what OP said is nothing but truth

There was a time when you didn't have to worry about this stuff but welcome to the end of the world where thots and hos and sluts are reigning

If you approach a relationship in 2018 the way people approached them in 1968, you're gonna lose

Heck if you approach a relationship today the way folks approached a relationship in 1998, you're gonna lose

I have to play this game with my WIFE. Breh, my WIFE.

she young and in 2018, all these young women is the same

They change up when they get older and get ran through (maybe)

But if you get one in her prime, you better play this game or you will forever lose

I had to pull back on showing her so much love because at a certain point, I could feel her hitting me with the :usure:


When I act aloof and like I don't give a care what she do, then she hits me with the :feedme: and :lupe:


I'm not telling you what I think. I'm telling you what I KNOW.

these young sistas in 2018 are a different breed, breh.
 

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When a man truly loves a woman she starts to lose interest in him because he becomes less of a challenge.

Think of all the men in relationships with women they aren't in love with. Notice how the woman sticks like glue.

This is science.

I think there is a huge difference between earning respect and being a doormat and putting a woman on a pedestal.

One thing I learned in my parent's marriage and they never put each other on a pedestal. Do they have a lot of respect for each other? Fukk yeah they do and when the time is needed they support each other but bending backwards and allow themselves to be a doormat, never.
 

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I think there is a huge difference between earning respect and being a doormat and putting a woman on a pedestal.

One thing I learned in my parent's marriage and they never put each other on a pedestal. Do they have a lot of respect for each other? Fukk yeah they do and when the time is needed they support each other but bending backwards and allow themselves to be a doormat, never.

respect,communication and trust are the three fundamentals for a long lasting relationship.
 

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Women like drama and when you're nice all the time, they'll create drama. When she thinks she doesn't have you completely, she'll always be vying for your attention.

Easy to not be attached when you're not into them, but when she's what you want, you gotta fight your own instincts to keep her...

shyt is tiring, honestly.

Ur absolutely right @ItsGhost

My father said love makes a man weak. U need to be logical and pragmatic. Never marry the woman u love the most.

Uncle taught me a woman falls deeper in love with a selfish man than one who caters to her.

A woman’s conscious mind can hate it while her subconconscious loves it. I’ve had women say there done with me only to let me back into their lives.

So far so true.

Man I been talking and seeing this one girl, and she's a 6, 7 on a good day but has so many other great qualities about her that make her a 8 in my eyes and mann i feel like she's perfect for me. A part of me just wanna be like man fukk the games and the bullshyt, but i know that I'm gonna lose her if I don't stick with it. It sucks. It's mentally and emotionally draining cuz truthfully I'm a one woman guy deep down. I really don't care about fukking a bunch of random broads. I did that in my early 20's and got it out my system. But it's like, you need to have some type of roster to keep yourself unattached to these women cuz the second you slip up and fall in love, you gonna lose her.

It's a shytty game when you give a fukk :beli:
 
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I'm married and what OP said is nothing but truth

There was a time when you didn't have to worry about this stuff but welcome to the end of the world where thots and hos and sluts are reigning

If you approach a relationship in 2018 the way people approached them in 1968, you're gonna lose

Heck if you approach a relationship today the way folks approached a relationship in 1998, you're gonna lose

I have to play this game with my WIFE. Breh, my WIFE.

she young and in 2018, all these young women is the same

They change up when they get older and get ran through (maybe)

But if you get one in her prime, you better play this game or you will forever lose

I had to pull back on showing her so much love because at a certain point, I could feel her hitting me with the :usure:


When I act aloof and like I don't give a care what she do, then she hits me with the :feedme: and :lupe:


I'm not telling you what I think. I'm telling you what I KNOW.

these young sistas in 2018 are a different breed, breh.

That is because in 2018,relationships are centered around fulfilling egos.You should not have to play games when you reach that stage of full on commitment.Playing games when you are married just sounds a bit toxic
 

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fukk with a duck bytch with no sense & wonder why life is a struggle

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what can a dubb.ass.hoe that stands for disrespect do for you or potentially your children¿

shyte like this reveals the caliber of individual posting

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of course you love ain't shyte broads when you ain't shyte

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