The sooner we realise we are in a war attrition the sooner we all unify and progress. The problem we have is we are too focused on the moment. This is a generational problem and we have to build a solid foundation to overcome the struggle. Using colloquial evidence I have gathered from my own life the problem I noticed was a unhealthy focus being "cool". There has to be a cultural shift from this nonsense. Just my 2 cents.