"I told him im not ready for a relationship and he just....BLOCKED me. No pressure applied"

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This trend is dumb because it makes the author look like an idiot. :snoop:


nahhh if she ask u for a relationship means she wanted to be with u..... girls always post some shyt like this to get a reaction outta u
shorty was prolly alone sad as fukk all night
 

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Ive literally NEVER asked a chick to be in a relationship :picard:


Never




Women pushed relationship on me like a crack dealer
Every fukking thread a coli moron wil come in and brag about something nobody cares about.

It could be a thread about saving money to purchase something and a coli moron will come in like “ Yall really saving money out here? :scust: I’ve never saved money in my life to purchase something since my job pays so much I always have something. Six figures gang, we ouchea :wow:
 

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I am proud of that man!

He did the right thing!

Charge her ass to the game and keep it pushin!!

No sense of investing further time into someone who want something else.

She wasn't ready for a relationship, which is fine and dandy.

But, it isn't just about what she wants. He may be ready for a relationship or he just wanted to smash, but didn't wanna continue to wait until she is ready to go there with him which seems to be more likely the scenario.

He cut his losses and moved on!

If she is devastated, which I highly doubt, then she will get over it.

I hope more men do this like other posters has said.
 
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I mean he did right not seeing any issues. More men need to be quick with the block/ignore trigger.
Blocking just makes you look petty and even emotional. He did the first part right but then ruined it by blocking. Just wish her the best and move on. Don’t do anything else. Let her see for herself how much you don’t care about her.
 

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Blocking a chick who isn’t harassing you is kinda sassy imo, even if your goal is to get her in her feelings it’s better to just fall back and let the uncertainty get at her but lemme stop lol.
 

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His bytch ass deserved that reply for even attempting to cuff a woman he has known for 2 months :mjlol:

Men need to start spending A LOT of time getting to know the women they are with before even considering a relationship. A year is not enough time to get to know a woman properly, let alone 2 measly ass months :francis:


Do better and stop letting these hoes guilt trip you into shyt you not prepared for all in the name of "not wasting her time"
 

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Blocking just makes you look petty and even emotional. He did the first part right but then ruined it by blocking. Just wish her the best and move on. Don’t do anything else. Let her see for herself how much you don’t care about her.

Nah, it doesn't look petty.

Even the fukkery that you're following up with "let her see how much you don't care" blah, blah, blah is proof of why it is best just to block and move on.

You shouldn't be concerned with how it will look, how it will be interpreted etc. What matters is severing ties.
 

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Nah, it doesn't look petty.

Even the fukkery that you're following up with "let her see how much you don't care" blah, blah, blah is proof of why it is best just to block and move on.

You shouldn't be concerned with how it will look, how it will be interpreted etc. What matters is severing ties.
The ultimate aim is indifference. That’s what hurts them the most. Blocking means she’s got to you and they’ll take that as a victory.
 

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The ultimate aim is indifference. That’s what hurts them the most. Blocking means she’s got to you and they’ll take that as a victory.

What you're saying is an oxymoron. If you're concerned with hurting someone, indifference isn't there.

The ultimate goal should be moving on. That is accomplished by cutting them off with no regard for how they feel and how it will look.
 

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Edit: Not gonna waste any more energy on something that’s likely fake from a chick living in Zimbabwe or whatever.
 
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