"I told him im not ready for a relationship and he just....BLOCKED me. No pressure applied"

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Nah.

This is the weird flex people used to try and do at school to get out of an ass whooping. If you hit me, that means you're offender and I win.

What matters is sticking by the decision. Doesn't matter if you're heated or if you just don't give a fukk.

I don't typically block anyone after a breakup. I won't pick up when they call. If they're the one that wanted the breakup, they're going to own that decision. Now for shyt like in this situation I may, because the whole not ready for a relationship line is absolute fresh hot bullshyt. There's already some dude she's in love with ready to risk it all for:russ:. She'll want to stay your friend to tell you how much he's frustrating her though, which is why she's upset:mjlol:
 

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Shes more upset that he treated her like women treat us. Normally the story is a woman pressures a man to define a relationship and when he doesn't she dumps him and he begs for her to take him back realizing he has made a mistake. His desperate pleas are then screen capped and posted for the world to laugh at him. This man started off wanting a relationship and something real like so many women claim they want. When she told him she's not ready for that he cut her off the same way a woman would do for a man telling her that same thing and now she's hurt. He even did it respectfully too instead of just blocking without saying anything like most of these Twitter birds do.

Congratulations ladies, this is the world feminism has created. Gender equality doesn't only benefit women, it benefits men too. Today's non-simp male will open a door for a woman when hes feeling generous. He expects presents too. He won't stand for subpar sex, and he'll straight up erase a bytch from his life if she disrespects him. He won't beg for attention from a woman. If she ain't respond to his text he'll text another woman and smash that night. Only games we playing are on the field, the court, or on the TV :yeshrug:
That's it.

Gender equality.
 

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I disagree with this.

I block every ex that I had a bad break with.

Not cuz i'm hurt, but because its just easier to move on. No "lets talk" text, no "hey i'm sorry wyd?"

Blocking someone doesn't always mean they hurt you. It often means you are just done with that part of your life and you moving on. :yeshrug:



Even now that i'm married, none of my exes can contact me. Doesn't mean i'm mad lol :mjlol:
That's being a MAN.

Ex is the past and need to be blocked.
 

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Every fukking thread a coli moron wil come in and brag about something nobody cares about.

It could be a thread about saving money to purchase something and a coli moron will come in like “ Yall really saving money out here? :scust: I’ve never saved money in my life to purchase something since my job pays so much I always have something. Six figures gang, we ouchea :wow:
Look at this dikk eating international c00n fakkit triggered :mjlol:


And nikkas dapping this cause yall some loser ass dudes begging hoes to allow u in their presence :dead:


Stay mad
Immigrant c00n loser aggy simp:ld:
 

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Look at this dikk eating international c00n fakkit triggered :mjlol:


And nikkas dapping this cause yall some loser ass dudes begging hoes to allow u in their presence :dead:


Stay mad
Immigrant c00n loser aggy simp:ld:
I’m a c00n now? I thought I was a cac? Or am I a c00n cac? Can’t even keep up with your insults you fukking retard :laff:
 

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It's not an L. Especially if you cease contact. But if you're blocking it means that it's still bothering you, otherwise you could just leave it alone without needing to block. Her knowing you're getting emotional about it is the L.



I consider pettiness a feminine trait that women like to describe themselves as. Petty usually comes from an emotional place. It's just more effective for me to KIM without the block.



How am I keeping them in my circle if I literally never communicate with them? Blocking them represents emotion because thats when men most often block people.

You blocking your homie when yall fall out?
You blocking an employer after you quit or get fired?
You blocking telemarketers when they call?
You blocking a recruiter from a job you're no longer interested in?

If the answer to any of those is no, then examine why this person needs to be blocked. Show me a non emotional reason to do it.

A disciplined man can literally move on with having to do anything extra. A number in your phone is just that UNLESS you communicate with that person.




How could she be aggravating him if he's moved on? Why would he care, what would it matter? It's not different than a telemarketer.



But do what ever yall need to get through your process of getting over someone. Emotions aren't a bad thing, just acknowledge them when they're there.

You can't tell me the dude in that twitter scenario didn't say "Man fuk that bxtch" when he blocked her. That's emotional. He put two months into something he thought was going somewhere it's okay for him to be hurt. But a man can settle that within himself without showing emotional/petty actions like blocking someone. If he really was okay with her not wanting him he would've just kept it moving and just detached emotionally himself rather than relying on technology (blocking) to help him with that.

People often use that block because they are shook to have the real conversation. That's why ghosting is a thing, people are nervous to have a difficult conversation and they'd rather let technology do the work.

Yall blocking people instead of just ignoring them. That's like hitting ignore on a coli poster because you don't have the discipline to ignore them yourself.
The fact u typed all that literally proves how emotional u are about just talking about it:mjlol:
 
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I’m a c00n now? I thought I was a cac? Or am I a c00n cac? Can’t even keep up with your insults you fukking retard :laff:
U know damm well everyone knows u an African c00n that hates FBAs:mjlol:


I call u a cac cause i know that's what u wish u were:umad:

U another poster obsessed with me and follow me in threads like u infatuated :bryan:



U dumb c00n yacubian bama
 

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He made the right move. She wanted to keep him in the "comfort simp" category and he didn't play that. She didn't like him enough to be in a relationship with him but wanted to keep him around for chats and other benefits and as a fall back option in the event the guy she really liked told her no. He kept it classy and didn't curse her out or do anything crazy, but he refused to let his time continue to be wasted.
 

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U know damm well everyone knows u an African c00n that hates FBAs:mjlol:


I call u a cac cause i know that's what u wish u were:umad:

U another poster obsessed with me and follow me in threads like u infatuated :bryan:



U dumb c00n yacubian bama
:mjlol: You’re hilariously stupid
 
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