"I told him im not ready for a relationship and he just....BLOCKED me. No pressure applied"

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If a women tests you part of her wants to or is willing to lose you...

Im not gonna leave a bag of money outside to see if someone will take it I want all of it and all that comes with it.......
i think it depends on the type of tests.

it is necessary for them to test men, too many men are full of shyt, it's the only way a woman can actually know you're that guy.
 

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I had a girl do this to me.. but we had just start talking off and on for like 3 weeks or so

text me like:

Her: "hey, I think my ex and I are going to try to work things out"

Me: ok


that was it. I could care less. she did marry him tho. so.. good move by her. I definitely would have wasted her time. lol
 

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i think it depends on the type of tests.

it is necessary for them to test men, too many men are full of shyt, it's the only way a woman can actually know you're that guy.
I am not saying its necessary right or worng im saying the girl has doubts and insecurities about you if she tests and she KNOWS that if the test goes bad its over soooo if she IS testing she is willing to lose you...

If its months in and she likes you and likes what she sees and is confident why test?

Life tests your relationship through other people, things and situations freestyle testing just makes the relationship harder. If friends talk shyt about you or one set of parents dont like you together and then the next weekend she pulling tests when your out its counterproductive. Gives an annoying, bad vibe to the relationship.
 

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If a women tests you part of her wants to or is willing to lose you...

Im not gonna leave a bag of money outside to see if someone will take it I want all of it and all that comes with it.......
I disagree. It's too many foul ass dudes that will string women along or that are doing dirt. I think it's smart for men and women to test their partners to make sure they are legit. Just don't go overboard it. Before I get too deep in my feelings for anybody I want to test how they react when they are angry. I want to see how their communication is when they are unhappy with me. I test to make sure they aren't using me for a free meal or for the things I do for them versus wanting to be with me. That's all stuff I test out early before opening all the way up emotionally cause once emotions are involved all the red flags are ignored.
 

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Both of these people are tweeting from Africa and look like a bunch of kids. These African kids aren't mentally prepared for all the double talking self-sabotage bullshyt that goes on in the West.

Slightly different scenarios imo.

The girl was playing games with a dude she was interested in and got blocked.

This dude was playing games and dodged a bullet if she's cuddling with another man hours later.

nahhh if she ask u for a relationship means she wanted to be with u..... girls always post some shyt like this to get a reaction outta u
shorty was prolly alone sad as fukk all night



Y'all still think both of these situations actually happened? :gucci:
 

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The fact u typed all that literally proves how emotional u are about just talking about it:mjlol:


I'm emotional because I'm replying to people that quoted me in detail? I like to full explain my viewpoint with people I engage with.

:yeshrug:




You trolling, or do you like saying unsubstantiated things on forums?

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