"I told him im not ready for a relationship and he just....BLOCKED me. No pressure applied"

[GoFlipAPack]

But wouldn't that be considered thirsty if he applied pressure?

 

[Jasmine20]

He knows what he wants. He did the right thing. She is childish and would have still been texting him, calling and flirting even though she don't want him.

 

[Menna]

I disagree. It's too many foul ass dudes that will string women along or that are doing dirt. I think it's smart for men and women to test their partners to make sure they are legit. Just don't go overboard it. Before I get too deep in my feelings for anybody I want to test how they react when they are angry. I want to see how their communication is when they are unhappy with me. I test to make sure they aren't using me for a free meal or for the things I do for them versus wanting to be with me. That's all stuff I test out early before opening all the way up emotionally cause once emotions are involved all the red flags are ignored.

Doesn't life do this for you after a few months if you two don't stay in the house the whole time? Im not talking about during the first 20 days of communicating the post was about after 2-3 months... My quote was more relating to 3+ months after meeting someone if the women still testing she willing to lose you.

If you meet someone and you start talking June 1st and its now mid Sept and she or he still testing you Oct 1st there is unresolved issues or trust issues or theres something someone doesnt like...

I agree first 20-30days my ears and eyes wide open...After 3-4 months gotta let the relationship develop without the tests thrown in...Simple life shyt will tell ya how they act in a public resturant talking to the help, how they act out in the park, how they act with eachother families and close friends if they always in their phone around you....3-4 months the answers are there and if theres still doubts and volunteer tests from one side then theres hesitation from that side for whatever reason...At least I would be out

Its like at work if you been there 5 years they not telling you to make copies all afternoon you progressed.... When people try to act like a certain amount of time has not past they not living in reality they forcing

 

[CodeKansas]

She's getting dragged in the comments with simple logic from both bm and bw.

You love to see it.

 

[Consigliere]

The best thing I ever heard Patrice say was that thing about women being time thieves.

Stop the thiefing. Stop the scamming.

 

[Menna]

The best thing I ever heard Patrice say was that thing about women being time thieves.

Stop the thiefing. Stop the scamming.

Reality thieves to force their narrative/agenda

 

[Commish]

Only time I will block some one is if that person disrespect me.

As for looking emotional and sassy...

Who cares!

Not gonna talk to that person anymore anyways, so they can take it as a victory, a loss or be indifferent.

DGAF!!

I see it as valuing your time and effort and those who don't respect your time nor effort get whatever they get!

Cause & effect!

*shrugs*

 

[Serious]

I disagree with this.

I block every ex that I had a bad break with.

Not cuz i'm hurt, but because its just easier to move on. No "lets talk" text, no "hey i'm sorry wyd?"

Blocking someone doesn't always mean they hurt you. It often means you are just done with that part of your life and you moving on.



Even now that i'm married, none of my exes can contact me. Doesn't mean i'm mad lol

I don’t think most of these cats have any idea of what it’s like to have a woman calling and texting you 12 times 5am in the morning.

@paperbag sometimes that block is necessary

 

[paperbag]

I don’t think most of these cats have any idea of what it’s like to have a woman calling and texting you 12 times 5am in the morning.

@paperbag sometimes that block is necessary

I have 3 phones, you will pick up

 

[Serious]

I have 3 phones, you will pick up

I have two. One is never charged and I probably won’t pick up because my phone stays on silent, face down, with the notifications off.

 

[paperbag]

fukk boi babble

 

[DA_LURKA]

He applied pressure to that block button...

 

[WesCrook]

He made the right move. She wanted to keep him in the "comfort simp" category and he didn't play that. She didn't like him enough to be in a relationship with him but wanted to keep him around for chats and other benefits and as a fall back option in the event the guy she really liked told her no. He kept it classy and didn't curse her out or do anything crazy, but he refused to let his time continue to be wasted.

And she clearly underestimated his actions. She never saw it coming.

 

[3:30]

It's not an L. Especially if you cease contact. But if you're blocking it means that it's still bothering you, otherwise you could just leave it alone without needing to block. Her knowing you're getting emotional about it is the L.



I consider pettiness a feminine trait that women like to describe themselves as. Petty usually comes from an emotional place. It's just more effective for me to KIM without the block.

But why would you keep ignoring something you can just cut off completely..

it’s like you want to pat yourself on the back every time you see a text you’re not responding to either way

Shyt is pointless and also petty ..

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

Not really. You're supposed to dead that shyt way earlier than two months. It's a waste of time. After awhile you could see she is full of shyt if there is no progression.

spit that real then