I understand why men in Longterm/marriage relationships cheat

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Not every man cheats but alot of women are delusional thinking their man wouldnt cheat more often than he would. Especially on here i notice alot of females act like they have these desirable men. If its like that then yall more than likely think its one way but its the othet way. Again, I said more than likely. Some dudes will resist all temptations and props to them
 
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It’s one of life’s interesting dilemmas

EVERYONE within both of your lives push you to get married yet no one comes to save the day when you’re in the game

Maybe she used to love to fukk before. Maybe it isn’t like a “This is how you met me” sort of deal

Kids in the picture now

You could barely get the bytch go crazy anymore. She’s still a nice girl & everything else is fine. p*ssy seems so arbitrary until it’s gone missing

A lot of nikkax stuck with the realization that p*ssy isn’t worth breaking up a home but just because she has deprioritized do you tie your dikk in a knot?

I’ve seen it!
 

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This isn't discussed at all, if a women decides to significantly decrease the amount of sex between her and her husband/constantly turns him down, she deserves to be cheated on period. If the sex is plain for her she needs to COMMUNICATE like a fukking adult. The largest pitfall of American relationships is the woman's inability to clearly express her needs to the man, instead she expects him to read her mind. If it gets stale for wifey and she tells me I'll spice it up, be more spontaneous. But men generally work on the principle of it ain't broke, don't fix it, AKA PRAGMATISM. Meanwhile, shyt will get broken and a woman acting like a child won't COMMUNICATE something is broken, hence it never gets fixed. I know if I get married, and my wife starts to do this the accounts are going to be emptied gradually, I'll start stashing personal money away. I'll try to work it out but a failure to communicate is the first step in the wrong direction, because to some degree that illustrates a lack of love or trust, either way that's not a good sign.
 

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How do these men look? Are they keeping themselves together? Women in their 40/ and 50s still have a sex drive. If the man they’re with doesn't tend to his appearance, they will retrieve dikk elsewhere. If you’re working out and eating well, there’s no reason for your sex life to be at a standstill.

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doesnt matter how you look. Some women just marry men cause they have money but not into them. So they will ration out sex one a month. I heard stories about it.
 

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After a while, women in longterm relationships barely want to have sex or none at all.

Was talking to a cac from work, his 37 & all he gets is goodnight kisses at night from his gf & barely any sex. Sex maybe once every three months. Breh is surviving by fukking escorts on the side.

Another cac from work, he says he literally begs for sex from his wife.

My homeboy a breh, his always on the hunt & always trying to fukk his ex.

Most men our sex drives will remain high till 60s. If you dont get it at home, you will find other means
Their wives are getting their back blown out by a new nikka

90% of women I casually fukk are married.

Simps and beta males will say it's the man's fault, but it's not

#GMB
 

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Wifey wants to BS on givin up the yams, or decides to weaponize sex, as a reward...then I accept that as giving me the greenlight to get cheeks elsewhere....:yeshrug:

We're not doin the mental gymnastics for ass, or the
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I aint got the time, nor the energy to be thinkin up intricate schemes, to get cheeks from my lady. Especially when another female will handle it, with pleasure for less. Cats be tryin to put it on the dude, like its all their fault shyt goes left...:camby:
THIS.
 

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no matter how important a woman thinks sex is to her husband... she will never truly understand hoe important sex is to her husband.

Sex matters alot, especially in our primes.

It just does.

If a woman finds herself giving excuses or rebuffs to her man's sexual advances, that relationship is headed towards death
 

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Marriage is hard work... You put in the required work to get the woman your married too so sex is the same concept out in the work..

And real talk when ya wife see you handling your business around the house, you helping out and not having her do all the work she will get moist off that type of shyt alone
 

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The issue with this theory is a lot of men that say their wife doesn't want to have sex anymore, but usually they haven't done anything new to make it happen. When you are with someone for a long period of time, things are going to change. Your sex drive will not be the same as it was 20, 10, or even 5 years ago. You will see brehs that have added 20 pounds over the years, doing the same moves and nothing new and exciting wondering why their wife isn't as interested anymore.

You have to adapt and spice things up. You think doing the same shiit you did when you were dating is gonna work? :heh:

The issue is marriage here is lopsided - if she isn't offering intimacy anymore then why be with her ?

Imagine if men asked women to adapt their naggin and switch their attitudes or they won't continue paying the mortgage :ufdup:
 
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