I used to pay for first dates

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Okay.

 

[Tommy Lee Jones]

I had this bytch who was a 9 from dating app wanted to go to fancy Italian place for first date. I’m talking $70 entree. I told her i don’t really know her yet let’s go somewhere more low key for first date. She unmatched me but that’s how a man handles the situation.

 

[TheMailMan]

On the first date you want her to cook for you? Do you atleast provide the food for recipe?

I think what he means is the girl is willing to cook after a first date somewhere public. That girl sounds like a keeper

 

[CM_Burns]

I had this bytch who was a 9 from dating app wanted to go to fancy Italian place for first date. I’m talking $70 entree. I told her i don’t really know her yet let’s go somewhere more low key for first date. She unmatched me but that’s how a man handles the situation.

The exception to.this is if both of you make a lot of money and that's genuinely the type of place she usually goes to. 9/10 times it's not though.

 

[ExodusNirvana]

baggage is so not cute

This is lazy.

Accept that there are dishonest unscrupulous men AND women, and that both sides need to earn things.

 

[Sauce Mane]

I had this bytch who was a 9 from dating app wanted to go to fancy Italian place for first date. I’m talking $70 entree. I told her i don’t really know her yet let’s go somewhere more low key for first date. She unmatched me but that’s how a man handles the situation.

She was just using you for a free meal

A lot of good looking women do that

A woman genuinely interested in you wouldn’t mind where you choose to eat.

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

shytttt looking back on women I’ve dealt with from my early 20s to mid 30s, the ones who I had something with we never did anything serious cost wise on the first date/ first meet. It’s the ones I jumped through hoops for on a first date/meet up to “impress” that I never got the drawers…and it was directly proportional to how attractive/ my type the woman was…

I played myself

So like I should’ve been doing all along now all these hoes get the same treatment REGARDLESS of how attracted to ‘em I am and I’ve been able to weed out the bullshytters

 

[UWasntThere]

PAY

But keep it STRICTLY to DRINKS ONLY until your dikk has been in HER MOUTH.

NO food. NO Snacks. ONLY drinks.

/thread

 

[Mass]

When I was dating, I would just talk on the phone for two three weeks before I spend money on a date lol. Way too many woman out there looking for free meals. If I was to date again, I would honestly just flat out say on my profile, I am not looking for anything serious. If woman are attracted to you, they will bite. Don't think i have it in me to get to know someone anymore.

I truly believe that this method weeds out a lot of wack ass women.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

This is lazy.

i could say the same about treating all of a "type" of people the same way just because 1 or 2 random incidents
you use discernment and act accordingly.
you all wouldn't like to be judged/treated based on what a past breh did so you know i'm right
happy hump day tho

 

[Roid Jones]

A real HVM pays on the first date and tips all the staff

 

[DJSmooth]

Nothing wrong with paying for a first date, just don't spend alot. There's a lot of places you can spend $40 on a woman and she'll have a good meal and a couple drinks.

There are multiple articles the average date in America is 100+ dollars.

 

[Ahadi]

Coffee, tea, ice cream, happy hour



I don’t mind paying, especially if I’m the one asking.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

There are multiple articles the average date in America is 100+ dollars.

That's gotta be together, no way dudes spending $100 on a woman. $100 is just enough for both ya'll to eat and have a couple drinks.

 

[Fillerguy]

I mean all throughout my 20s I paid for the dates but as I’ve gotten older until we become cool and I smash we splitting the bill.

Smh date better men