I Want Kids, But She Doesn't

[StickStickly]

Just have kids...And get a flat tea tummy from Instagram

Lol


But pregnancy does more than just weight gain to women's bodies. Skin texture, nipple size and color, skin color, hair density and texture, foot size, bone placement, pain levels, period changes, breast changes, fat distribution change, nose size, muscle separation, and whatever else you can imagine changes. Women can literally have a different body, which can be a mind fukk. You become a vessel for someone else during and after your pregnancy. You have to become a different person. I'm still on the fence about having kids.

 

[CoolazzFemale]

Look at the times we are in. Do you really want to bring a child in this world with all this shyt going on?.

 

[yeahisaidit]

Are you sure that you won't eventually resent her for preventing you from being a Father?
If she breaks down and has a child, would she resent you for forcing her to be a Mother?
Since adoption isn't an option, what about pets? (If you don't already have one, of course)

I think now would be a good time to consider counseling. Not that you two absolutely need it, but it may help the both of you figure out a solution to this.

I am happy to read about a man not wanting to give up on his marriage. I wish you luck, because this topic is a big deal breaker in most relationships.

 

[InDePickWest]

Wish I could send this thread to my man. He swears because I'm a woman I'm going to change my mind and eventually want them.

Imma let him keep lying to himself