"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

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So we just gon lie today baby?:usure:
We just gon act like she ACTUALLY likes black men?

It's not even her weight that's the problem b/c there are dudes who would date her.
But what she wants is validation from a grudge she is carrying against top tier black dudes who she was invisible to.
One of the most irritating aspects of reject culture is the lies. The LIES! They burrrnnn!

:damn: This ain't about blackness or being too "real". This about being unattractive to the men you claim to want.

And I say claim b/c I need people to understand this sickness. A lot of people don't even WANT love. She could have a great blk guy and will STILL shyt on him b/c she has a chip on her shoulder for being considered unattractive by fine dudes growing up.

Rejects take on the persona of extreme entitlement as a defense mechanism for being ignored and or rejected. They crave validation to prove to those that didn't want them that they were worthy.

They want attention.
A large subset of c00ns (b/c ya'll know that's what this hoe is trying to set up a contingency for btw:youngsabo:) fall into this category as well. For many it's not even the lure of whiteness that draws them to non-blks but the hope that somebody will hate on them for being with a non-blk partner.

Again, they want ATTENTION.
But once they get it, it'll never be enough. Nothing feeds that gaping wound to their ego by their initial rejection in their youth. Which is why many who date out will STILL have major hate in their hearts for the opposite sex of their own race even when they get a mythical non-blk partner.:mjlol:

So they will claim to want love but fukk over everybody they encounter until they come to terms with the bitterness that makes them seek attention and validation.
This shyt is fascinating to me.

Cliffs:
-She is pathetic and just wants attention and validation from men that don't want her and I'm fascinated by reject culture and the lies they tell themselves to avoid taking honest inventory of why they are abhorrent to the opposite sex.:francis:

You still dating that asain?
 

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:mjlol: She used every Shea butter talking point

-Her heteroflexibility
-Trans Queer mindset aggression
-Patriarchal mindset
-Toxic masculinity


:camby: She already was on bumble ( Her words) and she talked about the possibility of dating a non black partner.

:camby: Clearly she’s in bedwench mode.
 
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This the first thing they ask, so why not put it out there.

And is she trans? Why are straight women talking about cisgender, and why are they trying to shame men for wanting women with natural born female genitals? Do they really think we're going to suddenly not care about that?

:rudy:


Black men can’t be proud that they’ve got their shyt together (after HUNDREDS of years of being stereotyped as lazy bums) black men can’t have their own preferences as far as desiring a woman actually be BORN a woman. Black men literally can’t not want whores or prefer NOT to pay for sexual favors.....


All we can desire is to feed the ego of this fat “heteronormative” miserable woman:gucci: its ABSURD
 
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You still dating that asain?
We never were dating:mjlol: and the lease is up.
Not even living together anymore. My funds have been blessed so I'm not being cheap anymore and living with a roommate. It's gonna feel so good to have my own space again. I like my friends but living with them is :picard:.
 
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So we just gon lie today baby?:usure:
We just gon act like she ACTUALLY likes black men?





It's not even her weight that's the problem b/c there are dudes who would date her.
But what she wants is validation from a grudge she is carrying against top tier black dudes who she was invisible to.
One of the most irritating aspects of reject culture is the lies. The LIES! They burrrnnn!

:damn: This ain't about blackness or being too "real". This about being unattractive to the men you claim to want.

And I say claim b/c I need people to understand this sickness. A lot of people don't even WANT love. She could have a great blk guy and will STILL shyt on him b/c she has a chip on her shoulder for being considered unattractive by fine dudes growing up.

Rejects take on the persona of extreme entitlement as a defense mechanism for being ignored and or rejected. They crave validation to prove to those that didn't want them that they were worthy.

They want attention.
A large subset of c00ns (b/c ya'll know that's what this hoe is trying to set up a contingency for btw:youngsabo:) fall into this category as well. For many it's not even the lure of whiteness that draws them to non-blks but the hope that somebody will hate on them for being with a non-blk partner.

Again, they want ATTENTION.
But once they get it, it'll never be enough. Nothing feeds that gaping wound to their ego by their initial rejection in their youth. Which is why many who date out will STILL have major hate in their hearts for the opposite sex of their own race even when they get a mythical non-blk partner.:mjlol:

So they will claim to want love but fukk over everybody they encounter until they come to terms with the bitterness that makes them seek attention and validation.
This shyt is fascinating to me.

Cliffs:
-She is pathetic and just wants attention and validation from men that don't want her and I'm fascinated by reject culture and the lies they tell themselves to avoid taking honest inventory of why they are abhorrent to the opposite sex.:francis:

:picard:

WHEWWW you explained the logic behind rejection perfectly. Too much heat. Tbh I didn't expect it to read a post that profoundly explains this phenomenon so well. :wow:
 

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She better get like Lizzo and "feel herself". Cause thats her fate if she think she can be busted and disgusted and attract men.



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I'm fascinated by reject culture and the lies they tell themselves to avoid taking honest inventory of why they are abhorrent to the opposite sex.

Tbh I'm fascinated as well. We should have a thread where we discuss this situation specifically or something. Whenever nuance topics get discussed on here it always inevitably veers into petty arguments & like ruins the whole thread. :francis:
 
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Tbh I'm fascinated as well. We should have a thread where we discuss this situation specifically or something. Whenever nuance topics get discussed on here it always inevitably veers into petty arguments & like ruins the whole thread. :francis:

Make the thread bro. Either you or @Booksnrain
 

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The issue is delusion. A lot of these women believe they can just show up as they are and get a top notch benefits package. They want to have 1,000 standards for men to live up to but they themselves shouldn't be held to any standard... and when they can't find this mythical super negro who expects nothing, black men are all gay, in prison or illiterate
 
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