"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

Ricky Dunigan

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As a man if I'm overweight and sloppy I wouldn't expect women to be attracted to me either. IG models despite being attention whores at least go to the gym.

Bottom line, with all the competition out there, if you don't bother to fix what's broke, then that's on you. Complaining is only gonna make you more unattractive.

I resent this mentality that as black men we "should" just accept and take anything that comes our way and be grateful for it and not have standards - even if we're putting in the work ourselves. FOH.


Exactly... when i was 60 lbs heavier, i knew i wasn't cute enough to get the numbers i wanted after being in a loooong relationship. I didn't even hit the gym, just walked, biked, watched what i ate and lived like a normal human being and the women eventually came.

Not saying this on some brag, but it's about self realization. If she can't get "brothers" then it's on her.
 

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The black men she's referring to:
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Emoryal

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Read part of it. It was stupid. It has nothing to do with her not being able to get a man but some toxic black masculinity bullshyt even though it was just common shyt. She had a problem with men saying they dont want transgenders and arent willing to pair up with hoes:mjlol:
And she was doing mental gymnastics about dudes announcing they were financially stable.
Just pure hoe babble.
 

King Jae

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:camby:...said she was in a relationship for five years....sounds like she saw her friends upgrade and got froggy...thought she could do the same...:umad:...naw sweety...sometimes that person U with is the best u can do...disposable culture caught another body...her dumbass..
 

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L:mjlol: honestly it’s because she’s seeking males of a certain status,education,level of attractiveness.

1. Educated people are less likely to be overweight. So if she’s looking for a degreed man-that’s a dub. In my office I can count how many fat people work in our office on 1 maybe 2 hands-and majority are men.

2. It’s not that she’s only fat, she’s shapeless like if I were a fat girl who had lil titties id lose weight. Same thing I would tell a fat short nikka. You can’t be fat and short as a guy. As a woman you can’t be fat and shaped like a blob. It’s either or.
 
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