"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

[Bumblebreh]

See I like nikkas like this ...instead of allowing people to make an excuse hold women accountable. My grandmother once taught that women have more options than men. Men have to go and create a lot of options and approach etc. Most women probably know a man that would treat them right and treat them like a queen ...but it anit WHO they want . How many women are going to admit to turning down some decent nikkas thoe ...lets be honest women don’t talk about shyt like that .

Exactly it does not matter in what set you are repping.Most men have to shoot their shot.Men have to deal with rejection.Women get much more sympathy when it comes to dating but men are told to man up and be a man.

 

[xCivicx]

She better get like Lizzo and "feel herself". Cause thats her fate if she think she can be busted and disgusted and attract men.

I find Lizzo offensive

 

[Youseenmywork]

Exactly it does not matter in what set you are repping.Most men have to shoot their shot.Men have to deal with rejection.Women get much more sympathy when it comes to dating but men are told to man up and be a man.

I say it all the time just like I don’t wanna hear men complain ...I dam sure don’t wanna hear women complain.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

She is mad that she isnt cut the same slack for being fat like all these non black buggers that these dudes be prancing around with....
But you should never use your health to prove a point. I call out colorisn against BW on here and I am sure it applies among fat women too.
But I can’t get behind fat/obese black Women on this one. It’s time to downsize

Where do you live? I've seen plenty of fat or bigger black women with black men and sometimes white men.

 

[director_of_bands]

lookin like so don't nobody bring me! no - bad - news (the wiz)

 

[Zebruh]

Lol out of thousands of incel men maybe like 5 have gone on a rampage so calm down. Most men just take their L's.

Nothing worse than a nikka that can't take their L.

"Well fukk you then bytch "
"Yo ass ain't even that fine anyway"
"Dumb black bytch"


nikkas be out here getting hurt off rejections. Seen a nikka throw a drink at a chick cause she wouldn't give him her number after he bought her drink at the club. While I personally haven't seen any incel rampages, I can say I see nikkas that can't take L's in public more often than I would like. Usually alcohol is involved.

 

[Ya?]

Where do you live? I've seen plenty of fat or bigger black women with black men and sometimes white men.

I see fat black baby mamas toting around kids I rarely see fat BW in stable relationships with men. Also I see WW be praised and excused for their fatness while a similarBw would be dragged for being too fat. Hence why she doesn’t have a relationship.
Still I am anti-obesity and do think BW need to lose weight. Now I am not saying these fat ww have aspirational relationships, I am just saying I see more BM willing to be seen with morbidly obese white Women than I see that with black women of the same size.

 

[Will Ross]

Where do you live? I've seen plenty of fat or bigger black women with black men and sometimes white men.

Chick is full of shyt and trying to push a bullshyt narrative. The same dudes with fat white women would date a fat black woman.

 

[Turlast]

The fukked up part is that many women will read these articles and automatically assume that Black Men are the issue.

You always hear certain Black Women say stupid crap like, "Maria or Becky can look messy, but us Black Women have to be a Beyonce to get noticed by Black Men". That's the biggest load of shyt ever and completely ignores the real world. Black Men wife up all types of Black Women. I'm sure many of them are aware, but choose to be intellectually dishonest instead. A lot of these women simply hate Black Men, so it's better to project all of their negativity towards them instead of looking in the mirror and understanding that it starts with them.

 

[jackson35]

Writes an article bashing black men, goes over how she has all this and that...

"I knew the odds stacked against me from go. I’m indisputably Black, so I have to contend with both anti-blackness and fetishism from men with a chocolate fantasy. I’m fat bodied and yes, I always share a full body picture from go but I know this can lead to fat shaming from men I reject after a few inboxes, unsolicited gym and personal training offers, and being both hypersexualized and desexualized at the same damn time. I’m also a Womanist who is generally courteous but uncomfortably forthright. I’m not afraid to initiate conversation and will respond to sexual innuendo as aggressively as it’s delivered."

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?

It's not your blackness, it's your fukking weight that's the damn issue.

Only way, I am dating women that size is if I am assed out and broke as hell. Her friends should be ashame for not being real with her.

the weight issue is lame, a black man can take that ass to a gym and work it down to a healthy size

 

[Dwight Howard]

They can't get the black men that they want or feel like they're entitled to, so they make it a black Male issue as a whole.

She looks like Peter Griffin with dreads, so her dating pool is going to be limited to bums and chubby chasers that fetishize her. I bet if a dude approached her that was decent but looked like her, she would reject him.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

Chick is full of shyt and trying to push a bullshyt narrative. The same dudes with fat white women would date a fat black woman.

Black men are the most accepting of fat women from what I seen so I dont get this fat white woman narrative.

 

[Exlurkernegro]

I see fat black baby mamas toting around kids I rarely see fat BW in stable relationships with men. Also I see WW be praised and excused for their fatness while a similarBw would be dragged for being too fat. Hence why she doesn’t have a relationship.
Still I am anti-obesity and do think BW need to lose weight. Now I am not saying these fat ww have aspirational relationships, I am just saying I see more BM willing to be seen with morbidly obese white Women than I see that with black women of the same size.

Either come to the south or go to church more.

 

[EndDomination]

Personal growth is incredibly important.
If she was in a five-year relationship, and no personal growth came from that, why does she think she's to be appealing to anyone?

That article was also cringey as hell to read, the dialogue sounded like something out of "Dear, White People" she needs to chill and talk like a normal person.

She's crafted her own career, so I can't hate on that, but I can tell that she's not nearly as introspective as she needs to be.

 

[Ya?]

Either come to the south or go to church more.

I am not fat so I don’t have these problems and I don’t trust church men.
But thanks