"I want to date Black Men. Why is it so hard?". Why do these women think it's their blackness?

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:gucci: Because we have not had a series of incidents of men killing women for being rejected or not being “prized”. Or there isn’t a MGTOW/INCEL movement that has been getting huge amount of steam the last few years.

Men are way more dangerous and just as delusional, the difference is women write articles about it to vent. I’d pick the article writing than someone willing shoot women or run through people because he isn’t being fulfilled in his relationships. Why is you lying.
Men feel entitled to beautiful women all the time .
This is true, there are far, far more men that kill women for rejecting them than there are women who kill men for rejection.

That being said, perhaps due to men's rejection rates being much higher, and men generally having to take the lead when it comes to putting themselves "out there" that explain, in part, the increased violence. Obviously not the entire explanation, but a portion.
 
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This is true, there are far, far more men that kill women for rejecting them than there are women who kill men for rejection.

That being said, perhaps due to men's rejection rates being much higher, and men generally having to take the lead when it comes to putting themselves "out there" that explain, in part, the increased violence. Obviously not the entire explanation, but a portion.
What’s missing from these “men kill women who rejected them” discussions are the fact that millions of men get rejected everyday and simply move on. While these attacks happen way too often, Statistically speaking these attacks don’t happen as often as people say they do. I’d like to see that fact discussed More instead of the normal telling men that we’re just naturally violent emotionally stunted beings that can’t help but kill women when our feelings are hurt
 

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Writes an article bashing black men, goes over how she has all this and that...

"I knew the odds stacked against me from go. I’m indisputably Black, so I have to contend with both anti-blackness and fetishism from men with a chocolate fantasy. I’m fat bodied and yes, I always share a full body picture from go but I know this can lead to fat shaming from men I reject after a few inboxes, unsolicited gym and personal training offers, and being both hypersexualized and desexualized at the same damn time. I’m also a Womanist who is generally courteous but uncomfortably forthright. I’m not afraid to initiate conversation and will respond to sexual innuendo as aggressively as it’s delivered."

I Want to Date Black Men. Why Is It So Hard?


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:patrice: It's not your blackness, it's your fukking weight that's the damn issue.

Only way, I am dating women that size is if I am assed out and broke as hell. Her friends should be ashame for not being real with her. :beli:

Sadly...we can lose that weight and still be....:huhldup:
 

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She is mad that she isnt cut the same slack for being fat like all these non black buggers that these dudes be prancing around with....
But you should never use your health to prove a point. I call out colorisn against BW on here and I am sure it applies among fat women too.
But I can’t get behind fat/obese black Women on this one. It’s time to downsize :manny:
Yes cause fat BW don't get "pranced" around with:mjlol:

And mfs dapoed you:snoop:
 
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This is the same black woman who wrote this about black men.




:hhh: So she looks like majin Buu, thinks like the above post and expects a man with something to offer to give her a ring?


Her 30’s are about to be brutal.

But according to @Ya? And the dumb nikkas dapping her, it's cause nikkas aren't worshipping fat BW as they do fat nonBW. You mean she is wrong?:ohhh:

:lolbron:
 
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Who would get mad? This is common sense. Society forces men to own our Ls. Women get coddled and lied to. I always tell my girl when these articles come up, “fukk all the mental gymnastics. NO ONE is obligated to date you. I don’t care what the reason is”. This is a fact most men have learned to live with. It’s why black men don’t write thinkpieces about women not wanting us.
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We gotta have a serious convo on obesity and poor health in the black community. Sure white people got plenty of obesity too but the numbers don't lie: it's killing black people faster. High blood pressure and heart disease are out of control. The last thing we need are these poison peddlers denying basic science and reality because it hurts their feelings.

I'm not saying we need to laugh at fat people or disrespect them. But this is a health crisis, and danger. It's more dangerous than smoking cigarettes now. I would never date an obese person. I find it unappealing and a potential sign of bad character. This chick needs to focus on bettering herself before lecturing anyone.
 
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