Delving deeper into this, just to see what the rationale is (beyond bell hooks babble)...I'm seeing people claim that she means that as a queer/bisexual woman she's constantly in places where a straight man wouldn't feel comfortable. If she's performing at a drag show or a gay club/bar, her straight boyfriend may feel uncomfortable coming to the shows. Likewise if she's meeting her fellow queer friends at those places, a straight boyfriend would feel repelled and that would create tension.
I get that but uh....if that's true how come a large segment of these types end up with the most boring looking straight white man.
They ultimately want to settle down with a straight white man. Going back to bell hooks...they literally believe that the best way for black women to gain power is to date/marry white men. So when you hear slick talk about hating straight men just realize she's talking about straight black men exclusively. They despise us, just like bell hooks despised us.
This is why Bell hooks is huge in Brazil. The black man is only a negão who is for the purpose of entertainment and sex, the black woman there wants white men but are sad that they only get used for sex and left with mixed b*stard babies. Then there is a jealousy when saidn"negão" gets money and gets a white girl while they are stuck in the purgatory of being the white man's whore (whether sexually or labor).