If Lipstick Alley & Thecoli had a Conversation It Would Look Like This

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I mean... not everything either of them said was wrong.

He should listen to what she's saying and she should listen to what he's saying.
They both made points that are relevant to the situation that alotta ppl who are still in the dating game have.


He needs to realize... a woman values security > all
Financial security
Emotional security
Even physical security

If she says a broke nikka is someone making less than double what she makes, what she's really saying is "I cannot ever be in a situation where i have to financially responsible for another man, and this amount will hopefully garuntee that I don't.


And she needs to realize... getting money and grinding for her and her child is not what will get her man, and it shouldn't be. You should do that cuz you're supposed to. For you, and your child.

Don't be upset that men don't value your income or degrees. Listen to what men actual care about

First thing she said is that she has been played/held down by broke men. I'm assuming men means multiple. Shes already demonstrated she does not have the ability to identify a high quality person to her.
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Does this bird have social media? Theose pics would reveal all. :mjlol:
 

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It's like you completely ignoring what I am typing sir. I literally broke down exactly why they are having a disconnected conversation. I just seem to be repeating myself over and over. They are both trying to talk about long term but she can't even get past the short term to get to the long term because she doesn't understand how men think. He assumes that she does which is why they aren't having the same conversation.
Maybe men and women communicate differently. You have to be direct with men. It was not a real conversation in the sense that they were not trying to figure out how to get her personally wifed up.

They were both doing the gender talking points thing. But was like a Madame Noire relationships discussion because women don't want to be put up on game on how men think they want confirmation bias.

If she was asking what men want in a wife the main thing is LOYALTY yes we want beauty yes we want a fat ass but LOYALTY trumps all. If she just wanted to hear her self shyt on men then mission accomplished.

If this didn't answer your question say it in one sentence.

Again the bottom line wasn't to talk to each other they were talking at each other. They were having different conversations.
 

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You think there aren't shallow confused women in Brazil................ you in for a rude awakening breh :mjlol: You'd have better luck humbling yourself and finding a good loyal woman here

nikkas can't find a good woman because they let their dikks do the choosing.
Culture is key. If you think he’s going to find a woman that feminine and one that wants family faster here than in Brazil you’re lying. A bold face one at that.

Now women are women, there’s fukk shyt with women no matter what culture. There is a difference when it comes to black American woman and the one that has culture. The key is keeping them on their soil. You bring them here and they are going to end up like the American ones here.
 

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First thing she said is that she has been played/held down by broke men. I'm assuming men means multiple. Shes already demonstrated she does not have the ability to identify a high quality person to her.
:yeshrug:
She also demonstrated that she’s willing to lower the price if she is attracted to you. But when she breaks up with you she won’t take responsibility for it. She will continue to say they weren’t on her level and she held them down. When in reality she just want some dikk from a broke nikka.

women don’t talk plain English. You have to read between the lines.
 

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I agree.

Sidenote: A lot of women would be soooo much happier if they focused on getting it on there owe. Depending on a man is so outdated. Women really do themselves a disservice by thinking like that. I honestly think the majority of women who speak on how much a guy makes have never even dated a high income earning. That shyt is over rated as hell. Breh smugness and controlling vibes be on 10.

Just get ya own dollars up, find a guy who at least matches your ambition who you are attracted to and can get along with and call it a day.


Actually women should depend on men. The fact that they don't is what fukks them up. Men have a much higher sexual drive so a man could want a dime but realize the constant competition to maintain a dime isn't worth it. Or he could simply not qualify for one. In that case he'll listen to this:



You make women "strong and independent" and you get South Korea, You get Black America where the bottom 80% simply are invisible to women just because she fukked Chris Brown in a closet one time.

If you let women choose solely off looks they'll be a harem slave to the flyest guy she's ever seen. You have women depend on men (which they do for more than money anyway) and some extra average savage will marry a farmers unattractive daughter with the lazy eye.
 

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this video make me wanna move to brazil so bad.
Na, Brazil women are not any different.

The video makes me understand why men don't believe in love anymore and go in JBO to talk about paying for escorts.

These shallow conversations by scorned women would bring you into a deep hole of depression and emptiness to where you'd rather get to a financial status where you'd pay for p*ssy and whatever sexual benefits because you lose hope in the fact that there's genuine women out there that look out for your well being and not your pockets.

I've almost been in this place before. This why I don't judge rich people that cheat whether it be with other famous people or beautiful women. From the outside looking in, you ask why but from their end, they're miserable. They're settled with a beautiful soul less shell that occasionally gives them passionless p*ssy and non stimulating conversations about duck lips and make up tips.
 
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I agree.

Sidenote: A lot of women would be soooo much happier if they focused on getting it on there owe. Depending on a man is so outdated. Women really do themselves a disservice by thinking like that. I honestly think the majority of women who speak on how much a guy makes have never even dated a high income earning. That shyt is over rated as hell. Breh smugness and controlling vibes be on 10.

Just get ya own dollars up, find a guy who at least matches your ambition who you are attracted to and can get along with and call it a day.


This thought process I have been hearing in the black community for too many years. I heard it a lot when I was young . "Girl get yo education so you don't need no man" or something along the lines of . This a lot more damage to black men in the long run which why many black women have a seething contempt for black men . I could deep into this shyt but I don't want to . It's interesting the things women as whole choose to be "outdated" and what things they want to be "traditional" with .
 

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She also demonstrated that she’s willing to lower the price if she is attracted to you. But when she breaks up with you she won’t take responsibility for it. She will continue to say they weren’t on her level and she held them down. When in reality she just want some dikk from a broke nikka.

women don’t talk plain English. You have to read between the lines.

This.
 
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The average coli poster is probably not that good looking either though..

I’m almost certain if some posters on LSA gave the coli a chance, the guys would be flocking over there.. Remember a lot of these guys don’t get women in real life that’s why they’re always so angry at them.


It seems similar on lsa

Its alot of incels on both sites
 
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She also demonstrated that she’s willing to lower the price if she is attracted to you. But when she breaks up with you she won’t take responsibility for it. She will continue to say they weren’t on her level and she held them down. When in reality she just want some dikk from a broke nikka.

women don’t talk plain English. You have to read between the lines.


Once again:salute:
 
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