If men see women who like to go on girls trips and like to party without their man as a red flag...

[Scustin Bieburr]

I am not going to be on here and battle with the rest to not seem insecure. Instead, I am going to state it depends on the company she keeps and where they are going. The company one keeps is an expression of who they are, and so if the woman you are taking seriously hangs with women who are loose, then there is a good chance she may be loose too.

So a partial solution to this is to vet well, which also means paying attention to whom she hangs around with and considers friends. If she hangs with a gaggle of 304s, then don't take her seriously. If you feel her friends are untrustworthy, then you should also consider her untrustworthy. I personally did not care about how unfair that judgment may have seemed to the woman, nor did I care about what she thought of me not taking her seriously once that judgment was made either.

If you told your girl youre heading to Brazil with the homies would she be cool with that

 

[Uachet]

If you told your girl youre heading to Brazil with the homies would she be cool with that

I am married. Where I go, she goes. When I was not married, but serious about a woman, then I would make the offer to her to come along. When I was not married and not exclusive to any woman, it would not be any of her business where I was going.

 

[Jazzy B.]

I mean as long as you’re comfortable with the fact that other men are SPENDING on your girl to try and fukk and she’s cool with it

 

[10bandz]

I am not going to be on here and battle with the rest to not seem insecure. Instead, I am going to state it depends on the company she keeps and where they are going. The company one keeps is an expression of who they are, and so if the woman you are taking seriously hangs with women who are loose, then there is a good chance she may be loose too.

So a partial solution to this is to vet well, which also means paying attention to whom she hangs around with and considers friends. If she hangs with a gaggle of 304s, then don't take her seriously. If you feel her friends are untrustworthy, then you should also consider her untrustworthy. I personally did not care about how unfair that judgment may have seemed to the woman, nor did I care about what she thought of me not taking her seriously once that judgment was made either.

Absolute facts. Everything is in context when it comes to this shyt.

 

[Jazzy B.]

If you don't trust or respect your partner you shouldn't be in a relationship. Straight up, it's really that simple. The thing that kills me is that these convos are driven by men who aren't really social and don't do shyt with their brehs. Guys trips used to be so common that every generation had a "guys night out" movie (The Hangover for instance). And while guys still do this, including myself, there seem to be way more guys who don't. Which is why the discourse over girl's trips exists. I don't care if my girl goes on a vacation with her girls. I tell her to have fun. If I worry about anything it's just general "worrying about safety" shyt that I always worry about whether she's on vacation or driving home at night.

Women partying is not a problem to me. It's not even something I think about when it comes to my girl. She doesn't party much but if she's out with her girls I...don't care. I don't tell her how to dress, I don't tell her how to behave, etc. Because I trust and respect her. And she has never given me reason to be concerned.

You sound green as fukk.

You cannot compare a girls trip to a guys trip

The same with clubs.

Are you PAYING for drinks and other shyt for random women you DO NOT KNOW while you have a girl (which would be with the intention to smash)?


Because women even in relationships are NOT saying no to the men who do that at clubs or on these trips. Because women HATE spending their own money. Then they DO NOT tell their boyfriends what really went on. This is the ISSUE men have. And they’ve fukked y’all up so bad y’all now think it’s “insecure” or being “an incel” to call it out

 

[Piff Perkins]

You sound green as fukk.

You cannot compare a girls trip to a guys trip

The same with clubs.

Are you PAYING for drinks and other shyt for random women you DO NOT KNOW while you have a girl (which would be with the intention to smash)?


Because women even in relationships are NOT saying no to the men who do that at clubs or on these trips. Because women HATE spending their own money. Then they DO NOT tell their boyfriends what really went on. This is the ISSUE men have. And they’ve fukked y’all up so bad y’all now think it’s “insecure” or being “an incel” to call it out

Guys don't buy women drinks and go to strip clubs while on a guy's trip and then not tell their girlfriend about it? You sure about that buddy?

 

[UpNext]

I really only care about the monetary component to these trips and whatnot. You don't need to be thinking about a trip or any of this silly shyt if you have 6 figures of student loan debt. No that little punk ass 80k salary ain't moving me either.

Now if your finances are in order, student loans paid off, car paid off, 1 year of emergency savings, 401k maxed, etc, then yeah take your trip. But I'm not trying to hear that shyt from no broke chick. When I was in the field women would pick that up about me, but the only women that really seemed to be bothered by it were the broke ones doing all this dumbass shyt.

 

[Marlow Stanfield]

I've never had an issue with my fiancé going out with her homegirls or on trips with them. I trust her the same as she trusts me when I'm out with the fellas, so its all good.

Hell, I couldn't be with a woman who's entire life and existence revolved around me. My lady needs to have a damn life. I love and value my alone time

 

[Bigen King]

I wouldn’t give a fukk if my girl goes in girl trips cause I know the majority of them are tame and females in their 30’s ain’t just out here giving up easy p*ssy unless you’re a celebrity or they find you extremely attractive which is rare according to them. Plus I go on my trips with my homeboys so it’s all fair game when we be wylin.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

If your woman is trying to go on a girls trip
She don’t like you
My wife ain’t going nowhere without me and vice versa
We enjoy each other too much
Even when I kick it with the homies back in Cali
I be ready to get back to wifey because it just be like that
Even when she just out and about with friends here
The feelings be the same
Them girl trips are undercover replacement trips
I don’t care what none of you old nikkas say
Seen way too much evil from women to think
Yeah she just going to have fun and drink with her girls
And just take the new dikk element out of it
Women find out who their friends really are on those trips
I remember a young lady getting killed by her own friend group years ago I think in Mexico(I could be wrong on the location)
And I’ve personally seen the aftermath with exes who went on girls trips
Those friendships imploded and everybody was telling tea
But keep thinking it’s a game out here

 

[Jazzy B.]

Guys don't buy women drinks and go to strip clubs while on a guy's trip and then not tell their girlfriend about it? You sure about that buddy?

You need to read what I said.

I literally said if they’re trying to smash these women then absolutely they are doing that.

Ain’t no man doing that if he ain’t trying to fukk unless he’s GAY.

Which is why I asked you if YOU do that which you AVOIDED answering

 

[Gloxina]

A mature response in TLR



Personally I stitch a AirTag into all my bytches bags and require frequent FT check ins

 

[Piff Perkins]

You need to read what I said.

I literally said if they’re trying to smash these women then absolutely they are doing that.

Ain’t no man doing that if he ain’t trying to fukk unless he’s GAY.

Which is why I asked you if YOU do that which you AVOIDED answering

Simple question: what percentage of times have you bought drinks for a chick and smashed? I'm gonna say it's low because chicks know they can get dudes to buy them drinks and take advantage of it (without even contemplating fukking the guy). I've bought drinks for chicks while in a relationship. I have a girlfriend right now and did this a few weeks ago lol. With no intention of smashing, mind you. I might walk up to the bar to order something for my table and a couple chicks at the bar ask if I want to order them shots. I say yes, get my stuff plus their shots and bounce back to my table. On some nonchalant chill shyt. But hey, that's how I roll.

I understand quite well that dudes buy women drinks all the time whether they ask for them or not. That's how our social society works. Am I supposed to demand women never go party, for fear that they might run into the most common shyt imaginable?


My girl is a financial banker, she works her ass off and as I said is not really a party-type. So when she wants to hit the bar with her friends why would I feel some type of way?

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I wouldn’t give a fukk if my girl goes in girl trips cause I know the majority of them are tame and females in their 30’s ain’t just out here giving up easy p*ssy unless you’re a celebrity or they find you extremely attractive which is rare according to them. Plus I go on my trips with my homeboys so it’s all fair game when we be wylin.

Man I go on girls trips and ain't ish going on lol, the ratio of women to men doesn't allow for a high probability for whatever these guys think is going on. Maybe they projecting from the sex tourism spots they go to where everybody is out to score. I went to Dr and didn't even leave the resort other than excursions lol. Most of my friends are back in the room after dinner.
I'm there for the beach
And add on, a lot of these guys are delusional thinking their girl are just the main character or some ish, they probably an average chick that people pass by regularly. No need for handcuffs lol
Respectfully.
RELAX.
put the pornos down guys.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Simple question: what percentage of times have you bought drinks for a chick and smashed? I'm gonna say it's low because chicks know they can get dudes to buy them drinks and take advantage of it (without even contemplating fukking the guy). I've bought drinks for chicks while in a relationship. I have a girlfriend right now and did this a few weeks ago lol. With no intention of smashing, mind you. I might walk up to the bar to order something for my table and a couple chicks at the bar ask if I want to order them shots. I say yes, get my stuff plus their shots and bounce back to my table. On some nonchalant chill shyt. But hey, that's how I roll.

I understand quite well that dudes buy women drinks all the time whether they ask for them or not. That's how our social society works. Am I supposed to demand women never go party, for fear that they might run into the most common shyt imaginable?


My girl is a financial banker, she works her ass off and as I said is not really a party-type. So when she wants to hit the bar with her friends why would I feel some type of way?

I don’t buy random chicks drinks.

But men who do that are doing that with the purpose to fukk or eventually fukk.

ALL Women know this and play along to get free drinks and other shyt out of men.

We are talking about women you barely know.

nikka please, you’re not just buying a group of random chicks drinks just because

Miss us with the bullshyt “that’s just how I roll” ain’t no one believing that unless you’re just GAY


And you’re saying you have a girl, so you tell her that you just buy shyt for random women you don’t know and she’s cool with that?