If men see women who like to go on girls trips and like to party without their man as a red flag...

[Piff Perkins]

I don’t buy random chicks drinks.

But men who do that are doing that with the purpose to fukk or eventually fukk.

ALL Women know this and play along to get free drinks and other shyt out of men.

We are talking about women you barely know.

nikka please, you’re not just buying a group of random chicks drinks just because

Miss us with the bullshyt “that’s just how I roll” ain’t no one believing that unless you’re just GAY


And you’re saying you have a girl, so you tell her that you just buy shyt for random women you don’t know and she’s cool with that?

So you agree women know men buy them drinks with a motive, but the vast majority of times this leads to nothing. Thank you. So why am I stressing over this?

In terms of buying drinks yes I've done it multiple times and don't even think about it. Why would I stress about an extra $30 on my bill. The bar is where you tell stories and build legends, man. Have fun and be "that guy."

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

I wouldn't be with a woman if I didn't think she could be trusted to travel solo.

My wife's friends are much more conservative and uptight than she is, so I already know they're not doing much more than getting pedicures, singing karaoke and drinking one too many mojitos.

 

[Jazzy B.]

So you agree women know men buy them drinks with a motive, but the vast majority of times this leads to nothing. Thank you. So why am I stressing over this?

Thank you.

If women know that men buy them drinks with a motive why is it suddenly different when it comes to YOU doing the same to random women?


That’s why I said you’re talking like you’re just buying women drinks with no motive and “you don’t think about it” STOP LYING.

Again, you say you have a girlfriend, you acknowledge that men buy women drinks with a motive in mind, but your girl thinks you do that with random women “just because” with zero motive and is also cool with it? Nothing you’re saying is consistent or you some sort of sugar daddy relationship where it doesn’t matter

To your other point, no self respecting man wants his girlfriend going out to be spent on by OTHER MEN. This is why I say y’all are fukked up, because women like this you were never meant to take seriously, now you are. And if you don’t you’re called “insecure”

 

[Piff Perkins]

Thank you.

If women know that men buy them drinks with a motive why is it suddenly different when it comes to YOU doing the same to random women?


That’s why I said you’re talking like you’re just buying women drinks with no motive and “you don’t think about it” STOP LYING.

Again, you say you have a girlfriend, you acknowledge that men buy women drinks with a motive in mind, but your girl thinks you do that with random women “just because” with zero motive and is also cool with it? Nothing you’re saying is consistent or you some sort of sugar daddy relationship where it doesn’t matter

To your other point, no self respecting man wants his girlfriend going out to be spent on by OTHER MEN. This is why I say y’all are fukked up, because women like this you were never meant to take seriously, now you are. And if you don’t you’re called “insecure”

Maybe you're not getting my point. I'm not at the bar seeking out women to buy drinks for. When I go to the bar I'm typically with coworkers, often on the road during a business trip. Or after work. Or with friends watching a game. I don't rush up to the bar looking around for women to buy drinks for. But I think many of us have either seen this happen or had it happen to us: we're chilling at the bar paying or picking something up and a chick asks if you want to buy her a drink. I have no issue buying a drink in those cases. It's no big deal. It's like the social drinker version of giving somebody a cigarette when they ask.

To get back to chicks....men buy shyt for women in every setting breh. Women get their tabs paid at restaurants by dudes every day. Should I tell my girl not to go out to eat? Our social economy/society revolves around men spending money on women. Why would I get mad about that? Women go to clubs to look good, dance with their friends, and have fun. Including getting some free drinks or food from dudes they have zero interest in. And nobody has explained how any of this is bad or harmful to a relationship.

 

[maxamusa]

You need to read what I said.

I literally said if they’re trying to smash these women then absolutely they are doing that.

Ain’t no man doing that if he ain’t trying to fukk unless he’s GAY.

Which is why I asked you if YOU do that which you AVOIDED answering

breh I don't think you're aware of who you're conversing with. he's cut from a a VERY different cloth

 

[987654321]

My girl had a nice lil summer girl’s trip planned a couple years ago, after we were supposed to take our couple trip to the Caribbean…


She planning Disney world trips for our toddler now…

It was a hell of a sacrifice bunt, but I came out with the win in the 9th inning.

 

[Jazzy B.]

Maybe you're not getting my point. I'm not at the bar seeking out women to buy drinks for. When I go to the bar I'm typically with coworkers, often on the road during a business trip. Or after work. Or with friends watching a game. I don't rush up to the bar looking around for women to buy drinks for. But I think many of us have either seen this happen or had it happen to us: we're chilling at the bar paying or picking something up and a chick asks if you want to buy her a drink. I have no issue buying a drink in those cases. It's no big deal. It's like the social drinker version of giving somebody a cigarette when they ask.

To get back to chicks....men buy shyt for women in every setting breh. Women get their tabs paid at restaurants by dudes every day. Should I tell my girl not to go out to eat? Our social economy/society revolves around men spending money on women. Why would I get mad about that? Women go to clubs to look good, dance with their friends, and have fun. Including getting some free drinks or food from dudes they have zero interest in. And nobody has explained how any of this is bad or harmful to a relationship.

nikka please

I just searched up some of your posts.

You’re a self admitted SUGAR DADDY

Who cares.

I've been a sugar daddy. You aren't being honest if you don't think a LOT of women do sugar baby stuff these days, it's pretty common. Usually I'd say most chicks stick to paid lunch/dinner dates, but there are many who go farther (sex). I've traveled with sugar babies, done dates, etc. Some who only wanted to eat/talk/hang out and wouldn't fukk for any amount of money. Others who did all that plus fukked.

If it's in her past, why do you care? She did what she had to do, and made good money. She used it to get ahead. Why is that a problem. Most of the girls I talked to on sugar baby sites were in college working towards lucrative degrees and just wanted to graduate without debt.

Nah just an old sugar daddy getting annoyed by a young chick doing young person things. Having been in that world as a young breh...those chicks told me some wild stuff about seeing old guys.

One chick told me she slept overnight at a 50+ year old guy's suite, and when she woke up at 4AM she saw him wide awake staring right into her face while jerking off.

I feel like this happens every day. Lot of middle aged men out here seeking young girls, on some predator shyt. Especially if you can’t impress women your age with whatever your meh salary is…you can trick young girls into think your shyt is together.

I’m not gonna single out the black community either because white dudes are on this wave too. Other ethnicities too.

Ive done “sugar daddy” stuff, I’ve had SBs as of a couple years ago (I’m done now, in my early 30s). But it never crossed my mind to seek underage girls, and I used sites that had verified background checks. Not even because I was concerned about being tricked, that never crossed my mind. I just wanted real chicks who weren’t lying about being in college, since I didn’t want to deal with women who weren’t doing shyt in life.

"All" can't be substantiated, that's your own exaggerated opinion. Many? Sure I guess. In my personal experience and based on a lot of the sex worker stuff that goes viral on twitter...there's a portion of them that not only think stealing from men is ok, they actively seek to do it in order to even out or re-distribute wealth. If it's a stripper you're dealing with someone who likely is surrounded by hustlers and drug dealers. She has the means to set you up if you're dumb enough to give her the opportunity - ie "outside the club" meets at your home.

I used to do sugar daddy stuff, I have no issue with sex workers overall and support them in theory. I'm just saying there's a segment of extremists who will get you robbed or even killed and won't bat an eye. That's not a majority, likely not even close to a majority. Most sex worker stuff I see on twitter boils down to "I wish I was respected more, I'm just trying to live" - I don't see how anyone can hate on that type of sentiment or look down on them.

I had a feeling because nothing you said made any damn sense.

You do not have any basic understanding of real relationships.

If you did you would know that NO woman in a real relationship would accept/be cool that their boyfriend was buying drinks for/spending on random women that wasn’t them and would immediately think you were trying to fukk/cheat

The fact that you are even comparing buying a random woman a drink at the bar to being asked for cigarettes says everything.

“It’s no big deal that women are spent on by men they’re not interested in” yet they lie to men that are with that this goes on so it clearly is a big deal.

 

[Jazzy B.]

breh I don't think you're aware of who you're conversing with. he's cut from a a VERY different cloth

Yeah found out he a sugar daddy

How you using Seeking Arrangements in your 20’s

@ ANYONE who dapped up his posts

 

[Apollo Creed]

fukking COOOKED

 

[AllHolosEve]

-It depends because both types exist. I'm not interested in being serious with a woman that wanna go out partying regularly so I don't need to worry about flags.

-As far as trips I probably wouldn't bother with her if it was regularly or excessive. I wanna go on most my trips with my woman so if she wants to go on most without me we don't need to waste each other's time.

 

[Belize King]

I let my wife got to Jamaica a few years ago with her one girl and she called me up and told me she did ecstasy. This was at the time of covid and she wanted to do a trip and she was vaccinated and I wasn’t. I’ll admit I wasn’t cool with it but I told her keep that same energy once it’s my turn. Flash forward to now my homie wanted to go to Columbia in the summer mind you my wife was like two months pregnant and I told her and she’s like you can go anywhere in the world but Columbia and Dominican and straight up said if I go to Columbia that there would be problems. That’s what bothered me about it. I don’t care where she goes just keep that same energy. Im still salty about it.

That sucks. You might just have to pivot and hit up Rio. The beach should be getting nice this time of year. The women are gorgeous and friendly. Many sites to see. I didn’t care for the food but the meat/steaks are on point. Lapa should still be a thing and the favela parties can be cool if you are lowkey an and just use a burner phone.

 

[10bandz]

nikka please

I just searched up some of your posts.

You’re a self admitted SUGAR DADDY









I had a feeling because nothing you said made any damn sense.

You do not have any basic understanding of real relationships.

If you did you would know that NO woman in a real relationship would accept/be cool that their boyfriend was buying drinks for/spending on random women that wasn’t them and would immediately think you were trying to fukk/cheat

The fact that you are even comparing buying a random woman a drink at the bar to being asked for cigarettes says everything.

“It’s no big deal that women are spent on by men they’re not interested in” yet they lie to men that are with that this goes on so it clearly is a big deal.

Yeah that invalidates everything he said earlier in the thread

nikkas like him fukking it up with the rest of us. He’s right a lot of chicks do sugar baby shyt and it’s because you got nikkas under 40 moving that way validating it.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I let my wife got to Jamaica a few years ago with her one girl and she called me up and told me she did ecstasy. This was at the time of covid and she wanted to do a trip and she was vaccinated and I wasn’t. I’ll admit I wasn’t cool with it but I told her keep that same energy once it’s my turn. Flash forward to now my homie wanted to go to Columbia in the summer mind you my wife was like two months pregnant and I told her and she’s like you can go anywhere in the world but Columbia and Dominican and straight up said if I go to Columbia that there would be problems. That’s what bothered me about it. I don’t care where she goes just keep that same energy. Im still salty about it.

You know Jamaica is the sex tourism capital for women right. This is why nikkas who in a relationship are taking l’s with this stupid shyt.

couples trips only

 

[Diondon]

I let my wife got to Jamaica a few years ago with her one girl and she called me up and told me she did ecstasy. This was at the time of covid and she wanted to do a trip and she was vaccinated and I wasn’t. I’ll admit I wasn’t cool with it but I told her keep that same energy once it’s my turn. Flash forward to now my homie wanted to go to Columbia in the summer mind you my wife was like two months pregnant and I told her and she’s like you can go anywhere in the world but Columbia and Dominican and straight up said if I go to Columbia that there would be problems. That’s what bothered me about it. I don’t care where she goes just keep that same energy. Im still salty about it.

Damn!

 

[Reptile]

-If i truly trust her, i don't care. If i don't trust her, it's bushes.

-I don't trust most women.

-When there is mutual trust and i was unbothered, she was not suspicious because everything seemed normal.

nikka fukk that. Aint no real women who respect her man going on no "girls trip" Trust aint got nothing to do with it, its respect. And OP is a simp ass nikka this thread is gay as hell