If men see women who like to go on girls trips and like to party without their man as a red flag...

How do women feel about a man who supports that behavior?

  • It's a red flag. He may be using the opportunity to cheat.

    Votes: 9 50.0%
  • It's a green flag. It shows he's prioritizing her happiness and trusts her not to step out on him.

    Votes: 9 50.0%

  • Total voters
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I let my wife got to Jamaica a few years ago with her one girl and she called me up and told me she did ecstasy. This was at the time of covid and she wanted to do a trip and she was vaccinated and I wasn’t. I’ll admit I wasn’t cool with it but I told her keep that same energy once it’s my turn. Flash forward to now my homie wanted to go to Columbia in the summer mind you my wife was like two months pregnant and I told her and she’s like you can go anywhere in the world but Columbia and Dominican and straight up said if I go to Columbia that there would be problems. That’s what bothered me about it. I don’t care where she goes just keep that same energy. Im still salty about it.
No sympathy for you. None.
 

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You know Jamaica is the sex tourism capital for women right. This is why nikkas who in a relationship are taking l’s with this stupid shyt.

couples trips only

Ok cool if she did something down there I don’t know anything about it and she better not let me find out. Other than that I’m still cheesed she won’t let me go to Columbia but she says she’s good with me to go anywhere else.
 

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This thread is stupid.

What if a man just wants alone time? Damn her happiness or cheating.
 

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You know Jamaica is the sex tourism capital for women right. This is why nikkas who in a relationship are taking l’s with this stupid shyt.

couples trips only

Im not disagreeing with you, but women dont have to travel hundreds of miles to cheat.


nikkahs only taking Ls for turning a blind eye. If you kick her out the door that same night its a win. :banderas:
 

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Ok cool if she did something down there I don’t know anything about it and she better not let me find out. Other than that I’m still cheesed she won’t let me go to Columbia but she says she’s good with me to go anywhere else.

"Let you go" lmfao. I'ma pray for you breh for real. I don't know you so I'ma chill as I don't want to come off as disrespectful
 

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The simple thing is to just not date women who go on girls trips.

You're entitled to whatever you want when it comes to standards and expectations in relationships.
:yeshrug:
 

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nikka please

I just searched up some of your posts.

You’re a self admitted SUGAR DADDY :mjlol:









I had a feeling because nothing you said made any damn sense.

You do not have any basic understanding of real relationships.

If you did you would know that NO woman in a real relationship would accept/be cool that their boyfriend was buying drinks for/spending on random women that wasn’t them and would immediately think you were trying to fukk/cheat:mjlol:

The fact that you are even comparing buying a random woman a drink at the bar to being asked for cigarettes says everything.

“It’s no big deal that women are spent on by men they’re not interested in” yet they lie to men that are with that this goes on :russ:so it clearly is a big deal.

Do you have a girlfriend? I'm assuming not. Every time women are in public there's somebody plotting to spend money. If you want to keep your hyothetical girlfriend in a cage that's on you. In reality I can't control who wants to buy shyt for my girl at a restaurant or bar or club.
 

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Im not disagreeing with you, but women dont have to travel hundreds of miles to cheat.


nikkahs only taking Ls for turning a blind eye. If you kick her out the door that same night its a win. :banderas:

It’s not about cheating it’s about getting tricked on by foreign men or out of town brehs.

As I explained here

I mean as long as you’re comfortable with the fact that other men are SPENDING on your girl to try and fukk and she’s cool with it :yeshrug:


It’s a DOUBLE STANDARD because if you tell your girl you spent on random women all hell breaks loose.
 

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Do you have a girlfriend? I'm assuming not. Every time women are in public there's somebody plotting to spend money. If you want to keep your hyothetical girlfriend in a cage that's on you. In reality I can't control who wants to buy shyt for my girl at a restaurant or bar or club.

nikka you a self admitted sugar daddy shut up :russ:

You are in no position to discuss actual relationships and be taken even remotely seriously.
 

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Do you have a girlfriend? I'm assuming not. Every time women are in public there's somebody plotting to spend money. If you want to keep your hyothetical girlfriend in a cage that's on you. In reality I can't control who wants to buy shyt for my girl at a restaurant or bar or club.


You're right. It's about them entertaining it though....
 

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The simple thing is to just not date women who go on girls trips.

You're entitled to whatever you want when it comes to standards and expectations in relationships.
:yeshrug:

If you casually dating whatever but folks I'm real and respectful relationships move different and if all ya friends single that kinda says something
 

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It depends. If it’s a one off. Then no need to trip. But if she’s constantly going on girls trips every few months then it’s a red flag. When you’re in a relationship you prefer to go with your partner. Not always going with your friends.
This is my answer.
 

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My girl runs a travel group for women and travels frequently. She also uses it to get comps for our own personal trips. As I’ve never been insecure I have no issue with it. My philosophy has always been if someone is going to step out on you they’re going to step out on you. Being controlling and trying to police what they do is therefore a waste of time. Get with someone who you’re on the same page with and shows you respect and that’s the best you can hope for in a relationship.
This.

It’ll save you A LOT of stress and/or wasted energy. Plus when I want to go chill with fellas or my brothers I don’t want someone doing that extra shyt with me
 
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