If men see women who like to go on girls trips and like to party without their man as a red flag...

[Jazzy B.]

Every post you linked said it was a former occupation lmao. Just take your L breh. Admit you're too weird and jealous for a woman to have an autonomy with you.

Naw a sugar daddy doesn’t go back to normal relationships.

You were using seeking arrangements in your 20’s which is your physical prime. You were so bad with women you went to paying for fake/transactional relationships in your 20’s. I can NEVER take any sort of L from a person like you

 

[Shadow King]

Truthfully if a man doesn't care at all he's probably doing or open to doing him when convenient.

 

[maxamusa]

nikka you a self admitted sugar daddy shut up

You are in no position to discuss actual relationships and be taken even remotely seriously.

breh get wait for it...







his girl is a NYC LATINA 2 BOOT

 

[Xyrax]

I let my wife got to Jamaica a few years ago with her one girl and she called me up and told me she did ecstasy. This was at the time of covid and she wanted to do a trip and she was vaccinated and I wasn’t. I’ll admit I wasn’t cool with it but I told her keep that same energy once it’s my turn. Flash forward to now my homie wanted to go to Columbia in the summer mind you my wife was like two months pregnant and I told her and she’s like you can go anywhere in the world but Columbia and Dominican and straight up said if I go to Columbia that there would be problems. That’s what bothered me about it. I don’t care where she goes just keep that same energy. Im still salty about it.

Jamaica is a huge sex tourism location for women man.

Huge.

Not gonna say anything is whatever but... In case you didn't know that. Barbados, Saint Barts, Ibiza, Maldives, Mykonos stuff like that? Those are where the women I have known in my life flat out told me they ✈ out to get cracked

Her circling back and having an issue with you in Columbia might be game recognizing game.

 

[twan83]

Honestly don’t care I trust her if she stupid enough to make a mistake that’s on her
Not gonna sit here and stress over that cuz it means she was gonna do it eventually regardless or already has can’t stop it why stress it
She has done girls trip a few times for concerts with her friends some just overnight or 3 days
I know her friends l and how they are also
Everytime she went out of town she blows my damn phone anyway I be like go enjoy yourself I’m trying to take care of the kids and watch sports and anime
She hasn’t done one in years I know tho and rather have me go then go with her friends

 

[Fresh]

these threads always start off asking the female posters their opinions, but I never see more than 10 in these types of threads, or period for that matter

why don't we just agree that everything is men's fault and keep it moving???

No need to finding different details on why men on why men are wrong and everything is our fault

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I don't care honestly. Go have your fun and have a life/ hobbies outside of me is a requirement for any woman I'm taking seriously. I go on trips with some of my friends too. I'm not sweating or thinking about her cheating. If it comes up I'll address it then. Brehs are too controlling and insecure wanting their woman to just sit in the house. That scarcity mindset will have you looking like a nutcase out here stressing over things that are outside of your control. If a chick truly wanted to cheat there's nothing that will stop her.

This is my mindset too. Who has time to constantly worrying about cheating? People are gonna do what they wanna do.



The best you can do is pick someone with overall good character and hope for the best.

 

[3rdWorld]

If she doesnt get smashed on holiday, it'll be during office hours.

You cannot control another human beings desires and how they fulfill them.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Maybe you're not getting my point. I'm not at the bar seeking out women to buy drinks for. When I go to the bar I'm typically with coworkers, often on the road during a business trip. Or after work. Or with friends watching a game. I don't rush up to the bar looking around for women to buy drinks for. But I think many of us have either seen this happen or had it happen to us: we're chilling at the bar paying or picking something up and a chick asks if you want to buy her a drink. I have no issue buying a drink in those cases. It's no big deal. It's like the social drinker version of giving somebody a cigarette when they ask.

To get back to chicks....men buy shyt for women in every setting breh. Women get their tabs paid at restaurants by dudes every day. Should I tell my girl not to go out to eat? Our social economy/society revolves around men spending money on women. Why would I get mad about that? Women go to clubs to look good, dance with their friends, and have fun. Including getting some free drinks or food from dudes they have zero interest in. And nobody has explained how any of this is bad or harmful to a relationship.

You're speaking to someone that likely lives a different lifestyle than you.

You're talking about what I call "Happy Hour Culture." Unless someone runs in certain circles they won't understand. Going to the bar after work becomes a sort of therapy. People who go out strictly to socialize for "romantic" reasons wouldn't understand.

I don't know a single white collar person that doesn't drink a little too much...especially if they have any sort of clearance. Lol

 

[Vandelay]

I go on a guy's trip once or twice a year and I go back to Philly/DC 2-3 times a year to see my people. I don't want to hear shyt from my lady when I do this. With my ex, her and I went on 2-3 trips a year. I paid for my ex to go on a girls trip. It worked for me. If my lady isn't trustworthy, I'm not going to be in a relationship with her. If she cheats, she cheats... it's HER LOSS if she does. I permit this because I want us both to have our space, and when she comes back things are even better because I trust her.

 

[Scaaar]

This is my mindset too. Who has time to constantly worrying about cheating? People are gonna do what they wanna do.



The best you can do is pick someone with overall good character and hope for the best.

That's their conundrum. They don't want those women because they don't fit the "look" they think they deserve or will give them the most external validation from other men. That's why they chase the wilder IG chics but also complain about them too. It's a mental disorder lol

 

[Scaaar]

these threads always start off asking the female posters their opinions, but I never see more than 10 in these types of threads, or period for that matter

why don't we just agree that everything is men's fault and keep it moving???

No need to finding different details on why men on why men are wrong and everything is our fault

Most of the women that used to be on here were ran off or creeped out by how some of the brehs move on this site....smh

 

[SNG]

Jamaica is a huge sex tourism location for women man.

Huge.

Not gonna say anything is whatever but... In case you didn't know that. Barbados, Saint Barts, Ibiza, Maldives, Mykonos stuff like that? Those are where the women I have known in my life flat out told me they ✈ out to get cracked

Her circling back and having an issue with you in Columbia might be game recognizing game.

I knew that Jamaica is like the Dominican and Columbia for women. I just trust my lady and I’m not bothered if she does girl trips. If she can get shyt off without me finding out then what I don’t know won’t hurt me. If she cheats she already knows how petty I can be and how attractive I am to the opposite sex to move on if I find out.

 

[lord canon]

just make sure if shyt goes left have a back up plan

 

[Scaaar]

just make sure if shyt goes left have a back up plan

You shouldn't walk around with a backup plan. That means a piece of your mind isn't locked into the relationship. But if you're that dude it shouldn't be hard to just scoop a new chick after leave your previous one for violating. From how insecure, possessive, and whiny some of these dudes sound. I see why they gotta lock their chic in the house. They might go on a 2-3 yr drought lol