Thats not always the case. When you have money, fame or status you can get whatever you want from women without spending a dime. My homeboy is a Dentist. He makes very good money and he doesnt spend a dime on women. He spends money on himself. He can walk into a crowded event with a nice suit and pull some of the baddest chicks out of the event back to his condo to smash and have them coming to the crib on the regular to cook and clean. No dates needed at all. Like Donald Trump said "When you’re a star, they let you do it. You can do anything.”It's a little of both. Let's say if you were well off... like a very successful lawyer or surgeon. Do you really think that man would be pressed to pay for a woman's meal?probably not.
Like I said it's a big deal when you either don't got it like that or you're stingy. This goes for men AND WOMEN.
If Men Told the Truth
- Thread starter morris
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I dont have these problems either because I dont take women on dates. Either they are coming to the crib to smash or not.I don't have these kinds of problems.
I wouldn't have went on that rant but I would've done the same shyt
Larry Lambo
Superstar
So you're telling me if you meet a cool ass chick, yall vibing, and she's gorgeous, slim waist, huge behind, and the sex is great, you still want to kick her out right after?
I don't know you, but I got a hunch that you're running through 6's and trying to make it seem like it's 9's. I could be wrong but that's my intuition.
I only mess with pretty chicks. I make too much money and drive a fly ass car to be messing with birds. I meet cool women all the time but I'm not trying to cuff them. I just smash and keep it moving.
Youseenmywork
KING
Okay no man out here should treat any women LIKE his mother daughter or sister. That isn't logical at all. Hell my grandmother has admitted to playing with a man's manhood so bad a guy chucked a fan at her. You know what that means my grandmother played the game. She was somebody's else bytch ...she had some boyfriends before my grandfather.
That BS of you wouldn't treat your mother blab blab like that is lame and just a bad example cause NO women is innocent.
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Youseenmywork
KING
It's a little of both. Let's say if you were well off... like a very successful lawyer or surgeon. Do you really think that man would be pressed to pay for a woman's meal?
Like I said it's a big deal when you either don't got it like that or you're stingy. This goes for men AND WOMEN.
i'm not stingy and i have enough money. that still doesn't mean i pay for her dinner it's a matter of principle. it's 2016 not the 1950's
A1aaa
Respectful Fade Runner & Card Puller
if you're talking to a girl, never take her out to a restaurant as the first "encounter"
i had a situation that could've become this a few months ago. had a pretty fine black girl give me her number. literally within a day of talking, she's suggesting me taking her out to eat.
red flag #1.
compound that with the fact that even over text, she seemed very vapid and airheaded, i dodged the L by ghosting. she just hit me up again recently.
always see if a chick is down with a more low-key venue FIRST (e.g. - museum, coffee shop, park). if the conversation and vibe is good, then ask her out.
protect yourself and your wallet at all times
i had a situation that could've become this a few months ago. had a pretty fine black girl give me her number. literally within a day of talking, she's suggesting me taking her out to eat.
red flag #1.
compound that with the fact that even over text, she seemed very vapid and airheaded, i dodged the L by ghosting. she just hit me up again recently.
always see if a chick is down with a more low-key venue FIRST (e.g. - museum, coffee shop, park). if the conversation and vibe is good, then ask her out.
protect yourself and your wallet at all times
DarkHorse23
Banned
I hate that argument. My mother was born in 1961. YOU aren't my mother,and most women today in this radical feminism era aren't like the women of my mother, late grandmother generations. Times have changed. Can't be using 1960's courtship tactics with 2017 women.
yardman
Afro-pessimist
You deadass :mascotofhell:??
Larry Lambo
Superstar
if you're talking to a girl, never take her out to a restaurant as the first "encounter"
i had a situation that could've become this a few months ago. had a pretty fine black girl give me her number. literally within a day of talking, she's suggesting me taking her out to eat.
red flag #1.
compound that with the fact that even over text, she seemed very vapid and airheaded, i dodged the L by ghosting. she just hit me up again recently.
always see if a chick is down with a more low-key venue FIRST (e.g. - museum, coffee shop, park). if the conversation and vibe is good, then ask her out.
protect yourself and your wallet at all times
That's a sensible viewpoint. Any chick worth being with should be down for that.
My only problem with this is reciprocity as I alluded to earlier. Honesty is rarely something that people want to hear.
However I'm intrigued by the concept. Do men really want to hear what women honestly think of them? Or will it be a "fukk u bytch! U ugly! Yo p*ssy trash! I ain't want u anyway!" Type deal?
How many men are really ready to hear that "As a woman, it is RARE that I will EVER want to fukk a random stranger on the first date. Even if you are handsome. Even if u have money. Intimacy and connection are more important to me. I know that sometimes u just wanna nut and much like you're singular in ur needs, sometimes I just want to interact with you to see if I can tolerate you. Not take a risk on ur wack azz stroke game or any possible STDs you may be carrying. I don't know you or trust you. Hopefully we can have a meal and I'll even pay for myself if it means ur silly azz won't feel entitled to putting ur meat anywhere near me when I don't even know ur last name. Fukkin thirst bucket."
Meanwhile, we're smiling, feigning interest, nodding, listening to you drone on.
Most women don't want to feel like you just want a quick fukk anymore than men want to feel like they are being used for free food.
So where do we find middle ground without being dikkheads to each other.
(I just came back from a breakfast date and shyt ain't easy!)
However I'm intrigued by the concept. Do men really want to hear what women honestly think of them? Or will it be a "fukk u bytch! U ugly! Yo p*ssy trash! I ain't want u anyway!" Type deal?
How many men are really ready to hear that "As a woman, it is RARE that I will EVER want to fukk a random stranger on the first date. Even if you are handsome. Even if u have money. Intimacy and connection are more important to me. I know that sometimes u just wanna nut and much like you're singular in ur needs, sometimes I just want to interact with you to see if I can tolerate you. Not take a risk on ur wack azz stroke game or any possible STDs you may be carrying. I don't know you or trust you. Hopefully we can have a meal and I'll even pay for myself if it means ur silly azz won't feel entitled to putting ur meat anywhere near me when I don't even know ur last name. Fukkin thirst bucket."
Meanwhile, we're smiling, feigning interest, nodding, listening to you drone on.
Most women don't want to feel like you just want a quick fukk anymore than men want to feel like they are being used for free food.
So where do we find middle ground without being dikkheads to each other.
(I just came back from a breakfast date and shyt ain't easy!)
My dad said a chick shouldn't be givin up the drawers too soon and a dude need to keep his wallet shut until you know people. Kinda makes sense.
