If Men Told the Truth

Spiritual Stratocaster

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That's exactly what I thought.
It's nothing to screenshot and prove a point. Takes less than 5 minutes

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The hoes I talked to in the last 12 hours.
One is taking me to eat tomorrow


I'm feeling seafood :wow:

The other is gone make up his mind if he gone give head tonight or not
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If not he won't get a reply :yeshrug:

Doubt you're even talking to somebody
A female with multiple male suitors damn so shocking :gladbron:
 

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My only problem with this is reciprocity as I alluded to earlier. Honesty is rarely something that people want to hear.
However I'm intrigued by the concept. Do men really want to hear what women honestly think of them? Or will it be a "fukk u bytch! U ugly! Yo p*ssy trash! I ain't want u anyway!" Type deal?

How many men are really ready to hear that "As a woman, it is RARE that I will EVER want to fukk a random stranger on the first date. Even if you are handsome. Even if u have money. Intimacy and connection are more important to me. I know that sometimes u just wanna nut and much like you're singular in ur needs, sometimes I just want to interact with you to see if I can tolerate you. Not take a risk on ur wack azz stroke game or any possible STDs you may be carrying. I don't know you or trust you. Hopefully we can have a meal and I'll even pay for myself if it means ur silly azz won't feel entitled to putting ur meat anywhere near me when I don't even know ur last name. Fukkin thirst bucket."

Meanwhile, we're smiling, feigning interest, nodding, listening to you drone on.
Most women don't want to feel like you just want a quick fukk anymore than men want to feel like they are being used for free food.

So where do we find middle ground without being dikkheads to each other.
(I just came back from a breakfast date and shyt ain't easy!)

For an immature male, they will say that angry shyt anyways. Not a man.

And I know most women are not down for a one night stand that's why I hold the very few that I've had near and dear to my heart.

The middle ground is honesty. some will stay others will fall off. Save time. It's the one thing you never can recoup .

A female with multiple male suitors damn so shocking :gladbron:

It's always been that way. Transportation and now, the internet just makes it more available. But it's human nature at the end of the day.
 

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A female with multiple male suitors damn so shocking :gladbron:
Nah the shocking part is they're all dimes and nikkas that other chicks can't get. No fun in fukking with a nikka that's easily obtained. The sport is getting the highly desired then making them do whatever for you
 

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Naw this one is foul. Like would you want someone to act like that towards your mother, daughter, sister?


Why would I not want a man to keep it real with female family member, instead of lying and hurting her later on ?
 
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I'm okay with this. As long as it's okay if we're honest too. That's usually when we get called every name in the book tho.
My aunt taught me a long time ago to use "cold anger" on women if they go extra.
Cold anger is malicious neutrality.
If she likes something you do, dial it down without saying anything.
Prioritize "nothing". Certain people use the veil of honesty to hit you with things they've had in the pocket...or shyt meant for someone else they're afraid to confront verbally. You may even resemble a dude that rejected them in the past. The best response to rejection/disappointment is to robot up and turn feelings off. Where there were hugs, handshakes reside. Conversations get ended with no goodbye, in the middle, with no followup.
"hi" *seen
"i miss your face" *seen
In real life, nothing but nods. shyt is kinda fun.
 

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  1. It's just insults. And a lot of women do have sex with strangers they just met.
Many more won't tho and shouldn't be demonized for how they feel. Likewise I don't think men should be demonized for not wanting to break themselves on dates when they just want sex.
But both parties are going to have to come to a common place and stop using dating as a hunting ground.
It's gotten so bad that people seem to want to punish the opposite sex or use people.

Does anyone go out with the sole goal in mind to enjoy themselves anymore? Or for good conversation? Just to connect? This can happen for free. Women need to adjust just like men do.

Dating shouldn't be prostitution or food in exchange for a potential sexual encounter. And I know, that's what it's become. But the point is to meet someone you click with. Maybe hungry ass chicks should eat before they head out and horny ass nikkas should rub one out before they go out, so us normal people who ain't just looking to waste somebody's time for a free meal or a nut can actually find one another and have fun.

Our generation. Smh.
 

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Because you lack respect for women. Which your mother should have taught you.

Now carry on with your demonic filth:camby:
I hate that argument. My mother was born in 1961. YOU aren't my mother,and most women today in this radical feminism era aren't like the women of my mother, late grandmother generations. Times have changed. Can't be using 1960's courtship tactics with 2017 women.
 

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Because you lack respect for women. Which your mother should have taught you.

Now carry on with your demonic filth:camby:

It has nothing to do with "respect". It's simply a DIFFERENT type of relationship. I can't treat you the same way i treat my mother. At the end of the day i'm trying to seduce you and treating you like my mother, sister, or daughter WON'T work. If you want men to treat women like their female family members, why don't you ladies start doing the same with men. Until then take the 1950's outdated courting nonsense and sell it someone who will buy it. And on that note YOU can :camby:
 

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Many more won't tho and shouldn't be demonized for how they feel. Likewise I don't think men should be demonized for not wanting to break themselves on dates when they just want sex.
But both parties are going to have to come to a common place and stop using dating as a hunting ground.
It's gotten so bad that people seem to want to punish the opposite sex or use people.

Does anyone go out with the sole goal in mind to enjoy themselves anymore? Or for good conversation? Just to connect? This can happen for free. Women need to adjust just like men do.

Dating shouldn't be prostitution or food in exchange for a potential sexual encounter. And I know, that's what it's become. But the point is to meet someone you click with. Maybe hungry ass chicks should eat before they head out and horny ass nikkas should rub one out before they go out, so us normal people who ain't just looking to waste somebody's time for a free meal or a nut can actually find one another and have fun.

Our generation. Smh.

It's become that. I can't tell you how many black women who roll their eyes at certain date suggestions on some "i know my worth" and "i'm worth more than that" BS. Then when you're upfront about wanting sex then you're "disrespectful" and "i'm not a whore". Well only whores will scoff at a simple coffee date. So my thing is if you wanna price your "companionship" which is what whores and escorts do then at least be honest about it(like we talked about in a previous thread). You want something, but i also want something as well, and if you're not willing to give and only wanna take then we need to go separate ways.
 

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My dad said a chick shouldn't be givin up the drawers too soon and a dude need to keep his wallet shut until you know people. Kinda makes sense.

That's why I can't take those clowns on LSA seriously. They want guys to go all out and drop $150 on dates, with a .01% chance of a successful relationship actually happening. Talking about you shouldn't date if you can't afford it.

I could make a million dollars and not afford to treat a woman that probably doesn't like me. The sequence is boy meets girl, girl shows boy that she's interested, boy and girl get to know each other, and the boy takes girl out on date.They want the two middle steps eliminated, which is foolish.
 
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