These women that love to travel...
This has always been a red flag for me when it comes to my preferred wife type.
I like to travel, too. But every other weekend you're jetsetting?! It usually does speak to restlessness. Upon further inquiry/inspection, she'll reveal that. One way or the other.
If you're gonna wife, make sure you're comfortable with that and/or have your own life. That energy just isn't gonna go away or be wholly transferred to the family unit and household.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin said:
you got it all wrong breh.
simply....
be a man. 
lead. make decisions. stand by them. stand on your word. be honest (this is most important). the most independent...loud...career driven...etc....woman,
WILL follow the right man. believe that.
be that man brehs.....
Also true. That's not to say it won't be challenging to modify that behavior in words, deed, actions and examples, but still...your post is powerful.
the bolded had me dying at work
i agree with some of this, but i dont want my wife to be my slave and my maid. i want her to earn her own money and live out her life's dream. like u said tho, if she cant even spend a weekend in with me because she is itching to go out and spending time taking care of her husband is a prison sentence, then she isnt wifeable. women are supposed to be nurturing by nature. if she kicked the nurturing to the curb then ya gonna end up in some arguments about selfishness
You have to ask yourself if it's worth it.
A potential I know demonstrates those qualities. But deep down, I believe she wants to take a shot at being a nurturer. Some of the quotes she's said to me have been so
and anti-nurturing, but then, every once and a while, she'll say something during our convos that leads me to believe she wants to try her hand a nurturing. So I hit her with some points to ponder. But I keep asking myself is it worth it. I dunno. We'd bump heads. We already kinda bump heads on occasion, but I know a level of respect is there and growing. But it takes time for such an entrenched, seemingly self-centered, almost diva-like view to be modified.
Most men weren't taught to lead like I was. Some of you need a strong woman, bcuz you're weak and you need help leading a household. Most of you never seen how a man moves in a house. Fixing on shyt everyday. Protecting the home. Making sure everything's paid for and everyone has enough to go to school and do what's required of them. These isn't a dictatorship. It's a man being a man. My mom is proud of my dad and how he runs thing. And my mom is very smart and has a great career, but she know my dad's pedigree. History of real hardworking men.
Something happens a man is suppose to be the first one to put his life on the line. You dudes don't know your worth in a relationship. Society has made the man role seem so weak and useless, but real women that want real men (fukk swag) are winning.
