if she never reaches out to you first...

Pdiddy

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Bruh, seems you are focusing your attention on only one bytch. Always be working on more than one bytch at a time. It looks needy when you are the person doing all of the initiating. She now has the power.
 

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my sh!t was with a coworker.. Not gonna text her again..just hi and bye when i see her if she speaks first.
 

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I know it's hard because those thighs, eyes, lips, breast, and delicious features be talking to a breh......but you gotta give these chicks some space and have other things going on in your life. If they act a certain way, never act surprised. Just go with it and don't burn your bridges. Later on you might find out she wasn't as bad as you thought.
 
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I know bruh :snoop:.. It was good convo tho.. We used to talk when I was at work( have a job where I can talk on the phone) I ain't used to smart AND bad hoes :russ: When I went ova tha cpl times I did she wasn't distant or nun tho.. shyt had me in a conundrum for a min. :camby:She went tho.. I got 3 hoes text/call me faithfully everyday or every two days. New bytch was just :wow: tho. Good 9 bruh.
Of course she's the one you really want...not the 3 chicks that actually text/call you faithfully.
 

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Half of these advisers telling you to just let her go, are also frustrated and hoping they'll get that call or text themselves and havent given up.
The only sound advice you'll get here, is to think of her like a job thats treating you badly..you dont blindly quit a shytty job unless you have another one securely lined up. Your mind cant say 'fukk that bytch' till it feels it has a viable replacement.
 

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in the beginning stages we generally have the be the initaiters (unless shes a very confident chick) but if it doesnt even out after a while :camby:
 

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might have to cut off like 3 bytches cause of this shyt if they dont message me by next friday :beli:
 

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This is the truth.

All I used to text broads is "Come thru" or "I'm home" and thats it.
Some broads would be at my house ass naked answering stupid ass texts from dudes like "Hey, miss u... what u up to? ;)"
:mjlol:

Cut that shyt out man. Just quit texting her at all.
If after a month or whenever she does hit you give her the "Who is this??"
and after she responds wait like half an hour then send back "k"

A single lowercase lettter k
:russ: bytches hate that

MY nikka :laff: the kid dying at work right now :russ:
 

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I have gone a week before without contacting a dude that I not only liked but viewed as husband material... I fell back on the contact because he wasn't expressing much interest in me....I figured he just wasn't that into me.... even though I was very much so into him....

OP just call and ask what is up.... Do you want to have a relationship with this person or are you just interested in sexing her?
heres the thing though. YOU FELL BACK implying there was a point in time that you were the one pressing.
 

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just wondering how all of y'all deal with this.

You communicating with a girl trying to see what's up, and she never reaches out to you first... it's always you reaching out to her first, and if you don't reach out, you'll never hear from her.

the convo is decent enough when I do reach out.... but I can go a week without saying anything to her, and she wont even shoot me a text to see if I'm okay

I'm feeling like I'm ready to end this... :patrice:

and chalk it up to the game... :yeshrug:
Insecure. Get help
 

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If she's not reaching out to you it's cuz she's too busy reaching out to touch a nikka she actually has a desire to fukk.

Take that L & keep it moving, breh.
 
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it's not as simple as some of yall trying to make it... talking about "if she ain't reaching out to you, it's cause she reaching out to someone else"


I mean, that may be true in some cases... but my case is proof that it's not always true

now the woman that I was talking about in my op is texting me everyday, sending pics and everything

so sometimes you just gotta play it by ear.
 
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