If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

[Knuckles Red]

Is it weird that I knew how all 12 pages of this thread went the moment I read the title?


From the obvious post for daps ("who hurt you")
to the boneheaded deflections ("why is she your ex")
To the inevitable capery.

Maybe yall need to talk about some different shyt, but maybe I just been on this site too long

It was worth it for this gem tho


Man close the thread right fukkin here. I hate to pull this card on people but I read the following quotes and it just screams "I'm never getting p*ssy"





No diss but I used to think like this.....when I was a virgin. Funny thing is if you were to own your masculinity actual feminine women would be more than happy to do the things yall call being a "slave"/"subservient" or whatever bs you wanna call it. When you articulate this kind dynamic, which is completely NORMAL by the way, it sounds like sorta fukked up. But when you leave the world of rhetoric it's happens naturally. You give direction and she's is gonna be with it or not. But she'd much rather you aggressively give direction than consult her along every step of the way. They like the direction for it's own sake and they'll resent you when you don't assume your role. Women HATE when dudes ask to kiss or touch them, or ask permission for a lot in general yet find it sexy when you aggressively take those liberties (if she's comfortable with you of course)

Her wanting to "follow" and accommodate you is an expression of her trust and affection. This doesn't happen on a logical basis, as you all are aware some women will follow ain't shyt dudes to the depths of hell and curve a simp who's on the way to greener pastures. Masculinity in itself isn't a inherent right or wrong, it can be possessed by a dude mercilessly running thru good girls as much as it can be possessed by an admirable family man or father figure.

K.

 

[Giselle]

Nah breh if I'm gonna put a ring on it she needs to be my equal.

So, a woman like he described (cooks, listens, doesn't argue) does not act like an equal? How does an equal act then?

-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone

I like strong women breh.

So a woman is not strong if she likes to cook, listen, and not argue?

-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone

I don't want a servant for a girl.

Does what he described really sound like a servant to you? How?

How does a woman who is not a servant behave in your opinion?

-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone

@Prynce @BaldingSoHard

That girl doesn't sound like she's weak or a servant to me. She sounds traditional, mature, and not petty/argumentative.

When I think of a weak or servant woman, I think of a woman like @Thomas wife ( I think it was him). His wife stayed with him even though he cheated and got the girl pregnant and then allowed the girl to move into their home. She is now cooking and cleaning up behind herself, her kid, her husband, her husband's ex/mistress/baby's mother, and their child. I don't think she would leave him yet because she just had his baby and is a stay at home wife/mom and doesn't have any of her own money. That is what I think of when I think about a weak/servant woman.

A woman can cook, clean, take care of the children while the man works and still be equal to him. She can listen to him and he can listen to her. They can talk without arguing. Rarely getting and attitude doesn't mean that someone is weak or servant like. That's basically the type of woman he described. I don't understand what you guys are talking about. Do you all like to argue and fight frequently in your relationships? You all like that drama and think it's fun? How old are you?

 

[Prynce]

No diss but I used to think like this.....when I was a virgin. Funny thing is if you were to own your masculinity actual feminine women would be more than happy to do the things yall call being a "slave"/"subservient" or whatever bs you wanna call it. When you articulate this kind dynamic, which is completely NORMAL by the way, it sounds like sorta fukked up. But when you leave the world of rhetoric it's happens naturally. You give direction and she's is gonna be with it or not. But she'd much rather you aggressively give direction than consult her along every step of the way. They like the direction for it's own sake and they'll resent you when you don't assume your role. Women HATE when dudes ask to kiss or touch them, or ask permission for a lot in general yet find it sexy when you aggressively take those liberties (if she's comfortable with you of course)

Her wanting to "follow" and accommodate you is an expression of her trust and affection. This doesn't happen on a logical basis, as you all are aware some women will follow ain't shyt dudes to the depths of hell and curve a simp who's on the way to greener pastures. Masculinity in itself isn't a inherent right or wrong, it can be possessed by a dude mercilessly running thru good girls as much as it can be possessed by an admirable family man or father figure.

A lot of assumptions about me from a 4 word sentence I wrote

 

[#SOG_soldier]

my wife is her own woman and can make decisions for herself, but since im the leader of my people, of course i wear the pants.



she still a Sunagakure shinobi



better do as Godaime Sama say

 

[Prynce]

So, a woman like he described (cooks, listens, doesn't argue) does not act like an equal? How does an equal act then?




So a woman is not strong if she likes to cook, listen, and not argue?




Does what he described really sound like a servant to you? How?

How does a woman who is not a servant behave in your opinion?



@Prynce @BaldingSoHard

That girl doesn't sound like she's weak or a servant to me. She sounds traditional, mature, and not petty/argumentative.

When I think of a weak or servant woman, I think of a woman like @Thomas wife ( I think it was him). His wife stayed with him even though he cheated and got the girl pregnant and then allowed the girl to move into their home. She is now cooking and cleaning up behind herself, her kid, her husband, her husband's ex/mistress/baby's mother, and their child. I don't think she would leave him yet because she just had his baby and is a stay at home wife/mom and doesn't have any of her own money. That is what I think of when I think about a weak/servant woman.

A woman can cook, clean, take care of the children while the man works and still be equal to him. She can listen to him and he can listen to her. They can talk without arguing. Rarely getting and attitude doesn't mean that someone is weak or servant like. That's basically the type of woman he described. I don't understand what you guys are talking about. Do you all like to argue and fight frequently in your relationships? You all like that drama and think it's fun? How old are you?

People really think I want to be henpecked because I said I don't want a servant?

I mean damn

people really read into shyt that's not there.

None of that 8 word sentence I wrote said any of that nonsense you wrote

 

[Knuckles Red]

So, a woman like he described (cooks, listens, doesn't argue) does not act like an equal? How does an equal act then?




So a woman is not strong if she likes to cook, listen, and not argue?




Does what he described really sound like a servant to you? How?

How does a woman who is not a servant behave in your opinion?



@Prynce @BaldingSoHard

That girl doesn't sound like she's weak or a servant to me. She sounds traditional, mature, and not petty/argumentative.

When I think of a weak or servant woman, I think of a woman like @Thomas wife ( I think it was him). His wife stayed with him even though he cheated and got the girl pregnant and then allowed the girl to move into their home. She is now cooking and cleaning up behind herself, her kid, her husband, her husband's ex/mistress/baby's mother, and their child. I don't think she would leave him yet because she just had his baby and is a stay at home wife/mom and doesn't have any of her own money. That is what I think of when I think about a weak/servant woman.

A woman can cook, clean, take care of the children while the man works and still be equal to him. She can listen to him and he can listen to her. They can talk without arguing. Rarely getting and attitude doesn't mean that someone is weak or servant like. That's basically the type of woman he described. I don't understand what you guys are talking about. Do you all like to argue and fight frequently in your relationships? You all like that drama and think it's fun? How old are you?

How is that equal for a man to work a 9-5, and then be done with the day, but the wife has to be a 24/7 maid, baby sitter, cook, and everything else. When does the work stop for her? Where is the equality in that? Seems totally unequal to me. Seems like one of those two people has a substantially lighter work load than the other. Both people should be working, and the responsibilities of the home, and children (if there are any) should be split equally between both of them. People do that everyday! And thats how its always been in the black community. Black women have NEVER had the luxury of staying at home. These dudes are just using MRA talking points to defend their misogyny.

 

[Kenny West]

A lot of assumptions about me from a 4 word sentence I wrote

That's true, maybe you just posted the shyt for daps or I'm just buggin. But that servant shyt is just fukkin dumb. Especially cause the women who talk that shyt are just exaggerating for pity and attention usually. They be like "I was slaving over this hot stove!!" when they just had a pot of water boiling while they watched TV. Seeing nikkas seriously talk that shyt reminds me of past naivety.

Edit: I gotta cut down on the cursing

 

[Gaara]

Is it weird that I knew how all 12 pages of this thread went the moment I read the title?


From the obvious post for daps ("who hurt you")
to the boneheaded deflections ("why is she your ex")
To the inevitable capery.

Maybe yall need to talk about some different shyt, but maybe I just been on this site too long

It was worth it for this gem tho


Man close the thread right fukkin here. I hate to pull this card on people but I read the following quotes and it just screams "I'm never getting p*ssy"





No diss but I used to think like this.....when I was a virgin. Funny thing is if you were to own your masculinity actual feminine women would be more than happy to do the things yall call being a "slave"/"subservient" or whatever bs you wanna call it. When you articulate this kind dynamic, which is completely NORMAL by the way, it sounds like sorta fukked up. But when you leave the world of rhetoric it's happens naturally. You give direction and she's is gonna be with it or not. But she'd much rather you aggressively give direction than consult her along every step of the way. They like the direction for it's own sake and they'll resent you when you don't assume your role. Women HATE when dudes ask to kiss or touch them, or ask permission for a lot in general yet find it sexy when you aggressively take those liberties (if she's comfortable with you of course)

Her wanting to "follow" and accommodate you is an expression of her trust and affection. This doesn't happen on a logical basis, as you all are aware some women will follow ain't shyt dudes to the depths of hell and curve a simp who's on the way to greener pastures. Masculinity in itself isn't a inherent right or wrong, it can be possessed by a dude mercilessly running thru good girls as much as it can be possessed by an admirable family man or father figure.

Dude although i'm single now; unlike most of the guys on here i have had women and haven't had any trouble getting one, much to my surprise seeing that i'm relatively short but anywho. i'm not saying that men should ask for consent with every inch he shoves in a vagina or that a woman cooking a meal for a man she's in a relationship with is oppression, you've dapped enough of my post to know that's not my m.o.

i tried explaining this but i couldn't find the right words but these videos say it better than i ever could

 

[Giselle]

People really think I want to be henpecked because I said I don't want a servant?

I mean damn

people really read into shyt that's not there.

No, but that's why you were asked to explain what you mean, which you did not do.

It's not there because you didn't put it there. There's nothing to read.

 

[Prynce]

That's true, maybe you just posted the shyt for daps or I'm just buggin. But that servant shyt is just fukkin dumb. Especially cause the women who talk that shyt are just exaggerating for pity and attention usually. They be like "I was slaving over this hot stove!!" when they just had a pot of water boiling while they watched TV. Seeing nikkas seriously talk that shyt reminds me of past naivety.

Didn't even mean it in that way. What I meant to say was I don't need a mindless broad who needs direction for every little thing she does. Who follows me around like a lap dog and whose whole existence is to kiss my ass. I want a chick with her own opinions and PoV.

That's all I meant. I want all the shyt you guys want also, I don't wanna argue or have a chick who doesn't handle her wifely duties.

 

[Prynce]

No, but that's why you were asked to explain what you mean, which you did not do.

It's not there because you didn't put it there. There's nothing to read.

What's there to explain? You assumed I like to be p*ssy whipped and disrespected based on nothing

 

[The_Truth]

If a woman says she wants a man to protect and provide for her, it's all good.

If a man dares to say he wants a "submissive" woman, then all hell breaks loose.

 

[Prynce]

How is that equal for a man to work a 9-5, and then be done with the day, but the wife has to be a 24/7 maid, baby sitter, cook, and everything else. When does the work stop for her? Where is the equality in that? Seems totally unequal to me. Seems like one of those two people has a substantially lighter work load than the other. Both people should be working, and the responsibilities of the home, and children (if there are any) should be split equally between both of them. People do that everyday! And thats how its always been in the black community. Black women have NEVER had the luxury of staying at home. These dudes are just using MRA talking points to defend their misogyny.

True

Black women been putting in work

 

[The_Truth]

This thread sums up why Black people have the lowest marriage rates. Everything's a gat damn power struggle between the sexes.

 

[Gaara]

If a woman says she wants a man to protect and provide for her, it's all good.

If a man dares to say he wants a "submissive" woman, then all hell breaks loose.

We're just providing an opposing view it's kind of the point of public discourse such as this.

And if he wants to spend his life searching for his June Cleaver so be it. I on the other know that female submission comes with the price of male utility and provision and that's not something i'm willing to pay.