If she's not submissive, don't date her. Simple

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People continue to not get the difference between arguing and expressing what they think like an adult. There's nothing wrong with a woman disagreeing, but I would only associate with a woman who can disagree in a respectful way and without confrontation.
Being respectful doesn't mean acting like a child :francis:
Yes respect ....which needs to be mutual.
 

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People continue to not get the difference between arguing and expressing what they think like an adult. There's nothing wrong with a woman disagreeing, but I would only associate with a woman who can disagree in a respectful way and without confrontation.
Being respectful doesn't mean acting like a child :francis:
Exactly ... this thread hurts my head because the definitions are not clear. Then you have simps co-signing women who act like brutes just to win brownie points. Men just want peace and quiet with a woman they enjoy. I can't think of one man in real life who likes drama and aggressive confrontation from women - trying to prove their strength. Someone who does that and meets my needs as I meet hers is submissive. The thing is too I am willing to submit as well and meet her needs once I know she has my best interest at heart.
 
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It's more than that. It's also about putting in extra effort to satisfy my wants and avoiding confrontations. Some women like to be loving sometimes yet complain about the most petty stuff when they're in a mood for confrontation. I don't associate with women who like to argue.
this confusing. complaining and being loving are mutually exclusive?

To me, if a person is continuously arguing or looking for a fight, there are deeper problems in the relationship or with that individual. What it sounds like is that if a woman fixes to argue at all, any disagreement, she isn't a "submissive" (re: loving) person. You're setting someone up to fail if you expect them to be without opinions, desires, or needs. I need more examples, because I can't imagine a woman who argues all the time or likes confrontation is happy in the relationship or with the man's actions (if she is, this isn't a submissive thing, it's that you two don't belong together. doubt often manifests as arguments)
 

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stuff like this makes me realize how wierd gender roles are when it comes to attraction

men are physically strong, right brained thinking creatures that are supposed to be tough but want to be nurtured and babied and a soft companion in general

women are physically weaker, left brained thinking creatures who are supposed to be nurturing and soft, but want to be roughed up in bed and a rugged companion in general

it looks so backwards to me lol

Probably because you're a dyke. Your whole damn life is backwards. :jbhmm:
 
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If a girl isn't submissive and isn't comfortable as the man taking the lead, I don't even look her way

I see all this back and forth on these threads about the relationship dynamic and modern women. It just makes no sense. nikkas in here puling their hair out on what happened to women

Simple, just get you a submissive woman
I can't count how many times I've talked to women who were proud about not knowing how to cook and clean, and dismissing them and deleting their numbers. It feels great :myman:. No sense in stressing about it


My last girlfriend was submissive, and I loved it
-Cooked and cleaned to perfection
-Always cooked a hot meal for me when I came back from work
-Held my opinions with weight, and listened to my advice
-Never denied me sex cause she wanted to "teach me a lesson" or "was mad at me"
-Did every type of sexual thing under the sun, freak in the sheets
-Never got an attitude with me
-Convos always flowed smoothly. Would give great advice, without a reprimanding/condescending tone


Every week I see a thread of "Oh my women won't do this", "Oh women these days are always saying this"

Just leave those feminists alone brehs. Don't attack them, don't try to apply logic to their lives. Leave them be. It would be like putting a square peg in a circular hole. It just won't work. If they want to be alone forever, that's on them

Any guy who deals with a feminist, have fun :mjlol:


So y is she the ex ...im curious

:yeshrug:


Nvr mind read the whole thread
 

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Most of these dudes need a strong woman to guide them :mjlol:

How you broke and expecting someone to submit to you?


What does money have to do with it? So you're proud YOU require money to control a bytch? :mjlol:

She doesn't respect you, she just respects the fact you can provide for her and pamper her you sponsoring ninny. :mjlol:
 

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Them nikkas could be balling and shyt would ultimately be the same, they get played like Tiger did.

I knew the game was really fukked up when I would read nikkas saying dumb shyt like why do I have to lead, why do I have to approach, or why do I have to plan the date.

On the real im starting to think some of these nikkas want these broads to come up to them, get their number, take them out, and lay em down and long stroke em at the end of the night :scust:

You argue as if you have an opposing point...the method of attainment is merely different. With that being said, why are you trying to cause division? :jbhmm:
 

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this confusing. complaining and being loving are mutually exclusive?

To me, if a person is continuously arguing or looking for a fight, there are deeper problems in the relationship or with that individual. What it sounds like is that if a woman fixes to argue at all, any disagreement, she isn't a "submissive" (re: loving) person. You're setting someone up to fail if you expect them to be without opinions, desires, or needs. I need more examples, because I can't imagine a woman who argues all the time or likes confrontation is happy in the relationship or with the man's actions (if she is, this isn't a submissive thing, it's that you two don't belong together. doubt often manifests as arguments)
You're making it more confusing that it actually is. I said nothing about wanting a woman who agrees with everything I say and never expresses her opinions or desires. I'm not talking about women who argue all the time, but I'm talking about women who choose when they want to cooperate and when they want to be confrontational. If you haven't been around these type of women then that explains the confusion.
 

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Most black women aren't submissive. fukk you though.
It should be about mutual respect not submission. Most women nowadays make their own money, drive their own cars, can afford to live by themselves. Why would they give up all that freedom and independence to submit to another human being!?!?!? Especially when that human being may end up leaving her, like OP???
 
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