If somebody cheats on you why bother to confront them about it?

[msims]

Easy to be rational when you're not going through it.

Only because, when you're going through it, you don't think rationally.

This is the reality of it:

The person did not care for you enough to fight off the temptation. And they didn't respect you enough to Donell Jones themselves out of the relationship. So clear your mind, and don't contact that person.

The lack of contact will hurt them more than it will hurt you.

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[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

Y'all nikkas SWEAR y'all so macho and emotionless.

Knowing once you find out you were cheated on, you gon leave the house and go cry in the car. Its OK to show feelings and emotions. I promise your manhood card won't be revoked on sight.


With that being said, I just want to know why. If I invested time and energy, Im at least owed an explanation.

these cats are just young...they all think theyre he-men with no emotions...

you not gonna invest time into someone and just turn your back...

not saying you gonna takem back...but something will be said

 

[winb83]

Only because, when you're going through it, you don't think rationally.

This is the reality of it:

The person did not care for you enough to fight off the temptation. And they didn't respect you enough to Donell Jones themselves out of the relationship. So clear your mind, and don't contact that person.

The lack of contact will hurt them more than it will hurt you.

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to confront them you have to acknowledge them as a person. one of the greatest acts of disrespect is to not even acknowledge someone's existence.

all that needs to be said is "you and I know what you did and we're through." you straight up act like it doesn't even phase you. like they're so insignificant you brush them like some dirt off your shoulder and the game goes on like they never existed. That will hurt them deeper than them cheating on you hurt you. deep down they wanna matter to you and when you let them know they don't you walk away with all the power.

when you start asking all these questions and visibly struggling with what they did to you it empowers them. it lets them know they really mattered to you and hurt you deeply. all i'm saying is why give them that satisfaction?

 

[winb83]

these cats are just young...they all think theyre he-men with no emotions...

you not gonna invest time into someone and just turn your back...

not saying you gonna takem back...but something will be said

like i said just tell them you know what you did. don't even tell them what they did just let them know you know what they did and the consequences of that is that yall are through.

its like when you're a little kid and you do some bad shyt and get caught and your parents yell out your name and tell you get your ass in here you know what you did right before they beat your ass. they don't go into all that bullshyt they come at you from a position of power they don't even break it down they just tell you that you know and you really do know then the punishment hits.

as for your emotion comment like i said we all have emotions but they don't have to control you or factor into what you do in the least. it doesn't make you a better person because you let your emotions dictate your actions.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Can't co-sign this thread.

My HS sweetheart and the girl I lost my virginity to cheated on me. I knew something was up cause she was acting different/distant. I confronted her about it one night after we went out. We stopped having sex, so I was like something is up, and I just came out and asked her if she was sleeping with someone else. She was like yeah, shyt made me sick... we sat in her drive way for like 30 minutes talking. I wanted to know why, how, where it went down... she told me. I called her out of her name a few times, and how I felt. I was hurt brehs.


After I got some new ass I was good though.

What did that accomplish though? Still didn't change the fact she stepped out on you.. That half hour was just a waste of time/energy..

 

[GoldenGlove]

Easy to be rational when you're not going through it.

Thread is stupid

What did that accomplish though? Still didn't change the fact she stepped out on you.. That half hour was just a waste of time/energy..

So after she admitted it, it would have been normal of me to just drive off without asking any questions? It would have been better for me to go home and just think all about it?

I honestly was thinking that I wouldn't see her again at that point. She was the first girl I was in love with breh. nikkas acting like they have stone hearts and don't feel shyt.

 

[sixsixtwo]

So after she admitted it, it would have been normal of me to just drive off without asking any questions? It would have been better for me to go home and just think all about it?

I honestly was thinking that I wouldn't see her again at that point. She was the first girl I was in love with breh. nikkas acting like they have stone hearts and don't feel shyt.

I wasn't even trying to clown, just trying to see things from your perspective since mine is the polar opposite of yours..