if the number 1 thing women look for is a man with a stable job....

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Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job. :win:
 

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Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job. :win:


ok? you want daps for that?:yeshrug:
 

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What happens if he loses it?

:patrice:

Is he no longer of value in your mind?

Who is your? :leostare:.... I believe you are referring to this survey,
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1) Who are the people surveyed (it was only 369 people... chances are they were white....
2) Notice there was nothing in there questioning if looks are important...


What women (and men) REALLY want: survey proves men care more about looks... while women need their partner to be rich and ambitious

Mr Saad said: 'Choosing someone who might be a poor provider or an unloving father would have serious consequences for a woman and for her offspring.'
The survey, carried out at Concordia University in Montral, Quebec, Canada, gave overall descriptions of potential partners, along with positive and negative descriptions. It showed that an attractive body and an attractive face were seen as more important to men, while earning potential and ambition were more important to women. Both said kindness and intelligence were equally important to both

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/art...-looks-women-need-partner-rich-ambitious.html
 

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Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job. :win:
so what about the men who do make under $15 who do have health insurance, a 401k, save money on the side, pay their bills on time, and are wise about how they spend their money, but need you to contribute to the team? Compared that to someone who makes more money but might spend it foolishly. Or are you looking for a man that makes enough money where you can just put "I fukk my husband" on a w2 form.
 
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