if the number 1 thing women look for is a man with a stable job....

[Doin2Much Williams]

Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job.

And because you're so caught up on his attributes and benefits...

Spoiler

Look me in the eye and tell me he loyal.


Bytch you crazy.

 

[street heat]

fukk what women want, focus on yourself. they just want to lock you down so they can let themselves go anyway. if you don't like it so what ? they will just file for divorce and take child support.

these days you've got more to lose than gain in a relationship

 

[Jhoon]

I think most would be willing to stay if the guy is actively looking for another job. Some will leave, most won't. Just my opinion.

It depends on their situation. If they were not together a significant amount of type before the white collar work, shes leaving. If shes white collat and hes blue collar, depending on if the job is union or not, shes gone. If shes blue collar and hes same or lower, she will stay put.

 

[beenz]

a black woman turns 30, you're gone.

I highly doubt his wife is gonna be black ....I'm just sayin

 

[Ashley Banks]

I highly doubt his wife is gonna be black ....I'm just sayin

you're right

 

[Hyperion]

I would hope she stays, cause sometimes shyt happens. And it's not like they hand out jobs like condoms at the clinic. It's probably going to take a while. If she'd dip out within a week or two, then you know what it was.

 

[13473]

actually if i ever get married i will never leave my wife until she dies

what if you find out she's cheating
or does the bolded mean you will kill her

 

[Yup]

A man that is ambitious and that values his his family will not stay jobless for long. He will make himself useful one way or another. Very different from a man that is lazy and would rather see his wife work and take care of his kids while he gets catered to.
Women despise lazy men not to be confused with men that have fallen on hard times. I will not leave my husband for forces that be, I will leave a man that is lazy and expects me to foot his lifestyle.

 

[Jhoon]

I would hope she stays, cause sometimes shyt happens. And it's not like they hand out jobs like condoms at the clinic. It's probably going to take a while. If she'd dip out within a week or two, then you know what it was.

Let me confess something to yall. The lady I wad messing with one time were going through some stuff, for 3 months she "suffered". The minute I got fired, she kicked me out 2 days later. Coincidence? I learned a lot from that episode. A lot. I found a job 4 months later and guess who came calling again?

 

[babylon1]

And I never said there was anything wrong with that. You and a few other bytch ass ninjas here took offense to me saying I sought a man with a career who can provide for ME and our daughter...not a low paying hourly job.

why should he have to provide for you? why isn't the burden on you to provide?

 

[Hyperion]

Let me confess something to yall. The lady I wad messing with one time were going through some stuff, for 3 months she "suffered". The minute I got fired, she kicked me out 2 days later. Coincidence? I learned a lot from that episode. A lot. I found a job 4 months later and guess who came calling again?

And women wonder why successful men can be so jaded. Well, when you're on the come up or you're struggling, not even the wind blows in your direction. All the people who said they were gonna hold it down for you suddenly are 'too busy' and your text inbox is looking like the Wild West with the tumbleweeds rolling by. So when life is now all good and you're walking down the street like and old nikkas and hoes hit you up like "Ay wassup breh, haven't heard from you in a minute... we gotta catch up sometime " of course you'd be giving them the . And since people are gossipy, word goes round fast... and to him, you may have heard it from a girlfriend or something and might think you're trying to get that stimulus off him. May not be fair if you were innocent and had nothing to do with any of that, but wasn't fair to him when the only thing that was holding him down in his struggling days was gravity either. Cold world.

 

[Drake is God]

Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job.

You better be in shape to be making these demands

 

[Wild self]

She probably average as hell.

You better be in shape to be making these demands

 

[Snoopy Loops]

Most of you ninjas were likely broke even with a job (remember y'all take pride in/brag about having a job that pays $10-$15 an hour, no family health insurance, no 401k, none of the other things that makes you an adequate provider/someone that a woman would feel bad about losing)....so the chicks with you broke ninjas are used to being with ninjas at the bottom of the totem pole.

As for the rest of us who married men who CAN provide and are at the top of the totem pole...chances are he saved, invested, has a 401k, IRA....so we will be fine until he finds a new job.

Who do you think you are foolin?

 

[mamba]

A man that is ambitious and that values his his family will not stay jobless for long. He will make himself useful one way or another. Very different from a man that is lazy and would rather see his wife work and take care of his kids while he gets catered to.
Women despise lazy men not to be confused with men that have fallen on hard times. I will not leave my husband for forces that be, I will leave a man that is lazy and expects me to foot his lifestyle.

What you're saying sounds good in theory, but it's not reality.

That's not what we see everyday in Black America. Everybody knows a lazy nikka who does nothing but sit at home all day, play Madden and smoke while his woman is at work.

Black women, in particular, love dudes like that. They love that on-demand dikk when they get home.